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threeboys- where about you from in aus? i'm brisbane
18 Mar 2013 1:18 PM
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Oh gosh i wish i returned sooner to IG, Congrats on your daughter threeboys&?... i guess you wrote this post when you didnt know. thankyou! I feel i could acept another boy. but i still have such down moments, but i'm starting to realise more and more that it's over the cosmetic stuff of having a daughter. well i do really want the emotional relationship witha daughter too, as much as i've alw...
18 Mar 2013 1:11 PM
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It's funny you say that cos i have noticed it.... DS3 people struggle the most with.... i think by the time ds4 comes, it's almost expected. and you are aware of the feelings and handle those emotions before it grabs you by the ankles and bashes you into the ground. I'm so glad you are at peace with it. I'm still trying to talk my hubby it's another go... but no way in hell will i sway again. He's...
18 Mar 2013 12:45 PM
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That's tough. I know this isn't going to help you, but my DS3 pregnancy was completely different to my first two... and i was certain that this was it. I don't want to give you false hopes. But this could also very well be your lil girl. you just wont know until they are hear. I think if I was to go again... fx one day my husband will just give in and give me what i want... I wont find out the gen...
18 Mar 2013 12:29 PM
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Thanks for the responses guys. I don't think I'm ever going to get over it... it'll hopefully just lessen over time. I reckon as my boys get older and start attending school parties it'll come back again and bite me.... and even when they start getting married.... it's gunna hurt then too. Islandmeadow- you are completely right about the whole "things are adapted for girls but not for boys".... my...
04 Oct 2012 11:44 PM
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i heard Leroy the other day... levi is too common, asher i like, jeremiah was a bullfrog, micah think big girls you are beautiful and roman.... never heard it for a name before i guess i'd have to hear it said. also liking Ruben lately,
01 Oct 2012 1:11 PM
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after boy number 3.... i always cop how much they look like their father. so it pisses me that i never got a girl, a redhead... or a look-in with the looks.
01 Oct 2012 1:06 PM
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I'm back again.... not ttc... no plans to ever go back again. maybe daydreams. Just need to stomp my feet a little, get it out of my system. My ds3 is 1 in November.... planning his party... and it's a superhero theme.... which was great, until tonight, when i was cutting out the capes for the kids, and realised that most of the smaller capes were that for girls... yes pink. Then I thought a...
01 Oct 2012 1:00 PM
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Sabrine- happily im feeling better today.... but did get knocked down again (for a short while) when i recieved a birth announcement from a friend, with photos of her beautiful redhead girl..... i spoke about her previously. and first thought was, "are you fucking kidding me, why does she feel the need to rub her girl in my face?".... but you know she probaby wouldve sent a similar thing if she'd ...
13 Jul 2012 12:14 PM
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I started thinking it was "that time of month" talking... exagerating my thoughts.... but no she;s gone, and so is my dream of having a daughter. this is fucked. It's a reliefe I'm not the only one who's bitter... and angry at themselves (and the world) for feeling this way. But I just want to isolate myself again. Tell everyone to fuck off and leave me alone, because although I can't see them or ...
12 Jul 2012 2:24 AM
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I hope so. I hope you are right.
10 Jul 2012 11:12 PM
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i ask myself those questions too sabrine, why do other people get what they want when i dont? i have to shake my head to rid those thoughts, because i know its stupid and we get what we are given. still doesnt stop the questions from haunting me. :( I was feeling so good a few months ago and thought i was over gd... even had a good post about it.... but now i'm a miserable friggen mess again.
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10 Jul 2012 7:50 AM
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Dreamingofxx... that how i feel... wouldnt trade my boys... just sad that my little girl will never hapen. i wass typing this post as my hubby climbed into bed, and i'm secretly hoping he read it (while pretending to watch tv). I dunno.... maybe he didnt. he knows how i feel.
waiting4daisy...i had a bit of a break down a few weeks back and havent bounced back like i normally would've... thats ...
09 Jul 2012 10:59 PM
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it's stupid, one minute everthing hunky doorey. then jealousy strikes and i get so friggen cranky. I hate being jealos of people i care so much about, and i want the best for them. Just hurts. I'm sure some of you understand what im saying. GD sucks arse.... in the sense of gender desire. so stupid... i love what i have... i guess its like they say "the grass is greener".... in a sense i feel that...
09 Jul 2012 12:25 PM
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yeah i agree... you'll get comments regardless... if ds3 had been a girl it wouldve been "lucky you, you can stop now"... even once i knew i was having a boy i kept getting people (strangers/patients) saying "i bet you are having a girl".... they judged on my size shape glow complexion. when i would correct them they would retort with "u/s can be wrong, dont be surprised if you get your little gir...
09 Jul 2012 12:17 PM
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no clues.... sorry
21 Jun 2012 2:10 PM
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Thats a terrible thing you are going through, i wish i could take all the pain away and give you back your angel baby. I'm absolutely heart broken for you. I hope you are able to fall pregnant quickly and have a positive experience with it. So hard. My friends mum experienced the same thing, just the day before they went on a short trip, she got checked out all good... then 2 days later (38wks) .....
21 Jun 2012 1:43 PM
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This is just a guess, cos nothing was obvious to me.... but girl. Congrats on a healthy baby! I hope things go well for you.
21 Jun 2012 1:11 PM
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Wow crazy.... hope your delivery went quickly.
21 Jun 2012 12:24 PM
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so..... i out the other day.... it was a drinking occasion... so i was pretty chirpy.... and taking to a bunch of people (strangers) and someone says to me "OH MY THREE BOYS"... as if to say it's a bad thing.... anyway I lauhed and said "Yup, and I wouldnt change it, they are perfect".... and then someone who has 2 boys was telling us her kids names... and one of them was Ruben Ace.... and I insta...
21 Jun 2012 12:07 PM
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Goodluck ladies. In your posts you can already feel the love you have for your baby boys.... it will magnify once they are here and in your arms.
Admittedly I get snagged with that desire for a girl every now and then. Concidering how good I've been, since this post I got a jab of it again. It's good being able to talk it out with some lovely supportive online friends from this site.
I lov...
12 Jun 2012 11:53 AM
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Juust looking back annd realising how far I've come.... my beautiful boy is 6months and my house of boys is wonderful. no regrets... all love!
Thank-you t all the beautiful supportive people on here. It's nice to know other people "get it" and together we can get through it. it kinda feels silly those feelings i had. they were real and hurtful at the time... but i simply couldnt see the big pic...
02 Jun 2012 12:38 PM
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maybe its replense????
01 Jun 2012 3:05 AM
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rephresh... maybe its the same name i cant remember... but you find it in priceline in the condom section.
Crystal light... is a non-sugar cordial must contain preservative number.... go look for it....951.
low salt bread... lol i never went that far into it.
01 Jun 2012 2:50 AM
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That tech is really unprofessional giving you a gender that early when the nub theory isn't even close to 100% accurate.
I was coming on to say a big congratulations on a boy... but I shall now say a big congratulations to a healthy baby!
Goodluck... I hope you do get your DG, but if you don't, the trifector is pretty awesome too. xx
01 Jun 2012 2:37 AM
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