2-Dec-10 9:54 am
I'm so sorry you're going through this! It sucks. As for buying presents, get your niece something gender neutral in color and type. How old is she? There are lots of awesome gender neutral toys and books, and white is always a good color for clothes. You don't have to buy her something frilly and pink. There are lots of great stuffed animals, wood blocks, and other toys meant for either gender. A white blanket is pretty, too. There is nothing wrong with you not wanting to buy pink or spend time in the girl section of the store. HTH!
Crunchy mama two DS and married 6 years to my wonderful DH. I'm NEVER having another boy!