Re: Can't seem to cope with the gender disappointment

I booked in with a therapist today and I am praying they can help me get thru this.  I am very very worried about my PPD and really not wanting anything to do with my baby

Re: Is 18 week scan 100%

No Ultrasound pics ladies, sorry.  I did get a 4D dvd but there are no gender shots there just the head :) I was just curious if they could be 100 % she did say my bladder was crazy full even after I peed lol.

Is 18 week scan 100%

I am curious on the opinions you may have on how accurate ultrasound can be @ 18 weeks for gender ?    

Re: Really bad night/day :(

Girls are def preferred in this family and I am looked at as a disgusting human for feeling this way.  My inlaws have 10 children the youngest is 11 and to even mention being sad about having a baby boy is out of the question.  My dad was actually sad he wanted another princess and my mom tells me not to say the things I did.  I feel even ashamed to admit I thought of having an abor...

Re: Can't seem to cope with the gender disappointment

Thank you I pray they do get along like to peas in a pod.    Sorry about all the posts ladies my computer seemed to have a clich and wasn't saying it posted but it obviously did many times [:)]

Re: Can't seem to cope with the gender disappointment

Re: Can't seem to cope with the gender disappointment

[quote user="twoavocados"] I can certainly understand your feelings in relation to what you have seen/experienced of boys, and even more important is your concern about PPD. I can assure you from my own experience not all boys are like that, really. If I were in your position I would strongly consider finding a therapist to work through your feelings and ease you into becoming a mother to an und...

Re: Can't seem to cope with the gender disappointment

[quote user="twoavocados"] I can certainly understand your feelings in relation to what you have seen/experienced of boys, and even more important is your concern about PPD. I can assure you from my own experience not all boys are like that, really. If I were in your position I would strongly consider finding a therapist to work through your feelings and ease you into becoming a mother to an und...

Re: Any husbands out there that have GD (for a boy?!)

My husband was very disappointed so much so that we didn't talk for days about anything and I couldn't look at him because well men choose the sex of the baby.  We wanted nothing but a girl but we are having a boy.  He has gotten to be excited now which makes me jealous that he is getting that bond but I still can't get passed he won't have to spend as much time with him as I do. ...

Re: June Due Date Buddies

jamsing Due June 10, 2010 swayed for a girl but confirmed @18 weeks a boy

Can't seem to cope with the gender disappointment

Hello,  I found this site on a google search for gender disappointment.  I am almost 23 weeks pregnant and I found out at 18 weeks that I was having a boy.  I was devistated I cried so hard all the way home that I could barely see where I was going.  Then when I got home my dd who is 3 started crying saying I don't want a boy mommy boys bite and hit.  This is all she kno...