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It is nice to see others that feel the same as we do. Fourth&final you hit the nail on the head for me. I am about to deliver my ds2 in 2 weeks and I am scared to death that I cannot love another boy like I love ds1. I am petrified I will be a bad mother. But you said the words that came out of my mouth just yesterday....I could only love this child if it were a girl.&n...
27 Jul 2012 4:25 AM
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[:-)]I was told girl at 18 weeks, then boy at 20 weeks, 28 weeks and now at 35 weeks............I still analyze....just what if he pops out a she. I know it is crazy but hey after this roller coaster why not??!!
27 Jul 2012 4:10 AM
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I was convinced this baby was a girl. Bad morning sickness, all the old wives tales pointed to girl, chinese gender chart said girl, etc etc. So I was delighted to find out at an 18week scan we were having a girl......fast forward to 20 week scan where indeed there was a penis! I still up until a few days ago have had these vivid dreams about my little girl. As I did the fi...
26 Jul 2012 3:35 AM
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Soooo many Jennifer's, I too hated it growing up, but now I like it...as long as no one calls me Jenny lol! Here you were either a Jennifer, Jessica or Nicole. I always like Adrianna for a girl, do not hear it so much! One day Jennifers will take over the older population and Michaels for the boys!
13 Jul 2012 3:12 AM
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All my husband wanted was a son. When I became pregnant with my first child I wanted a son as well. Some how I just knew it was a boy and I was right. He was thrilled! He always insisted it was a girl. Fast forward to this pregnancy has been the bipolar opposite of the last one and every owt, moon phase, gender chart blah blah blah said girl and again I had the intuit...
12 Jul 2012 3:19 AM
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I can relate. Early on in my pregnancy my MIL touched my belly and said hope it is a girl. My FIL and mother are the ones who REALLY wanted a girl. Naturally when I heard girl everyone was estatic. 2 weeks later found out nope really ds2 and to my surprise my MIL was calm and just said well it does not matter as long as the baby is healthy. I however was crushed and m...
12 Jul 2012 3:03 AM
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My friend named her daughter Penelope, but not a name I hear often. Mason is extremely popular here, was contemplating it for ds2, but think of going with Garrett, which you do not hear much. I am a Jennifer and let me tell you growing up....the MOST popular name for the year I was born. Where I work there is around 35 people, of that 5 Debbies and 4 Jennifers! I like the c...
11 Jul 2012 3:48 AM
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Wildwooddays....LOL I tell dh that all the time....don't you think it is time to cut the umbilical cord? Dh's sister lives in another state. My grandmother had all her boys live right around her. I know plenty of families where the girls move far away and really don't have the mother daughter bond etc. I could go on about my MIL but I will raise my sons to be strong men who...
11 Jul 2012 3:35 AM
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I found out with both. I have been getting better learning this baby is ds2. I would have been more heart broken to hear at birth because I was SO SURE this was my girl, my pregnancy has been a complete opposite etc etc. If you find out you do not have to tell anyone, tell them you wanted to be surprised or they couldn't tell. I got told at 18 weeks it was a girl then at 20...
11 Jul 2012 3:31 AM
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Looks like [DD]! Congrats!
11 Jul 2012 2:13 AM
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I look at the u/s all the time and think how they could have gotten it wrong and maybe it will pop out a girl lol but I have a very clear penis shot. I always wanted 2, one of each too. I am an only child but was very close to my male cousin, who is also an only child. I don't know if I will try again. I am keeping the option open by putting an IUD in. I am really hop...
10 Jul 2012 9:13 PM
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OMG I think the exact same thing. My mother in law is very self absorbed and a few other choice words lol! But my dh jumps at her every word which drives me crazy and causes ALOT of arguements and fights. My mother always reminds me of this so that when my sons meet a girl that I am not like my MIL. My MIL barely sees my son and that is my fear too, if the dil does not like...
10 Jul 2012 9:01 PM
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I could have written this post! I had a mild preference myself and was convinced this was by girl. Like, you complete opposite of symptoms etc. My ds2 is due in a few weeks and I have not even have a crib set up, bought one pack of diapers and just am so ill prepared. They did tell me it was a girl at 18 weeks , well my goodness I went shopping. Next scan, nope defina...
10 Jul 2012 3:06 PM
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Tickleme I know how you feel. One minute I am like I will be an all boy mom and it is a great feeling especially when I hear myself saying "my boys" then I see my friends who 95% of them have a pp and the other 5% have 2 girls. I will be the only one in my family and circle of friends who have 2 boys. I look at the adorable pictures of their girls or pp and I get angry!&nbs...
09 Jul 2012 5:46 PM
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Love it!!!
09 Jul 2012 4:40 AM
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leaning [DS] looks like my 20 week scan from ds2
05 Jul 2012 4:08 AM
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Congrats Photo-Girl on your new bundle! I am hoping to be right there with you in a few weeks. That is one thing I am looking forward to and keep reminding myself. Each one despite they will both have a penis will be their own person, own individual and personality!
05 Jul 2012 4:00 AM
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Sorry you are going through this. I went through the same thing. Was told by a 3d place I was having a girl. I was elated went out shopping then my DRs office told me nope its 100% boy. I was crushed. I am not good at u/s guesses as I still stare at both of mine and wonder how I had a girl one week then a few weeks later she became a he!! You are entitled to be ...
05 Jul 2012 3:33 AM
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Oh yes I was at the community pool today and my mothers friend asked me what I was having and I said a boy. She says oh....why didn't you order a girl? I looked at my mom and said I don't know McDonald's drive thru was all out of them?? Seriously people if it was that easy to ORDER what you want we would ALL have our perfect families! Ugh sometimes you just have to wonder a...
05 Jul 2012 3:10 AM
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Thank you WhiteRussian. It is just amazing how somedays are soooo good and I do not even think of gd and how happy I will be with two sons and other days I get so upset when I know I will never raise a little girl! I also am looking forward to the brotherly bond, something none of my other family members or family members will get to experience!
05 Jul 2012 2:47 AM
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When I went to the same place with my ds1 I got the pics right away....now they claim their printer is broken. I wrote a long email to the corporate office stating the whole ordeal of my ultrasounds there and they finally called me back today. They offered me a free scan and I refused as I will never go there again or recommend them to anyone. I just thought with the whole gd tha...
04 Jul 2012 5:56 AM
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I am going on 34 weeks with an unexpected pregnancy. Which I should be elated about. However I just moved into a 2 bedroom house which was temporary but now with this I need to move asap again. Everything is cramped, I do not even have a crib yet. Went to an elective place at 18 weeks to be told girl, which I was happy with as I already had a ds. Went shopping and tol...
04 Jul 2012 4:10 AM
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My ds1 I had dreams of holding a baby boy prior to finding out he was a he. This pregnancy I dreamed of holding a little girl, one dream I removed her diaper to give her a bath, another dream was my son playing on the floor and my dh holding our daughter and me pregnant with #3 stating it didn't matter the gender because I already had one of each. Even dh had a dream it was a girl!&nbs...
01 Jul 2012 9:27 PM
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Pffff old wives tales are BS! The minute I found out I was pregnant with #2 I was certain it was a girl and all the old wives tales just fueled my feeling. Ds1 heart rate in the 140's, this one 180. No sickness with ds1, 20 weeks of sickness with this one! Everything was different, right down to cravings, the hair growing on my legs, mood swings, headaches, and cravings.&nb...
01 Jul 2012 5:23 AM
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Hmmm had one boy in my late 20's and now the other is do and I am in my early 30's
01 Jul 2012 5:01 AM
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