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I am so terribly sorry for your loss. There are just no words....
18 Jun 2013 10:19 PM
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I am sorry you are struggling with GD but I can tell you from my experience, my husband is very close to his parents and my mother-in-law is the most amazing, wonderful second mom I could have. I hate that saying cause it is simply not true. My mother in law had two sons and never had a daughter but tells me now that I am the daughter she was waiting for. Please know that gender doesn't determi...
12 Jun 2013 2:34 AM
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Newbaby, I cannot believe your little man is turning 1 already!!! Seems like yesterday when you had him. Happy Birthday!!!
12 Jun 2013 2:25 AM
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Beautiful pic- Theghosts. Adorable little boy!
12 Jun 2013 2:21 AM
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I felt bad not including my other two kids. I know there are many on IG who want two girls because they don't think a boy and a girl can be close (not saying anyone on this thread) but this pic will show you otherwise. My two youngest are like two peas in a pod. They play all day together. This pic is about a year or so ago but I just love it. Thanks for looking. :)
12 Jun 2013 2:20 AM
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Here is a pic of me with my two oldest boys. :)
11 Jun 2013 9:39 PM
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It is funny but I was the opposite. I cried the night before I was to be induced with my daughter cause I feared I wouldn't bond with her the way I did my my boys. THey are true momma's boys and although they love their father, they are very close with me. Cause of that I feared could I feel the same about a girl. Well, I learned that it is the child you bond to and not the gender. My d...
11 Jun 2013 1:42 PM
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I hope this isn't someone's idea of fun as so many (myself included) have taken the time to share advice and very personal stories in a plea to be a voice for an unborn child who deserves a chance at life. So if this is for real, you now have almost 20 pages of advice. At one point someone shared a very personal first hand experience of her SR and the only response from OP was that she was for r...
08 Jun 2013 12:06 PM
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Hi sweetie, unfortunately I have had to go though this process due to a twin being triploidy and it was the only option so we could save our healthy son. I have help back sharing my nightmare of an experience as I do have concerns re the authenticity of this thread.
It is a horrifying experience to have to watch via regular ultrasounds your beautiful baby shrink. I could see my beautiful gir...
07 Jun 2013 10:30 PM
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Just keep in mind, this doctor making it seem like it is no big deal, gets paid big $$ to perform this. Just saying. At the end of the day, nothing we say will stop you or make a decision from you. You have to look inside yourself and make that choice. There is some debate about when fetus feel pain and some studies show as young as 9 weeks or so. There are risks with twin pregnancies but...
07 Jun 2013 4:50 PM
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I only wanted boys and was scared of having daughters. One reason was because I was a tom boy growing up and I just feel like a boy mom. But also because I was a very wild teen girl who made alot of dumb decisions and was in alot of situations that I am terrified of a daughter who could end up in the same. I still have those fears but I realize she is not me and will hopefully make different ch...
07 Jun 2013 2:34 PM
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You are right that I don't "get it" because although, I originally came here with my gender fears when I was pregnant with my daughter (I never had wanted a girl ) I would never have terminated a child based on gender alone. However, I have been in a similar position for other reasons. When I was pregnant with my son, he had markers for trisomy 18 (non compatible with life). THey offered me...
07 Jun 2013 2:24 PM
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This comment really sounds like your attention seeking ! So many women here have offered you there support and time! How far gone are u exactly ?
Personally I don't think u have any intention of reducing if u did u wouldn't still be talking about it!
Iam no longer going to read this thread, to abort a baby because it has a penis is beyond disgusting !! And to be perfectly honest you are no...
07 Jun 2013 12:42 PM
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This comment really sounds like your attention seeking ! So many women here have offered you there support and time! How far gone are u exactly ?
Personally I don't think u have any intention of reducing if u did u wouldn't still be talking about it!
Iam no longer going to read this thread, to abort a baby because it has a penis is beyond disgusting !! And to be perfectly honest you are no...
07 Jun 2013 12:41 PM
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I only am sharing in the hopes that you can see how beautiful and special mutliples can be. My sisters triplets were from IVF. They only implanted two embryos so you can imagine the shock when she found out the egg split and it was going to be triplets. At one point they thought both eggs split and she was going to have quads. Anyway, in the end, the shock wore off, and she wouldn't change a t...
04 Jun 2013 9:22 PM
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Here is a pic of my sister's triplets. Thought I would share. The boys are actually identical twins and the girl is the fraternal triplet.
04 Jun 2013 9:17 PM
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I am pro life so from that angle I do believe you are doing the right thing. As far as the EGD I would continue to seek therapy and go back on meds if need be. I would also mentally prepare yourself that they are twin boys and maybe some retail therapy may be helpful. Look at some adorable photography of twin babies and that may help you get excited about the aspect of twins. I would seek out ...
04 Jun 2013 9:07 PM
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XYXY-sigh... I have seen your posts in the past about the negative view you have about adoption. I agree with you that adoption isn't all rainbows and sunshine, there is loss. Loss for the birthmother (having to say goodbye to the child you carried for 9 months and bonded with), and loss for the adoptive child. I have dealt with my son's pain when he is processing his loss. He has cried to me w...
03 Jun 2013 12:04 PM
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My sisters situation was a unique one. She was pregnant with triplets but one was a girl and the other was identical twin boys. She had ivf done and two embryos implanted and one of them split. Anyway, because they were identical and the fact they were triplets, and that my sister had exteme pre eclampsia they were born at 31 weeks. When they delivered, they delievered her daughter first and t...
02 Jun 2013 10:42 PM
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I know the idea of twins seems overwhelming, but you can do it! My sister had triplets (one of her triplets is the one with CP and feeding tube). DO you have a good support system, family than can help you? I was told I couldn't have bio children so I adopted my oldest only to find out when he was home just 2 weeks that I was pregnant with a second. Even though it is not twins, they were just ...
02 Jun 2013 4:46 PM
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[quote user="sweetdreamer"]I understand the dream of having a certain gender, when I lost a baby girl at 17 weeks I was devastated, I got pregnant again and it was a boy, at that time I had no gender disappointment. I was just so grateful for a healthy baby, I then went on to have another which was also a boy, this time the gd hit me bad , at that time it was my last chance so my dream of a girl ...
02 Jun 2013 11:51 AM
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Adoption is not an easy process and there is loss involved. The loss for the birthmother and the loss that the adoptive child suffers. (I know that from my son) and if it is not an option, I understand that. But abortion is truly and irreversible loss that cannot be recovered. I have 4 kids. 8,7,5, and 2. My first 3 are boys and my youngest is a girl. I can tell you that even though you thi...
02 Jun 2013 11:43 AM
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You are lucky! You will witness the incredible bond brothers share and the love little boys lay on their mommas. And boys can stay very close with their moms. My husband talks to his mom several times a week and sees her at least once a week and she lives an hour away. I love my husbands mother and she is an amazing mother in law. She never had a daughter but her and i are very close and get ...
24 May 2013 10:53 AM
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Congrats on your pregnancy! Not to give false hope, but my last pregnancy the placenta was on the right which was confirmed by several u/s technicians. Well, she is all GIRL so I don't put much faith into the whole Ramzi thing. Best of luck to you !
21 May 2013 9:29 PM
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Screw her! I don't mean to be rude but really, she said this IN FRONT OF YOU KIDS???? I once had a cashier ask me why I adopted from Korea when there are so many kids in the u.s. that need homes. She said it all nasty and in front of my son. How I am not in jail for knocking her out took amazing restraint but we have to be the better person and keep our composer for the sake of our child. Luc...
07 May 2013 12:04 PM
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