Are you still planning on trying to have another of the lone gender? YES
Do you think it's a big deal for that child not to have a brother/sister to grow up with? Oh! YES, he told me that he wants a little brother. Many...many times. He really only has the girls to play with.
If you only have one girl is she, or do you think she will be, more of a tomboy?
I have 2 girls and they love to play hard like the boys that's dd2 and dd3.
And if you only have one boy is he, or do you think he will be, kind of girlie?
Emily my boy screams like a girl. Its funny when he does it but its scary.
If your lone gendered child is older how do they feel about not having a brother/sister and being the only one? Thank God my son is not the oldest. My son is split in the middle like a sandwich.
Do you think that child has a better mother/daughter or father/son relationship then they would if they had a same gendered sibling because of their desire to bond with the same gender?
I think he will have a better relationship towards his sisters. Im going to tell you why. I have a neighboor single mother of 4. she has 2 boys and 2 girls. The boys are in the middle ( 1year apart) and they get along great they play together very well and they get along with big sister and they like to take care of their baby sister. But their mother treats them all the same.
We bond with the kids ALL the same NO favorites for me.
Does that child play with their siblings well, or are they always alone?
Well we get the typical brother/sister pick on each other and fight.
Does that child have a lot of same gendered cousins or friends they play with?
Unfortunally, we moved out of LA county and he doesn't get to see his cousins. There is more girls than boys on my family Im taking about 2nd cousin. My sisters have NO children. Dh step-brother had 5 boys but they live in LA. But its rare when we see them we try to avoid seeing them to avoid problems.
Do the other siblings feel like that child is favored or treated special because they are the only boy/girl?
NO, all my children are treated the same.
Do you like the way your family makeup is?
To be honest YES and NO. But I do believe that ds should have a brother rather than having his father to play with all the time. Its just not the same. DS has told me so many times.
Do people comment a lot on your family gender ratio, if yes are the comments good or bad?
No negative comments.