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No Lissa, not jealous of your kids when I have my own amazing ones, thanks. Oh, and I've ALWAYS been happy with the ones I got. [;)]
Umm, last time I checked, you could put security settings on facebook, in order to control who can look at your profiles and pictures, so 'duh' yourselves.
Oh, and as you're all so happy for any stranger to see your pictures, just though...
08 May 2010 2:38 AM
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You should all delete them. Or show pictures of yourselves if you feel so sure that it's a safe environment.
07 May 2010 10:48 PM
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The first time she asked this question she got lots of supportive answers. But then she asked it again and just reworded it and then people were not as supportive (including me)[/quote] I can see that it would be a bit 'in your face', especially with the capital letters, but there are so many people in here who write far more annoying/upsetting/sad things but don't get ganged up on....
01 May 2010 6:36 AM
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Far out, some of you women are so b*tchy. Kate, a lot of newcomers aren't treated very well here, and while people might try to deny it, it's so true from what I've observed. You probably did post in the wrong place if all you want to know are the odds of having another girl, and asking twice was kind of unecessary, as nobody can give you the answer you are looking for. But if it goes deeper...
01 May 2010 6:30 AM
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First of all, congratulations on your pregnancy!! You are soooo lucky to have a big family, and I bet those rude people are just jealous. I have 3 children, and we are going to try for one more early next year after our wedding, but because of my age, that will probably be my limit! Just had a thought. Maybe the 'ttc' bit under your username is how the stalkers came to the conclusion that yo...
28 Apr 2010 10:13 AM
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[quote user="xxjaydexx"]
I had GD with my first one pretty bad for a short period of time, but just because I've accepted she is a girl and moved on, doesn't mean it's something I will ever forget. I often feel GUILTY for it. When she grows up I have to tell her that I wanted a boy. That's horrible. So, in some respects I will always be dealing with it. [/quote] Why do you have to tell...
15 Apr 2010 5:15 AM
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Strange you say that, because I have a feeling the left one is a girl, and the right a boy! All based on instinct, and not science/nub!!! Good luck and congratulations!
12 Apr 2010 6:05 AM
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[quote user="DevastatedinPA"]Thanks Disneyfan,
I did have a breakdown last night and into the middle of the night unfortunately, so I was back and posting the crying post and work post.
The idea I had about the people buying clothes and bows and crap that don't go along with our our neutral theme is that I'd just keep the tags on those items that she will never be dressed in and use ...
01 Apr 2010 2:11 AM
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Wow, she is so active!! Very cute!
31 Mar 2010 1:04 AM
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I would never pierce a baby's ears, and I feel a bit sad when I see babies with it done, because I know at some point they were put through pain, purely for the sake of appearances and vanity. I know the procedure is quick, but it is still going to give your baby a painful fright, and there is always a risk of infection as well. I remember having my ears pierced as a child, and being so exci...
31 Mar 2010 1:02 AM
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Thanks for the reply!
23 Mar 2010 8:54 PM
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From the point of view of someone who doesn't suffer from GD (and hopefully you'll take my point of view into consideration because I am posting from a logical rather than emotional perspective), maybe it would help if you remembered what you said in your first post, which is that you know you are so lucky that you got pregnant, given you didn't fall pregnant the natural way. Imagine each cyle fai...
21 Mar 2010 9:30 PM
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21 Mar 2010 9:21 AM
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Hi all! I'm not pregnant, but I have a 13 week old baby boy and am on the mini pill. I've never been on it before, and I'm really nervous that it's not reliable! I am hoping to conceive again early next year, after my wedding in Jan! Really I just want to know if it's a reliable pill, and if anyone has taken it correctly but still fallen pregnant? Thanks, Fi!
21 Mar 2010 8:54 AM
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Please pardon my ignorance as I am still tryiing to learn all the acronyms and such used here, but what is "fishing"?[/quote] I don't think you are THAT ignorant? But basically, there are a few people who might have been slightly suspicious of your authenticity. I can't speak for them now, but that was the implication back when you first posted about your son. (Myself included, just in...
19 Mar 2010 1:24 AM
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I can't offer you any helpful advice, but I just wanted to say that you have chosen beautiful names for all your children, and you're so lucky to have so many! Hope you feel better soon. I can only imagine how hard twins would be, but think of how rewarding children are after all the hard work we put in. Things will get better and you'll love them as much as if they were boys. And you n...
04 Mar 2010 11:08 PM
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[quote user="LittleLadyBug4Me"][quote user="Fi-NZ"]
And as I've said before, if, once the baby is born, many women love/accept/bond perfectly, why find out at the scan and therefore feel hurt and stress and upset if it's the opposite of what you hoped for? Wouldn't it be easier on yourselves to enjoy your pregnancy and not spend it in floods of tears and with an aching and empty heart? I've also...
04 Mar 2010 10:30 PM
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[quote user="Rein&Sonshines"][quote user="Fi-NZ"]
And I don't care how you try to justify it, but isn't GD - when pregnant people are MISERABLE about the sex they're carrying - showing favouritism to the opposite sex? And people harping on about the FB poster showing favouritism is completely hypocritical.
And I notice that a PP said something similar to what I said (which I only saw...
04 Mar 2010 7:04 PM
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By dissing unborn children, I assume you mean having gender disappointment? That's what this forum is about. It's not that parents on here hate their GD baby, they're sad/upset/angry etc. over the baby they don't have. Hence, gender disapointment. It's really simple to understand, and not hypocritical. The stress this particular poster is trying to make about the FB lady is her blatant favoritis...
04 Mar 2010 1:37 AM
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I'm sorry, but some of you are SO hypocritical. So many people in here diss their unborn babies, because they're not the gender they wanted, and here some of you are saying that her comment is mean to her boys. She didn't actually say anything bad about her other children, which is more than can be said for some of you.Who cares really what she writes on facebook. In my opinion it's a bit over the...
04 Mar 2010 12:23 AM
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[quote user="Luvmyboys"]I have to say, I do agree with CC about the possibility of fishing.
FI-NZ, you said you didn't believe it's true at the end of a very long post, you can't possibly expect everyone to read every word you wrote?. [/quote] People don't read all my posts? Damn, I could've told her exactly what I think of her, instead of trying to disguise my disgust with tact.
03 Mar 2010 1:13 AM
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Yeah, read my last sentence. I doubted its authenticity from the start. I love how it's only once CC says so that people start to agree. LOL.
03 Mar 2010 12:00 AM
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Maybe it's her son's father that she sees in him and doesn't like??
02 Mar 2010 8:53 AM
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I feel heartbroken for your son. You know that he deserves more. I know that you don't want your son to grow up feeling rejected and unworthy, but based on what you've said, how could he not? How hard have you actually tried to overcome this and give him what he rightfully deserves? Have you sought medical/psychological help? Posting in here alone isn't enough, and won't do anything fo...
02 Mar 2010 8:50 AM
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I'm not good at guessing, sorry!
02 Mar 2010 8:24 AM
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