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update us soon.. with pics! congrats on your baby girl!
24 May 2013 9:09 PM
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my husband was a batchelor when we met. no children. but i had 3 girls. my youngest was only 2. so he dove into fatherhood and we went on to have 3 more daughters together ( one didn't make it) then finally a boy. dh freaked out, because he was so used to girls by then, this was something unknown and with a living breathing thing, thats really scary. he has such a bond with the girls i was scared ...
24 May 2013 5:53 PM
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i tried for 10 years to get a boy. it was my dream family to have 2 maybe 3 little boys. i didn't want girls. when i finally got pg with my son my world crashed because i heard so many negative things about boys. my husband freaked, he only knew girls. my family wasn't supportive at all. my friends laughed and said "you ruined your winning streak" then i would log in here and read such awful ...
24 May 2013 5:44 PM
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23 May 2013 10:09 PM
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hugs hun, i wish i knew what to say. i think its normal to want what we don't have. if i didn't have michael i would always secretly be wishing for a boy in the back of my mind. but you have seen how fragile their little lives are. you know the risks. i know you and i know at the end of the day you will adore any baby and welcome him or her with open arms. a brother for your son is something very ...
23 May 2013 9:19 PM
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i think the only option is to get on birth control pills for a few months to regulate a new cycle. not helpful if you are ttc but i guess waiting a few months might be better then nothing. i mean if we were only talking a few days i would say up the vitex maybe add more b6 and see what happens but you are talking weeks here so im not sure if they will help much. good luck to you
23 May 2013 9:07 PM
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LOL lovestheocean!! i was just going to say the same thing to you. you totally nailed it by what you said, im a big fan of yours and im so happy for you that you are getting over your gd. its such an awful thing to feel that way when you honestly don't want to, to have no control over your emotions is just heartbreaking. im glad you are feeling better. hugs.
23 May 2013 5:16 AM
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im so glad, it makes it all worthwhile to me if i can just have 1 person say, i don't wish for a miscarriage anymore. it makes me feel as if her death had a meaning instead of it being so senseless. so thank you for saying that. and congrats on your baby girl!
22 May 2013 8:54 PM
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hugs hun, i truely understand exactly how you feel. but i swayed for 10 years. i had a girl in 2001, my first but who dosen't want to experience that perfect pair? you want a boy and a girl, its only natural. so in 2002 i really swayed for a boy. nope, its another girl. and so on and so on.. well you get the idea. during that time i lost dd5. i was ao angry, just mad and bitter. i hated every...
22 May 2013 8:06 PM
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so lets pretend you did sway and you still got a boy... do you have any idea how much worse that hurts? to know you did everything exactly right, to know you prayed harder then anyone else and you failed. meanwhile "miss oh i just happened to bd during the right moon phase and i got exatly what i wanted" gets it right. i swayed and swayed and swayed. for 10 years i swayed. i did the diet, the supl...
22 May 2013 6:00 AM
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i don't care about gender but i would like to know if i will have another baby or if it will pass away like the last one. im scared to try again, i just can't say goodbye anymore.
21 May 2013 10:11 PM
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i think you should just plan on it being a boy, that way if it is a girl you can be excited but prepared for another boy. which i think is awesome. 2 boys was my dream family! im so jealous. 3 of a kind is great. don't spend all your time washing hand-me downs. go shopping. pick out some cute outfits? are you going to find out? have you thought about a surprise delivery. my first was a surprise an...
21 May 2013 9:47 PM
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i only checked the last 4 but dd6 was a twin, they were both concieved on a boy sign. i think all my others were correct i think. babybleux has 3 girls all concieved on full moons and boy signs. i swayed my heart out everytime. sometimes says just fail. its nothing you did, its not your fault. you were just meant to have this little guy. you just can't see that right now, but you will. the moon di...
21 May 2013 9:39 PM
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i think i read someone was getting awful infections from douches and the aci-jel. maybe cut them back a little?
21 May 2013 9:28 PM
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congrats! having daughters is wonderful. it took me a very long time to get here though. there was a time i felt just like you. why coudln't i have a boy? well i did and yes he's wonderful, just as wonderful as his sisters but he wasn't a magic pill. its only natural to want both genders, but sometimes our feelings go deeper then gd and we get confused. please don't take offense but maybe in the b...
21 May 2013 5:40 PM
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don't put all your faith, hopes and dreams into a sway. i swayed boy, good boy sways, awesome boy sways. yes in a way its good to say, "well i did the best i could" however if it does fail then it hurts a million times worse.
20 May 2013 9:55 PM
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i heard all the rude comments about how sad people are for my husband and how he can't be half their man their husband is because i didn't get a boy. i would walk to the mall or store with 4 little girls and my belly and people would laugh when i said it was another girl. well i finally got my boy.. guess what? still got the comments, "well finally!" what took so long? i guess you can finally stop...
20 May 2013 8:48 PM
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thank you! thats the word i couldn't remember. the glyburide! thats the one i took. it wasn't so big of a deal, just one or two pills a day and yes it worked.. well as long as i stuck to my diet. plus its summer time so the weather should be nice for a walk. like i said the only time i had issues with it was when i cut out the carbs trying to get healthier. you might have a bigger baby. mine was 3...
20 May 2013 5:19 PM
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once again i agree with baby#2. do not feel ashamed. i did. i didn't want all the comments. the few people i did tell made me feel so awful. so i didn't tell anyone. i hid my pregnancy for 18 weeks. so when she died, nobody cared. nobody knew. nobody to hug me and cry with me. i felt so alone and isolated in my grief. even with michael. i hid it for so long. because i felt so embarrassed. michael ...
19 May 2013 7:15 PM
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i had ges diabetes with all of mine. you ladies be very careful if you do have it. luckly mine goes away as soon as i deliver. i never needed insulin. i just had to keep the eating log, change my diet and take some pills. which was good cause let me tell you, i weighed less at 9 months pg then i did before i even got pg. then i lost about 30lbs right there after birth. it was great! however while ...
19 May 2013 7:06 PM
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i did huge mega boy sways everytime. im talking the diet for months, the suppliments, the timing... things with eggs that we won't talk about. and yet i got girls. with my son i just gave up and went with my normal lifestyle. lots of dairy, cranberries, fruits. 5 days before o.... i got a boy then? crazy. yet why did i continue to sway? because everyone was talking how their sway worked. maybe i j...
18 May 2013 11:28 PM
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silversoft, having a boy won't stop the comments. trust me. i thought if i could only have a boy people might be happy for me. i might get a congrats instead of family yelling at me and asking me why? why would i do this? why would you want so many kids? why aren't 5 healthy girls good enough for you? well i did finally get my boy.... the comments were still there. there wasn't some blue parade wi...
18 May 2013 9:18 PM
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i had low progesterone and took the suppositories with all my girls ( my son i had normal levels) i never had any problems with it but that doesn't mean you will. i was also warned about the side effects but after a bfp and the dr seeing my progesterone levels it was importnant that i took it. its the same thing with all hormones. it effects some ladies differently then others. i had no problems a...
18 May 2013 7:39 AM
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usually 16 weeks is a pretty good time to determine gender. my tech wouldn't guess at my 16 week scan but i posted the pic here and everyone guessed girl. they were correct. if a trained tech said boy at 16 weeks usually that is correct. congrats on your baby boy!
17 May 2013 11:05 PM
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potty shots are not good for telling gender before 15 weeks. and i can't see a nub in your other pics. usually an experienced tech knows what to look for though.
17 May 2013 11:01 PM
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