Re: Wow this story. I have no words

DISCUSTING ..........DISTURBING...........

Re: I mean, really!....What are the odds of this happening in MY favor?!

I hope you find some peace soon and get the daughter you want. [quote user="DesperateForASon"] P.S. Boys are not a result of bad luck, they are precious little beings just as important and good as girls only with different appendages..  [/quote][Y]  

Re: Record for the most children of the same gender in a row?

that reminds me of growing up next to a family of 3 close age girls. i was friendly with no 3. it was so funny to hear them all fighting over brushes and things in the mornings. usually no 2 won and came running out with one of the others bags or something and the owner was close behind. I was so jealous of the sister thing. i had 3 younger brothers. when my brothers argued it was over quic...

Re: RE: So disappointed in my disappointment!

you sound so lovely, grieving and pregnant and all that goes with it. congrats on your baby news. I have no doubts that yours will be a happy ending when you finally meet him. gl Maddie  

Re: I felt SO strongly it was a girl :(

on your news.  I just expected a dd after 2 ds it was quite a shock to find out another boy was on the way. I just didnt expect it. It will be okay. ps I think your DH is very brave

Re: Even mums with both genders seem to think that girls are better grrrr

I have 3 boys and then a girl. I do admit to GD with no 3, I just expected a mix. now I have a mix things have changed so little that I struggle dealing with the  GD feelings I had. I dont notice the girl preference thing you mentioned, people are interested in my bunch, and If I let them, I could be constantly answering/listening to comments. generally I think people are nosey and j...

Re: Did you get over your GD before birth?

I didnt get over it with ds 3, more like accepted and came to terms with having a 3rd son. it was okay.... but the quiet alone times alone with him were bleak. i didnt have to pretend and put on a smiley face for everyone so i didnt. I remember holding him and feeling so protective and guilty that he wasnt her and I wasnt as happy as I should have been. I couldnt get past the thought t...

Re: Anyone have a girl naturally after 2/3 boys??

  I had a girl after 3 boys. no 3 was my GD baby and I decided to stop there until they were all at school. (I couldnt bear the idea of having 4 little boys so young and all the comments and looks that might attract). She was an oops and so no swaying or anything.  

Re: Newbie!

Re: Moms with 3+ boys...

  I so get your post. I had the same anxieties with my 4th. An oops and quite a shock. I didnt want 4 so close together. I let myself think it was fate and I was meant to have a girl. I really hope you are having your daughter  

Re: We are too sensitive - I'm included in "We"

IG has taught me to never assume anything and never comment on gender either. I was as guilty as everyone else until i found this site. my first question to pregnant friends was always do you know what it is? I never say anything now, nothing at all, just congrats. Its such a mine field and now im aware i dont go there at all. I over hear others making silly insensitive comments all the time. th...

Re: Random Thoughts--Discussion

I noticed that too when I first joined this site, everyone seemed to want girls. IRL I didnt know anyone with all boys like me so it was lovely to find so many on here. I got sucked in and started to obsess about a daughter. Even though I had desperatly wanted a boy with no 1 and 2 I got consumed with a dd. I never had any real preference for either but by the time i had 3 boys I thought I shoul...

Re: Anyone get their gender but it not meet their expectations?

  there is a huge thread on the forums suggestions with lots of insightful comments from ladies asking and answering this very question. have a look, its really helpful. I had a daughter after 3 boys and I found those first few months the most confusing and upsetting of all my pregnancies. It was mostly other peoples comments and expectations that made it hard and probably the fact that i ...

Re: Sad realization

[quote user="Melpomene"] There are a lot of us who have GD simply because we wanted to raise both genders but a women who wouldn't even want one son is entirely different from the majority of us. [/quote] very wise words,im glad you said it. [quote user="Melpomene"] I fear for my sons that marry these princesses . I fear for the boys being born to these women who clearly are made sick by a...

Re: Well done Pinktastic and MommyTwingle!

 Michelle, I watched with a friend who had no idea.........she does now. Well done your so brave.

Re: please take a look for me 13wk6d

thanks for the replies, is there no signs its a boy?

Re: please take a look for me 13wk6d

 Thanks everyone, all girl guesses. Is it a good shot to tell then?

please take a look for me 13wk6d *******UPDATE********

Baby girl born yesterday. Thanks for all the guesses, your good!!!! 

Re: Very Big Family meal coming up this week I need some come back comments cause my family dont think before they speak!!!

  I heard all those and then some. I think the easiest way is to just smile widely and say you feel so lucky and blessed. another boy would be great and a girl great too,. Make a big fuss of your boys and let everyone see how happy you are. celebrate their boyness and dont let anyone make any put down comments in front of them. they do listen and they do remember. Its good about saying yo...

Re: So glad I found this forum, I'm not alone!

  I remember that feeling when all the puzzle came together and spelt 'normal'. You'll love it here, everyone is great and they all know what your saying. look foward to getting to know you better.  

Re: (sensitive post) To those who got thier DG.

Theres a really helpful thread on the suggestions forum. Have a read and im sure you will identify with some of the posts. your feelings are quite normal as you will see on there. I hope you can relax and enjoy Julia when she gets here. Being anxious and expecting the bubble to burst is part of it all. I remember how I felt when I got my daughter home, it was quite difficult for a while. I ...

Re: Kind words

your very lucky, twins really are a double blessing. enjoy them.

Re: I reached out to an all-boy mom and it backfired

  It is a bit of an alternate universe on here. Im sorry you felt hurt. When I only had 2 sons I think i felt much the same, I definatly didnt have the driven desire for a daughter then and was very happy and contented. I would have chosen 2 boys first anyway. It really is possible to want sons, I know lots on here want girls but most of them have boys already. I always thought it was th...

Re: Can I just say that the term "Princess"...

 Me too ive got a daughter a three son's and there are definatly no princesses in my house. what a load of hyped up rubbish.

Re: Is GD less if you wait for delivery to find out?

  I think if you are going to be dissapointed then you will be, no matter when you find out. It probably lasts less time finding out at birth because theres so much to get on with and you have a new little bundle in your arms. If its not the gender you hoped for then im sure the gd will creep back at some point anyway. I knew my 3rd  was a boy at 19 weeks which gave me 21 weeks to st...