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1-Apr-12 2:05 pm
I am 17+ weeks and have had zero dreams about the sex. Last night, I had a dream I had another boy. When I peeled back his diaper and saw a penis, I was devastated. I tried to convince the hospital staff that it wasn't my baby because it looked nothing like my other son or my husband and I. I felt terrible in the morning :(
 

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1-Apr-12 2:55 pm
well if it helps you I had only vivid dreams about the gender of this baby.. never with my 2 DS did I ever have a gender dream. When I was about 12 weeks pregnant I had the most vivid dream of labor and delivery of this baby.. and saw "her" clear as day.. her face, eyes, hair, and that she was a girl. Flash forward to our 16 week ultrasound and they told us that we are having DS3.. this was after several more dreams that I had with a baby girl in it.. and I even had a few after that scan. So, maybe the OWT is true that you dream the opposite of the gender you are really having. Hope that is the case for you! GL!!

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 I have had one dream so far. I had a dream that I was at the ultrasound and they showed me it was another BOY!!  I was crying so hard in my dream that I was actually crying when I woke up [:'(]  I mean I was BAWLING!!  I felt so gutted and empty. I then felt bad for feeling like that. This is my absolute LAST chance.. I thought we were done, but life had other plans for us!  

I have read so many times though, that when you dream of the sex of the baby - it's the opposite. I am hoping that's the case for us!!  

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1-Apr-12 4:08 pm
i read somewhere you usually dream the oppisite of what you are having. it was always true for me. everytime i dreamed i had a boy got all girls. this time i knew i was having my 8th daughter. its a boy.

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1-Apr-12 5:22 pm

 Also, it could be because of our fears of not getting a girl. The "finding out it's a boy and then being devastated" part.. It's our worst fear!  

But, I am hoping it's because we got our "opposites" in there!!  Pray

 

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1-Apr-12 5:23 pm
With this pregnancy I had several very vivid dreams about having a boy and it's a girl!! I had dreams about 2 of my friends having boys and one had a girl and the other is having a girl soon.... and another friend I dreamt boy/girl twins and that what she's having but that ones right either way. Good luck!

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1-Apr-12 6:44 pm
It's funny hearing these stories from others as well!! I hated the feeling of the intense disappointment I felt. My ultrasound is the 16th. Obviously, the scan is to check for normal anatomy....we haven't decided whether to find out or not....still going back and forth about the pros and cons.

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1-Apr-12 6:52 pm
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I am 17+ weeks and have had zero dreams about the sex. Last night, I had a dream I had another boy. When I peeled back his diaper and saw a penis, I was devastated. I tried to convince the hospital staff that it wasn't my baby because it looked nothing like my other son or my husband and I. I felt terrible in the morning :(
Ugh! Tell me, are boys really that bad? If so I don't want any!!!


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1-Apr-12 6:59 pm
i don't think its bad, personally i like penis's. but i guess if i have to look at them all day i might want to see something different. like it might really suck if your husband was an ob/gyn. he might be so sick of lady parts he wouldn't want to have anything to do with mine.

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Azuremyst"][quote user="nursembm:
I am 17+ weeks and have had zero dreams about the sex. Last night, I had a dream I had another boy. When I peeled back his diaper and saw a penis, I was devastated. I tried to convince the hospital staff that it wasn't my baby because it looked nothing like my other son or my husband and I. I felt terrible in the morning :([/quote] Ugh! Tell me, are boys really that bad? If so I don't want any!!!
 

LOL!! Are you asking if little boy "parts" are "that bad? The answer is... no. :) I live in a house of little boys and their parts are small and look nothing like adult male "parts" if you kwim! ;) Also there aren't a lot of "folds" like with girls and easier to clean (or so I've heard from my friends who have both genders).

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1-Apr-12 8:34 pm

 

 I have both and boys are WAY easier to clean. You have to worry about bladder infections and other things with girls! I find changing a boy diaper is a lot easier than a girl (and only got peed on twice by him, he's pretty good about that). 

Back to the original poster--I had vivid dreams of having a boy and we had a lovely girl. When I was PG with our second, I had dreams he was a girl and we have a lovely boy. I never knew it was an OWT that you dream about one gender and yours is the opposite, but it certainly was true for me!

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2-Apr-12 11:10 am
I dreamt that DS1 and DS2 were both boys. With DS3 I had a very vivid dream about having a baby girl where I could see her face, I heard her name (although it was not a name I have ever thought about using), and I even knew her birth weight...but he is definitely all boy! With this pregnancy I had a dream about having twins and one was a girl, but I am not having twins. I won't find out what I have having until April 24th, so we'll see if it's a girl or not. I wouldn't worry too much about the dream though. Good Luck! I hope you get your baby girl this time! :-)

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2-Apr-12 11:12 am

 when I was pregnnat with my boys- I always dreamt about having a girl -Now Pregnant with a girl - I dreamt it was a boy - of course before finding out gender.. 

I dream opposite.  My BF says she always dreamt about the gender she was having.  so I guess it would depend on what is true for you 

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2-Apr-12 12:35 pm
I have so far had 1 vivid dream that this pregnancy is a girl, I felt gutted really, because I usually dream opposite. I have also recently dreamt that my best friend had a boy, she is due this week, and I'm convinced she's having a girl.... We shall see!!
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29-May-12 7:16 pm
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LOL!! Are you asking if little boy "parts" are "that bad? The answer is... no. :) I live in a house of little boys and their parts are small and look nothing like adult male "parts" if you kwim! ;) Also there aren't a lot of "folds" like with girls and easier to clean (or so I've heard from my friends who have both genders).
I hear that, my daughter has waaay too many cracks LOL


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