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aww im so nervous about having my 3rd child!!! that sounds terrible but im definetly going for a 3rd but am dreading the will it wont it 'be the girl ive always wanted!'
i have a feeling it will be a boy but i feel my 3rd may be my last chance and i pray that i will have her!!! to be honest i never wanted 3 kids but i cant stop at just 2 and give up.
hope you are ok, how ar...
02 Jul 2010 7:33 PM
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ii wouldnt find out. i didnt find out with my 2nd son because i knew that if i found out it was a boy i would prob end up hating him. i would hate the final 20 weeks of pregnancy and i would be so disapointed. so i clinged onto the hope it maybe was a girl. after the birth they said to me it was a boy and yes i was disapointed but to be honest he was so beautiful i couldnt help but fall in...
02 Jul 2010 7:04 PM
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thanks for your replies
lol im from bournemouth south of england. . there is def something in the water here!!
my mum had 3 girls and i have 4 female cousins so i always assumed id have girls! how wrong was i!!!
there seems to be lots of boys or lots of girls!
fingers crossed for me next time to have a little princess!!!
x
11 Jun 2010 2:14 PM
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stupid question but i just dont get it!
i went to a friends yesterday and there were 4 of us women there. between us we have 12 children and 10 were boys!
i mean what the hell! is it that hard to produce girls? i dont stand a bloody chance thats for sure.
they say its harder to produce a girl and someone joked to my partner the other day that 'only a real man can produce a girl' wh...
11 Jun 2010 12:47 PM
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hi ladies.
i need to get this out.
im so sick of having boys. im sick of all my firends having girls. im so tired of pretending to be happy for 2 friends that have recently found out they are having girls. (they already have a son each).
why me? why cant i have the one thing i want. all i want to hear are the words. . .'its a girl' and i know i never will.
its not fair and ...
07 Jun 2010 9:37 PM
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how lovely to hear from people so far and so close!
this has really helped me and its so nice having somewhere to turn when im having a down day (have lots of these!). thankyou for being so supportive and welcoming x
03 May 2010 8:27 PM
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hi everyone
ive been coming on for some time now and finally plucked up the courage not so long ago to post!
i just wondered where is everyone from? im on the south coast of england and have noticed ladies talking about america and australia. anyone from the uk??
laura x
03 May 2010 7:30 PM
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hi
i have 2 boys and i didnt find out the sex 2nd time round like you. i would def advise NOT to find out. it was the best thing i ever did. honestly i think i knew deep down it was a boy however i was desperately hoping for a girl!
if id found out i would have spent my pregnancy miserable! hold onto that hope for the time being and if you do have a boy, by that time youll look at hi...
30 Apr 2010 8:01 PM
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thanks so much ladies. its so nice to know im not the only one going through this. just needed a good rant! i guess this feeling will never go away , i just need to learn to deal with it and cope x
30 Apr 2010 12:47 PM
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im sorry this is a depressing post. i just need a good moan!
my former best friend (not so close now) has a 1 year old son and never wanted any more kids. she talks about her son as though he is a pain in the ar*e. she found out she was pregnant again and yesterday at the 20 week scan found out that it was a girl.
now in a text and plastered over facebook is 'my perfect little princess'. '...
30 Apr 2010 9:21 AM
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hi hun i know exactly how u feel.
i had a son who has just turned 2 and my 2nd son is now 6 months. i didnt find out with my 2nd son so it was a suprise at birth but i think i secretly knew it was a boy!!
i hoped and prayed that ds2 was a girl, but i thought if i found out and i knew it was a boy it would make the bonding process etc harder and i prob did the right thing for me i...
29 Apr 2010 1:05 PM
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ive just spoken to a good friend of mine, she has just given birth to her 2nd child a daughter. she has a son the same age as mine and said she wasnt bothered although would like another boy if poss! just because of clothes etc and how much easier things would be! she didnt even want a 2nd child. she feels no connection with her son. she has said she has had children and ONLY wants 2 because its t...
19 Mar 2010 11:03 PM
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thank you so much for your kind words. its so nice to explain in words how i feel without people thinking im selfish/stupid and ungrateful.
how do i even begin to address this and accept it? what have others done?
ive always wanted 3 children so at some point we will try again but prob not yet! fingers crossed that i get the daughter ive always dreamed of. ive read that if u have 2 ...
18 Mar 2010 10:19 AM
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hi.
im new and this is 1st post. ive been keeping this in for some time now and feel i have to write it down.
i have a 2 year old and a 4 month old both boys, who i love more than anything in the whole world. i honestly would do anything for them and am sooo pleased i have them. i just want to write that first and foremost.
i am from a family of 4 girls, have 4 female cous...
17 Mar 2010 2:09 PM
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