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It' been a while since I dropped by. I have been up and down. I keep reading about people who get better, who knows God loves them. I don't feel that way. I can't even pray, even when I want to, even on a good day. I just have no belief in my heart left.I am going for therapy, and the therapist said I am fine, and when the baby comes, she knows I will be ok. She said she doesn't think I need...
31 Jan 2012 6:04 PM
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Thanks Jastie. My husband want to wait until the baby is born, but I'd rather get all the comments out now. I too would rather have all boys if I must have one gender. I grew up in a house full of girls, and I can tell you the emotions ran high. ONE girl in my own little family would be nice though. Thank for everyone who left a comment. I was looking for witty words but found that most peop...
08 Dec 2011 10:17 PM
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I haven't told anyone we are having another boy(#4). I just can't take the pain of all the comments yet.I would love any advice you have on dealing with what people say about having all boys. It comes from my brother and sister in laws, my husbands cousin, and my a friend of mine, they all have a mix and have said things like they would have lost their minds if they had another boy. Peo...
06 Dec 2011 8:18 PM
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I feel your pain. I am having my 4th boy. I just found out today that my coworker, due a few weeks after me is having a girl, my best friend is having a girl due the same time as me, my cousin due three months before me is having a girl, and my sil just told me she is having a girl in June. Really? REALLY? Could God be so cruel I ask myslef. Could he really give EVERYONE around me a gir...
06 Dec 2011 6:13 AM
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I agree with you, although it mightnot seem like it, because I want a girl so badly. My kids are like these perfect little pieces of me. They make my life so full of joy, and Idon't look at them and think, "why are you a boy"?. I don't really think about their gender, just my love for them and how much they love me. BUT...sometimes, when I am dressing my kiddos up for a wedding, I wish I was...
01 Dec 2011 5:14 AM
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I agree with JuliaGulia, Azuremyst you are not supportive. I think you should refrian to from posts that speak of relgion. We are here to support each other about GD not attack relgion. This is the second post I have replied to and you did the same thing, I am new and this is not what I am here for. This post is lovely and has been helpful, minus your useless comment.
01 Dec 2011 1:21 AM
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I wondered the same thing. I struggled after son #3. Greatly. I was so mad at God, I stopped going to church. I had a very hard strain my relationship with him. After #3 was such a dream, I was SO thankful, but I never stopped wanting a girl. I love my three sons wildly, but I really want a daughter. After time, I was getting better, I went back to church, confessed, and things were getting ...
29 Nov 2011 6:06 AM
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I agree. My husband is amazing. He really is my rock in these times.He has made beautiful children with me. he is supportive of everything I do. He holds me when I cry ( he has his times when he is fed up, he isnt perfect) I am far from perfect and he still loves me, and he is on baord with me for more kids, even though he wanted only two. He is hardworking and generous, I am so happy to hav...
21 Nov 2011 8:06 PM
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Yes, and you can say that because your 4 was a girl. What made your prayer different from mine and you got a girl and I didn't? It so easy to say when you recieve.
21 Nov 2011 7:55 PM
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JuliaGulia:Wow, we are almost living the same life, it was really strange to read your post. I too am SO embrassed to say I am having another boy. I feel like a failure, my oldest hoped for a sister as well, I am sad my sons won't know what a sister is like too. My mom was even upset for me, she said she was quite shocked. I am also scared of 5 for many reasons, 4 will be enough ...
21 Nov 2011 5:29 PM
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Azuremyst wrote why didn't you pray to God to lead you to PGD after your 2nd son? I didn't know about PGD, so how would I know to pray for it?Azuremyst wrote I know in my hear of hearts if I had a 2nd girl, I could only assume the
3rd would be too, it's just how we would natuarlly think. That's when
id stop, esp. if I was trying for a son, the more daughters or sons in
your ...
21 Nov 2011 7:33 AM
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I just found out my baby #4 is a boy. I went through extreme GD with baby #3, to point of suicidal thoughts. Baby#4 was an opps, and from the moment I found out, I have been praying to God for a girl. I research, studied, prayed so hard, had people praying for me. I just didn't think God would put me through this again after the last time. I am now waivering in my faith I have had for so lon...
19 Nov 2011 7:24 AM
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Hi, I am new and I would love to talk with you but I just joined and to message you, I need a gold account? Could you contact me?
17 Nov 2011 10:08 PM
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