I am completely in the same boat as you two ladies. I have to boys also and I am totally terrified of another male. Not only am I the only female in my home, but my boys are definitly those crazy, running all over and climbing things kind of boys. This would be the first for DH and I together so I know trying is in my future. I also feel like now that I have him on this TTC boat, I should take advantage before he changes his mind or something, but the anxiety of worrying "did we do it this time" is starting to get to me. Im torn between giving myself time to get used to the idea and just jumping on board while we're both on the same page. Ive wanted this for a long time, but now Im just afraid.