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Does your husband know that you don't want to be there? How does he feel about it? I would say if you guys are on the same page with everything and he understands your reasoning for not wanting to be there then don't go. It's okay to distance yourself from people that don't know how you're feeling and will make comments that (although probably not intentionally) will hurt you.
If you do end u...
24 Jul 2012 8:56 PM
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So far it's been 100% correct for me as well..
24 Jul 2012 8:42 PM
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I'd guess boy as well! GL!
19 Jul 2012 12:44 AM
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Let me just say congrats on your healthy baby boy!! You will have another little handsome boy to treat you like a queen! I love the name you have picked out for him.. It sounds so strong and respectable, he will grow up to be a great man. I'm sorry you're grieving the loss of your little girl that you don't have, but I truly feel like we are given not what we want, but what we need. You may not kn...
19 Jul 2012 12:34 AM
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[Y] This. I decided to find out because although people say "Once they lay the baby in your arms you don't care about the gender" I wasn't sure I would react that way. I wanted time to deal with my emotions and work on developing a bond with my little one before I brought him into this world. But that's just what worked best for me. I think that if you feel strongly that you won't be disappointed...
18 Jul 2012 10:13 PM
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I'd guess [DS] as well.
18 Jul 2012 12:29 AM
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Congrats on your girl!!!
18 Jul 2012 12:27 AM
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I'm not a tech, but I'd definitely say [DS] from shot #1! Congrats!!
18 Jul 2012 12:25 AM
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I would have to agree... Looks like a boy! Congrats!!
18 Jul 2012 12:24 AM
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I know I already posted on the other board, but I just wanted to say congrats again on hearing [DD]!!!
15 Jul 2012 8:27 PM
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Congratulations!! [:-)] That is such great news! I'm so happy for you!
15 Jul 2012 8:24 PM
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I found out both times. This time I'm especially glad I did, because it gave me a chance to work through all my emotions. I was a little shocked at first, (both my dh and I felt strongly that this baby was a girl) then a little disappointed, but now I'm so excited for him to get here! It's given me a chance to bond with my baby boy and I'm so looking forward to giving my three year old a little br...
15 Jul 2012 7:26 PM
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Yay! mrssummers I'm getting so excited for you!! I can't wait to hear your update! [:-)]
14 Jul 2012 2:22 AM
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Love Evie and Ayla.. I know a woman who just named her daughter Lira, which is kinda similar to Lita..
12 Jul 2012 7:57 PM
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It could have been a penis, but keep in mind that it also could have been the umbilical cord or the baby's hand down there. Without a picture or confirmation from an ultrasound tech it is really too hard to know. So I would still say things are 50/50 right now. GL either way and FX you get your little girl!
12 Jul 2012 7:38 PM
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My first thought was [DS] but I'm no expert, so my guess is just that.. a guess! Either way, GL at your scan and FX you hear girl!!
P.S. You have such a cute bump!!
12 Jul 2012 6:10 PM
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HopeFaith I have been following your posts and I'm so glad to hear that you seem to be coming to terms with your GD. I agree completely with what you said about how we get the gender we are meant to have, and we may never know why, but there is a reason for everything. I'm sorry things didn't work our with your scan.. I would be so frustrated!! And I was going to say just about the same thing! My...
12 Jul 2012 5:56 PM
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It sounds like most of the pressure is coming from the MIL's. Lol. My MIL has four boys and would love a granddaughter, but she continually tells me that she won't love any of her grandchildren any less because of their gender. For me, it's more my DH who is aching for a girl. He really wants that daddy/daughter relationship and my heart aches because I want to give him that more than anything..
12 Jul 2012 5:35 PM
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P.s. Now I'm eager to find out what she is having. I do hope if it's a little boy he will be just as loved as a girl would have been...
11 Jul 2012 12:29 AM
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I tend to agree with this. It sounds like your friend is suffering from what could possibly turn into gd. And if it turns out she is having a girl, congratulate her, but don't feel obligated to hang around her if she is continually insensitive and rubbing it in your face.. It's okay to distance yourself from her for a while.
11 Jul 2012 12:26 AM
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Although I don't have my dg yet, I can understand your disappointment because you are allowed to want what you want, and being disappointed when you don't get that is normal.. But I can tell you from my own experience that a big sister/little brother relationship is incredible. I have an older brother and a younger brother (I'm the only girl) and my little brother is one of my best friends. We've ...
07 Jul 2012 1:37 AM
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Oh this makes me so happy! And what a clever way to let people know you love your family just the way it is!
07 Jul 2012 1:14 AM
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All [DS] Congrats!
02 Jul 2012 4:05 AM
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First time it was in the middle, at just under 10 weeks I believe. Ever since then my obgyn has to move the doppler all the way to the left to find a heartbeat. I'm having a boy. (Also, I don't know how much of a difference this makes to you, but the sonographer said my placenta is posterior.)
01 Jul 2012 5:58 PM
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This is interesting! I'm still in my early-mid 20's and am having my second boy. I plan on having 3 or 4 kids total, so I wonder how this will play into their gender! I might have to wait til my 30's to have more! Lol.
01 Jul 2012 5:45 PM
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