if i can add to my story now, my husband was placed up for adoption but the "birth mother" thought she was in a better place a few years later, in a stable relationship and off drugs, she got pregnant again and had another baby boy. she and the boyfriend killed him. he was crying too much and again they got high and smothered him with a pillow. both went to jail which is where my husband found his birth mother. sometimes adoption is the better choice.
Again, in your dh's situation, it was definitely the right choice.Not arguing with that.
My point is, in most situations, it is not the best choice.
'06 '09 '11
I'm in no way "disappointed" that I have sons, I just want the chance to raise a daughter as well.
Want to try for a early next year!