"get rid of it"!! WTF!! Seriously!! I can't do that! [/quote] so sorry that your husband has no regard for a child that you have made together, how anyone in a "stable loving marriage" can say that is beyond me. Do what you want, to kill a baby is a big deal and you have to do in your gut what is right otherwise it will break your marriage if you forever hold it against him. Maybe he needs some time to come round.
He has came around He is okay now. He was just in shock and worried how we were gonna be able to take care of another kid. He has accepted it now and knows I would NEVER kill my baby.
He has even came around so much, that he has told he thinks it's a girl I am PRAYING he is right - he was right with DS2 and DS3...