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i cant seem to fall in love!!

I love my kids!

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30-Apr-12 7:14 am

Count me to the list of people that didn't feel in love immediately either, and I had my desired gender with my first!  I had a horrible labor and the pain was really intense.  Honestly, the amount of pain my va-jay-jay was in after birth was horrendous.  I kept begging them for something stronger that ibuphofen because that just wansn't cutting it.  Not to mention, because she had swallowed fluid, I didn't get to see her until 7am that morning and I had her at 1 minute after midnight.

It took months and months to bond, and I had PPD.  The pain vanishing and falling in love instantly was a bunch of BS for me.

Just know, you are not alone.

Baby Bear Girl Amelia 7/1/2010      Baby Bear Boy  Maddox  5/7/2012   [