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I know exactly what you are talking about - the love my boys have for each other is amazing. I haven't seen the bond that they share replicated in brother/sister relationships of friends with one of each. I am so grateful that I gave them each other, as they will have that forever. My third DS is due in a couple of weeks and I just hope that they will embrace him in the same way ...
09 Dec 2008 11:51 AM
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I was obsessed with all of these gender prediction tools - but have learnt the hard way - they are just for FUN. They have a 50/50 chance of getting it right. The chinese calendar said girl, the old wives tales pointed towards girls, the ring test - 2 different clairvoyants (late last year and early this year) both predicted I would have a girl - this is a surprise baby so I thought th...
21 Nov 2008 4:22 AM
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I love the motif's on the wall and the name ... where did you get them from (I am also in Sydney).
20 Nov 2008 10:50 PM
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I know exactly how you feel - this i my third DS and I was convinced it was a girl. Everything about it was different, my first two pregnancies were very similar - almost the same - this was so different - the thought of it being a boy did not even cross my mind. I had two clairvoyants tell me I had a girl around me and would be coming very soon - at the time, I thought they were ...
11 Nov 2008 5:13 AM
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Thankyou so much for having a look ... this was the only shot I got and the sonographer scanned over it pretty quickly, I asked her for a shot and she went back over it took the photo and moved on ... maybe my girl dream is still alive ... not sure whether I will have another u/s or just wait for ultimate confirmation at the baby's birth ...
At least its not as obvious as I thought ...
22 Oct 2008 11:22 PM
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I would guess BOY - but I am no expert ! Congratulations on your pregnancy.
22 Oct 2008 10:26 AM
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Ems - love your boys names - I also have a Bailey and this one will be Cooper if its a boy.
22 Oct 2008 7:14 AM
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bugger, that didn't work the way I expected it to ... will try to re-post picture.
22 Oct 2008 5:56 AM
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I think even to the untrained eye this one is really obvious - anyway could it fall into the "not so sure", "there is still chance of pink" category?
I think I am ok with another boy - or trying really hard to be ... but thought it was worth posting.
My nub guess were more skewed to girl, but I still had plenty of boy guesses ...
22 Oct 2008 5:52 AM
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Its not silly at all ... I believe that we get messages in our dreams, sometimes they are hard to decifer. I have had three significant and very vivid dreams since I was pregnant with this baby. In the first two dreams, I was at the ultrasound place and in both it was quite clearly a girl. There were toilet shots, tears, everything it seemed so real. When I found out I was ...
07 Oct 2008 11:12 AM
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Thank you for reading my post and sharing your dream stories. I do believe in dreams and angels and after reading your posts, think that I was getting a clear message. If this was a dream premonition, I could not live with myself if something happened to my unborn son ... to know that I chose for that to happen to him. It would be devastating. I went out this morning a...
06 Sep 2008 5:13 AM
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I am so sorry to hear that ... it does hurt when the people around you are having girls ... I am coming to terms with my GD and have started to reconcile that having a girl is not all peaches and cream. Yes, you can buy beautiful clothes, and they can long hair, and we can buy them dolls and take them to ballet etc, but not all mothers have wonderful relationships with their daughters ... so...
06 Sep 2008 5:07 AM
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Its so hard to think about how things will be when the boys are grown up ... I worry about being the MIL - its always the MIL that is spoken about ... after my dream last night, I am trying to focus on what I do have and not on what I will miss out on. There are many mother daugther relationships that are not all good. Life isn't perfect for mother/daughters either.
05 Sep 2008 12:01 PM
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Thank you for sharing your remarkable story - it is really inspirational and does put GD into perspective.
You have a truly beautiful baby and family.
05 Sep 2008 11:55 AM
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This morning I woke up from having the most bizarre dream ... I am sure it was to do with my GD since I found out I was having another boy on Monday. Just to give you some background, I have felt very emotional this week, cried for two days straight, can't speak to friends and just feel devastated that I received the news of a boy ... and then last night I had this dream ... I hope tha...
05 Sep 2008 11:20 AM
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These are completely normal feelings ... don't punish yourself over having these feelings. I can completely relate to your post, the psychics and everything - I was told that I would be having a baby girl (twice) and I knew that were weren't even trying or thinking of having a baby - I have always dreamed of having my little girl - I just had DS#3 confirmed and my heart is complet...
04 Sep 2008 6:15 AM
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I was rolling around laughing at this comment - I love it - I spat the dummy the other night at constantly cleaning pee off the toilet. A definate negative in having a house full of boys.
No your not, we all spend hours analysing our feelings ... I always try to see the good in situations as well, for me, I am wondering what I am meant to learn from this situation. Maybe it is th...
04 Sep 2008 12:56 AM
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I understand, it is usually the flippant comments from others that hurt the most. I don't even want to tell anyone we are having another boy as mostly the first words are "sorry" rather than congratulations. Even though i am sad about it, doesn't give other people the right to judge or comment on the gender balance (or lack thereof) in my family. I try to avoid people that make s...
04 Sep 2008 12:47 AM
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There is nothing silly about hoping for a little girl ... I hope you get your dream wish. Best of luck for the next few weeks.
04 Sep 2008 12:44 AM
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I know what you mean - I too still feel that this baby is a girl, even though I saw his maleness with my own eyes (couldn't miss it!). Everything about this pregnancy is so so so different to my 2 boys. The 2 boys were very similar. I have all the classic girl pregnancy signs, have had 2 different psychics tell me I was having a girl soon (which I thought was crap b/c we wer...
04 Sep 2008 12:42 AM
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There is no way that you are evil. I am so incredibly sorry for your loss, sometimes life just seems so cruel and unfair. The loss of any child is difficult, and I can only imagine this loss would feel heightened as you had been TTC for such a long time.
I am a strong believer in fate and would like to think that it just was not the right time for your little girl - I pray that...
04 Sep 2008 12:32 AM
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I have just found out that I am having my third DS and am still desperate for a girl. Australia does not allow sex selection and it seems that there is a place in Thailand that is affiliated with Sydney IVF that can do sex selection - does anyone know roughly how much this costs and what is involved? I am in the very early stages (given i am 19 weeks pregnant) of looking into whether t...
03 Sep 2008 7:12 AM
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You may just have to humour me here as I am really clinging to a false hope - but in the situations where the boy turned into girl - could you see a penis etc, or was it just lack of detail. My ultrasound showed definate boy - but if there is even a slight chance it could be wrong, I am willing to cling to that. Does anyone have an ultrasound picture of a boy that turned into a girl?
03 Sep 2008 3:03 AM
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I am so sorry that you have just found out you are having DS#5 - I can't even imagine the pain you must be feeling - I am in the same situation and found out this week that I am having DS#3 - I can't imagine how amplified #5 makes those feelings. My heart goes out to you ... I know how hard it is having girls around you - I have no deisre to go shopping or buy anything for this baby, I don't...
03 Sep 2008 2:52 AM
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You are the most amazing group of ladies that I have met - not literally obviously ... everything each of you has said just resonates with me, and I would like to thank each of you personally ... your comments have just meant so much - it is hard to describe the comfort that I have felt reading each and every post - and I thank you for sharing your experiences. While I hate that others are g...
03 Sep 2008 2:38 AM
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