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Thanks for all the replies. I was having a particularly bad day when I wrote my post...I have decided to stop seeing my psychologist instead of going on meds. Instead I am writing inspiring quotes on post-its and putting them all around the house. It's totally going to work...
Here's the latest: "There are only two ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is ...
22 Apr 2012 4:53 AM
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I'm so sorry for you. I know how you feel.
With my 13 week scan the ultrasound tech said "Don't paint the walls yet, but I'm pretty sure it is blue". I suspect they don't give you an indication unless they are sure though.
I was devastated. I held in my tears until I got to the car, and then I cried non-stop for 3 days, and then on and off until DS2 ...
22 Apr 2012 4:19 AM
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Exactly. I think it was because whenI found out I was having DS2 I realised that deep down I was also really hoping for pink when expecting DS1...I just assumed I would have a girl 2nd time around. That's how it works, right?
22 Apr 2012 3:51 AM
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I hear you. FB is bad news. Whenever someone announces they are having a girl there are so many "Girls are so much fun" comments like that, which reminds me that boys are sometimes really not fun at all. For someone with no interest whatsoever in cars and trucks and boy things (which is all mine ever want to do), to have to read these kinds of comments (which are innocent enough,...
22 Apr 2012 3:47 AM
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DS2 is now 2 months old, and although I love him to bits I am also constantly sad to think that he is not a girl. I feel like I am really struggling to be a good parent to my 2 boys now. DS1 is 2 1/2 and very demanding, and DS2 is suffering a little with reflux and I find myself just crying whenever DS2 cries.
I feel like it was only after hearing at my 13 week scan that it was...
18 Apr 2012 5:22 AM
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Thanks for your replies everyone! Now I think it does make sense to tell, because as you say, they are making stupid comments anyway about "I really wanted to buy some pink fabric today, but didn't want to jinx you", so yeah. At least that is something. Gosh, they are going to be let down...
04 Aug 2011 3:55 AM
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Have definitely seen these women in my mothers group - throwing judgemental looks at my son playing in mud and running around while their daughters quietly sit in their laps...I think these mothers have a lot to do with my own GD.
03 Aug 2011 6:09 AM
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This is my first post, so please forgive me if I do everything wrong.
Just had my 13wk scan and found out that we are having our 2nd boy. I tried gender swaying (girl diet), but we then messed the timing up in a big way. I’m pretty upset about it, as this will be our last baby, so no girl for me.
I really don’t want to tell friends and family (mostly the in-laws), as I really don’t w...
03 Aug 2011 5:49 AM
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