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My friend is opening up a party place. The children will be able to pick from several themes. Cake and costumes will be provided for the theme. There will be play structures that will also support the theme ,for example a pirate ship , tree house etc. There will be soft chairs and coffee for the parents. She asked my oppinion. I am not sure. What do you think?
17 Jan 2013 8:03 PM
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Honestly , being a mom of any gender you will get the comments. It's really weird. Before I had kids every friend and family member
would say girls sucked. Everybody who had a daughter hated it . Any time somebody heard someone was having a girl they would make a comment like "poor bastard"
So naturally I hoped for a boy with my first. I was thrilled when I got him . But when boy number t...
05 Apr 2011 10:02 PM
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08 Mar 2011 7:50 PM
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Don't lose hope.
I have seen it all. I have been in the thick of trying for the perfect family for 12 years!
Statistically I shouldn't have had as many losses as I have had . (I have more than I have listed in my signature)
I shouldn't have three boys when my husband's IDENTICAL twin has girls!
I had perfected odds for high tech and a perfect sway. None of it resulted in a girl.
Kee...
07 Mar 2011 9:14 PM
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Well , I wanted my fist baby to be a boy for ME. I wanted my second to be a girl for my husband and so I could keep my boy my only little prince.
Of course after I came to IG a realized the nice things that a mother can expect from a daughter But until IG I didn't think any woman would want a girl.
I have two boys and they adore me. I can't for the life of me understand a w...
07 Mar 2011 2:51 PM
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I think the people with the alternating gender thing is hard to take
The pigeon pair bugs me . But then I think maybe if they had more kids they could have ended up with three of the same gender the next go around. So maybe they just got lucky.
There is this one mom at my son's school who has boy, girl , boy , girl, boy. So no matter when they had kids they would always have had the...
02 Mar 2011 6:22 PM
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I could never get prgnant again afterI heard "it's a boy" for the third time. It is a nightmare. I love my boys to bits. I have loads of fun with them. I am proud of them . THey have made my life so great.
BUT I long for that daughter I will never have. I can't hear "It's a boy" again . It would gut me.
I know how you feel. It's awful to feel you need to do something to get your girl and yet y...
22 Feb 2011 3:20 PM
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Funny thing is most of our friends have all girls. THey had them first . So all I heard for years was how much everyone wanted a boy. I then had my first son and it was like I gave birth to a prince.
My GD hit hard with son # 2. I came to IG and was shocked that so many women wanted girls. I always viewed boys as the prize. My family valued boys more too.
I just wanted the mix. One of ea...
20 Feb 2011 4:16 PM
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I am so sorry.
My aunt and good friends had this happen to them and they both waited three months.
My heart breaks for you. Again I am so sorry.
18 Feb 2011 4:11 PM
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I have had quite a few failures .I have pretty much done it all.
I think swaying may work a little. I do believe in PH and timing and such. HOWEVER, I think it much depends on the couple. I think a perfect sway could tip the odds for some. But I do believe a bunch of us on here are just destined to have mostly boys.
If I had ten kids I think I would have a girl or two but not risking it. I do ...
09 Feb 2011 3:47 AM
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My mom is AB and had twin girls and a boy.
I am A+ and so is DH and we had all boys
09 Feb 2011 2:34 AM
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I have a fellow boy mom who says that. It's OK, I guess, because she is a boy mom. But if a girl mom said that to me I would end that friendship asap.
What an idiot. I would have just as bad GD for a boy if I had all girls. Actually it would be worse because my husband would also have it.
09 Feb 2011 12:07 AM
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I had them done in California. HRC.
Thank you , for your info. My friend is hoping for a girl . We will see.
30 Jan 2011 3:18 AM
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I have been on these boards many years and I have seen what you are talking about many times.
THis is my fear if I do get the girl , will the GD stop? I have heard from many that it doesn't and that scares me.
I would get the tubes tied right after the birth so that I didn't have four kids! LOL
29 Jan 2011 4:09 PM
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What gender did you have?
I would guess girl?
27 Jan 2011 9:41 PM
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I like Noelle better than Grace. But since Eden ends in N and Noelle begins with N. DOes it seem awkward to say? Or is it just me?
25 Jan 2011 10:18 PM
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I got two boys with this method
No sex until you get a positive OPK. Then wait 24 hours and DTD. BUt to make sure DH's sperm count stays high make sure he relieves himself within four days before you attemp.
The day of dtd, cough syrup for you caffiene for DH.
Orgasm and rear entry position.
I did not do any diet but I do not like dairy and I guess that sways girl . I also did not drink cof...
25 Jan 2011 10:15 PM
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My first thought was boy. It looks angled to me. I hope I'm wrong. Hope you get your girl.
25 Jan 2011 4:10 PM
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No . You are not being punished. It's just nature. Maybe the baby you gave up had a different father?
I never gave a baby up . And all I can make are boys. But then again my husband's family is VERY male dominant.
I guess maybe it's my fault I didn't notice this when I started dating him. I should have ran. Just kidding. He's is a great guy.
I also had boys when everybody else had girls. You...
22 Jan 2011 4:30 PM
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My cat was very protective of me when I was pregnant. He would sit in a doorway of the room I was in . He also always wanted to be around me.
I remember as my belly grew he would lay the top of his body on my bellly. When the baby kicked he would try and play back. It was cute.
Before I knew I was pregnant the third time , I was in the bathroom and he was laying across the doorway. I thou...
21 Jan 2011 9:59 PM
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I think a lot of my GD stems from control. I desperately want a "balanced" orderly life. In all aspects of life.
Even though I prefer boys and loved having a boy for number one I was really disappointed with boy number 2. The biggest thing was that it didn't make sense in my mind to have two of the same gender. As I have been a member of this site my Gd has grown worse in some ways because the w...
20 Jan 2011 6:27 PM
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I guess I don't get why this "bastard" child is going to be living with you? No friggin way would I tolerate that. And no way would I want her hand me downs.
If you need to stay with your husband for finacial reasons fine. But looking at that kid is too much!
Sorry if I seem harsh. THank God you are getting your girl . It could have been this shit storm and boy # 4. Right? ...
18 Jan 2011 9:44 PM
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I don't think it was wierd at all.
Suppose your friend said that she was glad she had the perfect pair. That she was blessed to have one of each. Then she went on to say "Don't have anymore kids it will only be another boy! Ick!"
WOuld that have made you feel better? This happened to me after my best friend had boy /girl twins. Needless to say I hated her for saying that. We are not frie...
17 Jan 2011 7:06 PM
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Ok. How many of you that got on opposite for # 4 swayed and how many did not?
I wonder if that was what did it or if it was just luck.
12 Jan 2011 5:10 PM
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[quote user="polly"]
Sorry, but that is ridiculous. IVF is predominantly for people who cannot have children - not boys or girls, but CHILDREN. You are damn lucky that you get to use this technology to choose gender but suggesting that you get a money back guarantee shows just how far your head is up your own arse.
What about the people who have spent $50,000+ trying to...
11 Jan 2011 8:59 PM
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