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When I posted how I felt about when I was pregnant with DD3 on a different web site I was was treated so badly. I thought wow no support there. One lady pointed me to this site. It changed how I was feeling, I still had GD but I was able to talk to like minded moms and dads. I went on to have a 4th DD and GD hit me really hard again. But coming here reading stories how other parents have ove...
17 Jun 2013 2:58 AM
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I thinking going off the zoloft was not a good choice. I am on zoloft and was with my last two pregnancies and both my girls are healthy. Get back on some form of anti depressant it seems it will be better to way the risk in your life. Is it better to be on or off, my opinion you need to be on it. For me I have to be on it. I still have GD and always said I never wanted a daughter only wante...
03 Jun 2013 2:11 AM
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Awww congratulations.
14 May 2013 1:22 AM
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What a cutie.
14 May 2013 1:18 AM
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I wanted my first to be a boy more then any thing, I was team green so I didn't find out until baby was born. It was a girl and I fell in love. You will too. I can not say your next will be a girl because I went on 3 more times hoping for the baby to be a boy and ended up with 3 more daughters. Whom I love very much. It is hard to let go of the dream child you want but know in your heart ther...
08 May 2013 6:17 PM
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HUGS I know how you are feeling.
07 May 2013 8:39 PM
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I am so very sorry, hugs
01 Mar 2013 2:48 AM
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I always wanted a boy with each pregnancy. I have 4 DD's and DDs 3 and 4 were for hoping for a boy. Knowing the 50/50 odds of having another girl we knew deep down we did want more children with the hopes of adding a boy to the lot. After DD3 I was done did not want any more children made my mind up when I had a m/c and knew emotionally I could not go through another m/c. Well DH talked me int...
27 Feb 2013 2:28 AM
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I have four of kind girls. For me I feel it is knowing for the most part what to be expecting, passing on clothes, sharing rooms, the special bond sisters have for each other, and I just love them so much.
27 Feb 2013 2:15 AM
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I have 4 DDs. We are done due to age and high risk pregnancies. If we were younger and not high risk we would have more children. Now that I know we are done I feel better about GD then I did before.
25 Feb 2013 3:19 AM
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With DDs 2, 3, and 4 I said I would never love them or bond with them if they were girls. I truly do love them and have bonded. Like you said you love all your DDs and I know you will too. You simply just wanted one of them to be a boy and that it is hurting you so much. Big HUGS to you.
18 Jan 2013 2:24 AM
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I am very sorry.
13 Jan 2013 3:06 AM
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I also agree it could be the way your father was raised. My mother and father never showed us affection. I vowed to make sure no matter how my parents are with me or the girls that the cycle can be broken and you show those girls all the love you can give them. It is hard to move forward from this because I know it hurts you. But I would let it go and try to focus on being the best mom to thos...
10 Jan 2013 3:02 AM
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I feel like this too, I have 4 girls and only ever wanted to be a boy mama. I feel I am being punished and people look at me like I have a green face. I will always mourn that I will never have a son of my own. It will always upset me. But having 4 healthy DDs that I love tremendously and they love me as much as I do them, heals my heart a little each day.
10 Jan 2013 2:47 AM
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My instincts always said a boy with each of my pregnancies. I have the worst instinct ever because I have 4 daughters.
10 Jan 2013 2:27 AM
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I have 4 girls. I had migraines with DD3 only. That was for a few years before her she was even planned. Once I had her they went away.
08 Jan 2013 1:52 AM
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I always wanted for children. I have two older DDs and two younger DDs so the age difference keeps me sane. That and big sisters are hands on with the little ones. DH makes enough money for me to be a SAHM, and we live with our means. I am a tight wad so I bargain shop for every thing. I buy used clothing because I like name brand items but don't want to spend $25 on a little girls t shirt bu...
05 Jan 2013 1:46 AM
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I didn't find out with my first 2 DDs and after DD2 was born and they said it was a girl I was devastated. I had to go to therapy for GD. It altered my everyday. For me it was BAD. When I met my now DH I had to find out what I was having because I didn't want to have the same feelings in the delivery room. It was a girl then we got pregnant again and found out before birth another girl. I ...
04 Jan 2013 2:17 AM
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My DH has a son with his ex, I have two DDs with my ex. We together have 2 DDs. I was wondering how your SO reacts to your GD? Are they sympathetic? Do they say they understand? Do they just act like you have some serious issues?
04 Jan 2013 2:07 AM
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I was team green with my first two DDs, then when I was pregnant with DD3 I had to find out, then the same with DD4. I could not hear its a girl in the delivery room ever again. My feelings after DD was announced sent me into such a depressive state that it was scary. SIL 1 asked SIL2 who would want 4 DDs at the baptism of SIL 2 DD. SIL1s DH has 3 DDs from a previous marriage and is the god...
04 Jan 2013 2:03 AM
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Congratulations on your little boy. There is nothing more then hoping you will hear it's a ----. I have 3 DDs and longed for son. I am not having any more children so I have to move forward. I hope your DH comes around and gives you the support you need. It took mine awhile. You will find this site to be helpful when you need us. HUGS
04 Jan 2013 1:55 AM
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I am also the parent of all girls. 4 daughters for me. I told my DH how I will never be able to shop for little boy things, have a cowboy birthday party. Oh I could list for ever what I wanted to do with "my son". I don't know what inside of me wanted a boy so badly. That's all I ever wanted with each pregnancy was to hear "it's a boy". I lived in denial until the birth because I felt they w...
04 Jan 2013 1:42 AM
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I agree with pp, it depends on your friend. Some people I can talk to about my GD and others I would never even dare mention a single word about it. You know your friend best.
02 Jan 2013 11:17 PM
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My worst was "can't you even make a boy"? well DH's sperm decides the sex I make them. UGH!! People are rude and you have to be quick with a come back comment to make them feel ignorant with even saying theirs.
02 Jan 2013 3:02 AM
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Sending you pink dust. Good luck!!
28 Dec 2012 1:56 AM
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