I hope you can help me. We will be making our first attempt for a son this August and I am so nervous. I am using Wondfo OPKs to see when I get the surge but I am so confused regarding on when the 12-15 hours is actually to be done because of is it positive or not. So I will be getting either Clearblue Easy Fertility Monitor or Clear blue Easy Digital Ovulation Tests. I really don't think my DH is going to go for CBFM. Can anyone that uses either of them tell me the difference? Do we DTD right before O or on top of O? I am trying to prepare for this attempt as much as possible. I was leaning towards the digital Ovulation test with my Wondfos but I get sometimes 2-3 days of ++s. I am having nightmares of the O+12hour theory and having another girl (but if God determines it, I would be okay). I would just like to help as much as possible for male spermies to catch my egg.
thank you so much