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7-Jun-10 9:41 pm

I had an interesting private message that was sent to me about gender dissappointment. My message was that I was lying to myself to use to name 'blessedwithlove', because how can I be truely happy having 4 boys. It also  stated me as being 'sad and depressed' and should never give the advice of trying for another because 'I should know how much it hurts having all boys

Well I am here to say that I LOVE MY BOYS and I am happy for the whole world to know it. Of course I would be lying if I said that it didn't hurt to get my daughter (but I may not be finished yet ), but that doesn't mean that I love my boys any less. Those of you that have 3 or 4 of the same gender know the feelings that we all go through, but I have 4 healthy, loving, gorgeous boys and feel very 'BLESSED'.

I have always wanted a big family. And if I had of known  prior to having children that this would have been the family that I was given, would I still have gone ahead with my 4 boys......without a doubt.

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7-Jun-10 9:47 pm

If someone sends you a nasty/inappropriate private message, please click the little "report" button...

I have no doubt that you love your boys!  I wanted girls, but I think my little ones are pretty much the bee's knees -- and I'm sure you do too!

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7-Jun-10 9:48 pm
That is so mean to send a message like that. Im sure you are happy with your boys! Children are great no matter what gender.

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7-Jun-10 9:52 pm

OMG that pisses me off. I'm sure I can guess who sent that to you. Can't we just ban this troll already! Oh I could reach through my  computer and smack the crap out of someone.

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7-Jun-10 10:25 pm

I have gotten messages too.  Can you PM me with the name of your messenger?

 

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7-Jun-10 10:35 pm

FiveCuties~♥~OneLove:

OMG that pisses me off. I'm sure I can guess who sent that to you. Can't we just ban this troll already! Oh I could reach through my  computer and smack the crap out of someone.

 

I can guess as well!!!! Awesome - glad I wasn't the only one who thought of that!

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7-Jun-10 10:37 pm

Some people are so lame Doh!

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7-Jun-10 10:39 pm

Did this person call you "creepy" and have the WORST. GRAMMAR. EVER?  Doh!

I have a pretty good idea of who it is also...

Pay no mind to the troll.  

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7-Jun-10 11:03 pm

BeebsNBubbs:

Did this person call you "creepy" and have the WORST. GRAMMAR. EVER?  Doh!

I have a pretty good idea of who it is also...

Pay no mind to the troll.  

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8-Jun-10 2:41 am

That's sinking to an all new low, frankly speaking, and I'm sorry that someone thought that the whole spirit of this forum is to sink to such a level. If it weren't for you all boy moms of 3, 4, 5 or more, I don't know what I would do for support! I've come to the conclusion that just like in IRL, there are people here that you like, love reading their thoughts, and would actually like to count as friends and there are those who, well, it's best to avoid....

But Beebs, your response made me Laugh Out Loud.

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8-Jun-10 2:52 am

 OMG! That makes me angry- who in the world would ever say something like that?? Great of you to post it- you love your boys obviously. Don't let someone else's problems invade you- that is so offensive, I am at awe for just the right words. What nerve!!

 

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8-Jun-10 3:24 am

 ooooooooo PM me the name too, This way i know who to avoid. Anywho I would ignore it! You are blessed no matter what gender you have. Some people are just pain idiots and i would just put it all down to their intelligence. Someone like that isn't worth the shit that comes out their mouths.

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8-Jun-10 7:12 am

BeebsNBubbs:

Did this person call you "creepy" and have the WORST. GRAMMAR. EVER?  Doh!

I have a pretty good idea of who it is also...

Pay no mind to the troll.  

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This! I'm guilty of feeding the troll, but I won't anymore, as I'm out of peanuts. Happy Wink

 

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8-Jun-10 7:16 am

How sad to pm others with awful messages just to get a reaction, just goes to show what a sad, unfulfilled life they have.

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8-Jun-10 7:22 am

FiveCuties~♥~OneLove:

OMG that pisses me off. I'm sure I can guess who sent that to you. Can't we just ban this troll already! Oh I could reach through my  computer and smack the crap out of someone.

 

Agree I'm with you

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