26-Oct-11 1:14 am
First let me say I'm sorry you're going through this with your DH, and also sorry there's no source of sympathy or understanding for you in real life. People can be really hurtful when they think they're "just trying to help" with their comments about "getting over it" and "being grateful."
I'm also where you are with DH, and it's so bitter painful and scary...but we only have 4 (all girls).
Now let me confess I'm tearfully jealous you got your boy.