@Julianna<If all I had to do was convince my head then maybe the therapy "logic"
would work fine, but it's my heart that can't be convinced that never
having a girl is okay>
well said hun. I feel you. this makes perfect sense to me too. its so easy to say see a therapist, but its not easy to fix the emptiness in your heart when having a daughter was a life long dream. people have different priorities. mine was having a daughter as well. i cant handle someone telling me to cut my losses, see what i have, move one......nah, all that doesnt really help.