Hi all. We're TTC pink again next month (following 6 wk m/c having taken 12mths for BFP - was trying cut off and kept missing Ov completely).
Having read SO much info, our decision has come down to:
a) Regular BD (at least daily) from AF to O, try for a 3 day cutoff (very difficult to do as my Ov varies by 1-7 days every month, and my CBFM doesn't always give me 'HIGH' days, just 'PEAK')
b) 0+12 abstain for 7 days and BD 0+12 - if I can work out the exact moment of Ov that is
Got 2 main worries:
DH is 42 and I've read that abstaining in older men COULD damage sperm & cause defects (is 42 classed as older?)
I'm 39 and I've read that an 'old' egg (ie 0+12) COULD cause abnormalities but not much research has been done
Do we go for option a) or b)? OR I came up with option c) which was regular 'release' and then try 0+12 (assuming the 'old' egg is actually ok)
Obviously the utmost priority is a healthy baby, but we would like to sway too. Would really appreciate any opinions, as I'm driving myself (and DH) crazy.
Thank you in advance!!! xx