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i rarely post here on ingender anymore because i do not have gender disappointment anymore and even though i am TTC still I am not longer trying for a girl just a baby. lets see how did i get over it. Well one day i just realized that all of the whining in the world wasn't going to make me have a girl and all of the jealousy in the world would not change my life and all i could do was ...
10 Nov 2009 8:58 PM
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definately a boy. i may hope that my last child is a girl to round out the family but the truth of the matter is that i am not a girly girl and find most girl things uncomfortable. so if i only had one child i would definately want a boy.
24 Aug 2009 9:50 PM
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I know I gush over little boys and most of the time forget to include the girls. BUt it is because other people's boys remind me of how much I loved my boys when they were babies. I don't have fond memories of having a baby girl so they just don't do anything for me.
i do this too and it has nothing to do with not liking girls or thinking they are cute it is because i have boys and seeing...
12 Aug 2009 1:19 AM
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that is one of the dummest things that i have ever heard. i know some very unattractive couples with girls. what a bunch of bull honkey
06 Aug 2009 10:27 PM
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i share your secret i was so disappointed when i found out my third son was another boy but now he is my favorite. i adore him i kiss him all day he is such a mommas boy. He is why i know that i will be ok with a fourth boy. i was in the pit of despair when I found out he was a boy but look how much happiness he has brought to my life now.
06 Aug 2009 2:25 PM
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i think the boy moms get defensive on this board because just about everyone on here wants a girl and most posts are people upset that they are having a boy not that they are having a girl. i know that it makes me defensive.
to the original poster i am glad that you got a nice comment. I know that i love it when I get a nice comment about having all boys unfortunately they are few and...
12 Jun 2009 8:27 PM
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i was reading a magazine article today and i thought of you. it was about a teenage girl who killeed her family with her boyfriend and some friends and then burned the house down. anyway i thought of you because you believe your son's problems are because of his sex and i believe that it is not. this story that i read was horrible and I am not trying to make light of it but I wanted to tell ...
10 Jun 2009 10:11 PM
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i was initially very upset when i found out that my third was another boy and thought that i would never get over it. but he was born and it all melted away. not once have i wished that he were anyone else other than who he is. my third son is a joy and we adore him and love him. there is no off balance with them they all play together very nicely. of course they fight sometimes but gi...
10 Jun 2009 1:55 AM
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your oldest son isn't the way he is because he is a boy he is the way he is because that is who he is. trust me my cousin has always gotten into a lot of trouble including sleeping around and being arrested for drugs and stealing since she was a young teen and she is a girl. her brothers were never any trouble at all. so to lump all boys together and say that he is the way h...
10 Jun 2009 1:31 AM
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the acog recommendation is no more then 6 but of course it varies from women to women. some women can have 10 and some women can only have 2 it really depends on how you heal and how your body reacts with scar tissue and everything. my friend has had 3 and will be having a fourth in a few months and there have been no problems yet but this is her last baby no matter waht.
22 Dec 2008 9:49 PM
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i have not been on here in a long time and i will tell you why. i just do not care anymore i don't know what has happened or why i feel this way now but i just do not feel the pull to have a girl anymore. i am not pregnant again yet but I do feel like no matter what i do when i do get pregnant again it will all be ok because i will have whatever I am supposed to have. it is really weird...
12 Nov 2008 9:48 PM
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i am melting he is so sweet. congradulations on your baby boy he is beautiful
03 Oct 2008 10:56 PM
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they are not your friends. a friend does not make you feel bad. if having 3 sons is so horrible then they can kiss my butt because i love my sons and no one has a right to tell me it's a bummer or as you said they said "oh well." don't see them. they're not worth your friendship.
02 Oct 2008 1:27 AM
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yes and i have never looked back. the minute he was handed to me in the hospital i could not hold back the tears i loved him so much. he is still mommy's boy. in fact i have a stronger bond with my third son than my first and second sons. i love them all equally but my third son has a very special place in my heart. i am glad that he is not a girl if he were a girl he ...
02 Oct 2008 1:25 AM
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it is great huh i thought i would never come out of my misery when i found out my third was another boy. then he was born and i have not wished he was a girl not a once. i could not be happier with him. congradulations on your beautiful baby boy and i know he will bring you boundless joy as my third son has brought me.
05 Aug 2008 3:48 PM
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i am definately hoping that my fourth child is a girl but that does not undermine my love for boys. i always wanted 4 kids and my ideal numbers were 3 sons and 1 daughter. i was hoping my third would be my girl but that did not happen. you will never meet probably a bigger champion for boys then i am i love them love them love them. it does sting a little when i see people so upset to be hav...
05 Aug 2008 3:23 AM
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mine were higher than that with one of my boys and even the doctor said it was probably a girl but i just had one really strong boy i guess. it was around 200 and only 11 days past ovulation and around 500 at 13 days past ovulation i guess i just implanted early. but they do say that girls have higher hcg it was just wasn't true for me
04 Aug 2008 2:56 PM
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yah my sister always introduces me this way but thats because she thinks i am a freak show and those are her own words. she has 2 girls and a boy and she pays no attention to her boy
04 Aug 2008 2:53 PM
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that is funny i have never bought a girl thing for myself except the one pair of pink pants that i got on clearance for 99 cents from wal-mart and i only bought those for the old wives tale to put girl clothes under your bed while ttc pink. if you don't ever have a girl i guess you could alway keep them until you have grandaughters someday
30 Jul 2008 1:50 AM
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my husband has never cared what we had he really never did except he always said he wanted at least one son. he does always say thogh when he sees a man with only daughters that he feels sorry for them. i do not agree with what he says because i am sure there are some men out there who love having all girls and want only daughters but my husband claims that most men if they were really ...
29 Jul 2008 11:35 PM
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yes when i was pregnant with my third son after i found out it was a boy i prayed everyday that god would help me love him and not feel bad that he was another son for us. i just sat there on my knees praying everynight that i would learn to love this baby and not resent him and that i would not wish he was a girl. it worked because the minute he was born i have never once wished he was a gi...
28 Jul 2008 11:25 PM
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broiled chicken breast with some fresh cranberry sauce. a side of calcium rich broccoli with homemade cheese sauce (which contains 1 cup of milk.) i have this for dinner ervery night the week of ovulation.
11 Jul 2008 3:18 PM
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i don't think it's a 'fault" though i hate to look at my boys and think of them as a fault they are not. besides i think the woman and her environment have just as much to do with what the sex of the baby is as the mans sperm that happens to fertlise the egg since certain sperm will die inside the woman and some will live. no i do not resent my husband at all he gave me three children and while i ...
10 Jul 2008 9:19 PM
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the same thing happened to me i was upset when i found up my third was another boy i cried for weeks and even muttered the horrible words 'i don't want him.' then he was born and i swear everyday that my heart will burst with love for him. i adore him. congraduations on your baby boy, i am sure he will bring you much happiness.
10 Jul 2008 1:07 AM
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i can sorta see what you mean about changing a boy creeping you out because the thought of breastfeeding a girl creeps me out i don't know why i guess it's just because well really i don't know why it just does. but everyone with a girl tells me that it isn't weird so i will take their word for it. so hopefully you can take my word for it that changing a boy is not weird at all when it is yo...
10 Jul 2008 1:01 AM
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