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Cuddlebuddy I have wanted to ask those questions too. I'm not religious even tho I was christened catholic. I wish I could have the faith some people have. Why would God not give me a daughter? If i was meant to have boys he has done an amazing job at giving me 5 healthy sons to raise, but why couldn't I be a mum to a daughter too? Just one? Failing that, why cant he help me see the reason for all...
03 Apr 2013 11:57 AM
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Congratulations NewBaby! Your special little girl is so lucky to have you as a mum!
09 Feb 2013 9:17 PM
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Thanks for the replies everyone. Only just having a chance to write back now as I cant do it on my phone for some reason! I think when we try again we will sway. Not really sure if i believe in them but it cant hurt to try can it! I think, for me anyway there is a lot of social pressure not to have anymore children and I do get lots of snidey comments! People who say stuff are the ones who cant co...
25 Jan 2013 8:13 AM
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sorry for the lack of paragraphs! I did put them but they haven't shown up!
23 Jan 2013 4:16 PM
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I joined this site in August 2007 but my GD started in 2006 after my first son was born. I never talk on here but I come on everyday and read all your posts. I always thought I would have a daughter. I remember even thinking it from a young age and looking forward to it! That seems crazy I know but I was so wrapped up in the idea that when I got pregnant for the first time I just automatically tho...
23 Jan 2013 4:15 PM
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Aww he's beautiful! I just noticed from your signature you named him Jace, I had my 5th son in October and that's his name too! Also I had a homebirth too. It was planned tho, can't imagine having to do it on my own! You did an amazing job well done! Xxx
21 Nov 2012 2:39 PM
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good luck today! hope its a girl xxx
20 Jun 2012 2:24 PM
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I'm sorry you're upset. I know how you feel :( your boys are all gorgeous and this little man was just meant to be too xxxx
19 Jun 2012 6:25 AM
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Congratulations newbaby hes gorgeous!! xxxxxxxx
18 Jun 2012 10:26 AM
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I'm really sorry you didn't hear girl. I know how your feeling xxxxxx
22 May 2012 10:58 AM
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thankyou everyone! reading all your comments really does help! i feel like i cant talk to anyone about it in real life. feel kinda alone!! this baby was a surprise so now i know its another boy i feel so lost :( i kept waking up thru the night last night thinking "omg 5 kids!!" i know i can do it, i just need to focus and keep doing what i'm already doing. i was feeling so positive at the beginnin...
22 May 2012 10:52 AM
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Hi everyone. It's another boy. Just dont know how to feel. I did think it was a boy anyway but now I know for sure its really hard to accept I will never have a daughter :(
21 May 2012 11:54 AM
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Thankyou everyone! I do get some lovely comments on how much fun our house must be, and it is, but then it seems the majority are negative or at least negative without knowing it. There's been so many things in the past few weeks from my mum (she had 3 girls). She says she would have loved a son but just doesn't seem to get my boys when they get rambunctious! I know she's not used to it and I have...
20 May 2012 5:56 PM
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I'm so nervous! I sooooo want to hear girl but also playing in the back of my mind is, am I going to be lucky enough to have 5 healthy children in a row!? Just want everything to be ok! everyone knows i want a daughter so much, i think if it comes back that i am having another boy people will think im a joke. just dreading all the "well meant" comments that are actually hurtful. maybe im over sens...
20 May 2012 4:20 PM
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Congratulations!!!!!!! X
01 May 2012 8:01 PM
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PinkpinkBLUE, you're right it does feel very raw. thats how i felt when my sister had a girl and i had a boy. it just makes it really hard to forget the desire you have for a certain gender when there is a new baby of that gender around you and its not yours! its like you cant find closure. i'm so scared of feeling that way again, it was awful. i hope you get your son! my children are quite close ...
24 Apr 2012 2:55 PM
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i thought it was a foot too x
24 Apr 2012 7:41 AM
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thanks everyone :) x
24 Apr 2012 6:28 AM
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i think i feel like it would be too much of a coincidence that we will both have girls in the space of a month of each other and bring the number of granddaughters from 1 to 3 so quickly. plus, since i have 4 sons already im just predisposed to think that i will have another x
24 Apr 2012 6:23 AM
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Thankyou sneakypete its nice to hear of two people closely connected having the same gender. I do like to think its like flipping a coin and I'm just on.a boy streak. Bambino I had my dating scan when I was 10 weeks 2 days so no nub can be seen :( for some reason I think it still looks like a boy x
23 Apr 2012 6:40 PM
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Bambino i hope you get your boy and Swaying i hope you get your girl soon! I kinda think its set in stone with me because when i was having my 2nd son my sister was due 2 weeks before me and had a girl. i had really bad gender disappointment over my 2nd son and now im wondering if it was because there was a baby girl so close to me. im scared of feeling so sad again! i find out on the 21st of May,...
23 Apr 2012 3:25 PM
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my fiance's sister is having her 2nd daughter and we are due a month apart. i know it probably sounds stupid but do you think its more likely that i am having the opposite gender to her i.e another boy? is it very unlikely that we will both have girls within a month of each other? x
23 Apr 2012 2:07 PM
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yes, i eat loads of dairy and adore milk and i always have boys x
20 Apr 2012 11:43 AM
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Aww I'm having baby number 5 who is also a surprise (only had my last son in july!!) I've got 4 sons so I'm praying this little one is a girl!
my scan is 21st may! its just too long to wait!! sometimes i feel so sure its a girl but i dont want to get my hopes up which is sooo hard!
maybe these little surprise babies will be girls! x
18 Apr 2012 8:55 AM
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ohh yes that does make sense actually! didnt realise zooming in would cut out the placenta but duh haha! thanks for your reply! just hate not knowing soooooo much! x
17 Apr 2012 4:54 PM
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