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locobe i hope you get the gender you are hoping for! [pray]
25 Feb 2010 5:42 AM
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thanks for sharing guys.i really really need to solve this and soon.we just went to the shops to do the groceries & i made it 4 steps inside the place before i burst into tears & had to go & sit & wait outside while DP did the shopping.everywhere i looked there were little girls & it made me so angry. why can everyone else get their little girl & not me?DP i so mad at...
25 Feb 2010 2:03 AM
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that is SOO true.i found out yesterday we are hainvg annother boy & have intentionally avoided telling ANYONE cos i don't want to have to deal with any of those kinds of people!!!
24 Feb 2010 11:58 AM
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i haven't seen the ad but i can imagine it would be very hurtful & be like having it rubbed in your face.i agree! why couldn't they use neutral coloured dummies (i'm in Australia & that's what we call em here!)i can't even watch the tv at the moment cos there are so many baby product ads & the ones with boys i feel are mocking me & the ones with girls are teasing!
24 Feb 2010 11:07 AM
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you are definately not alone. i am ignoring everyone on facebook too! and my mobile, house phone & i have disconnected the doorbell & pinned a blanket over the window panes in my front door. i can't bring myslef to speak to anyone cos i know they will all ve asking me & i don't want to tell them. this baby is our absolute definate last & it scares the hell out of me cos i am ...
24 Feb 2010 11:03 AM
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thanks so mush charottelou i can't even imagine how i would feel if i was told i was getting my girl only to have the rug ripped from underneath me. i think that would be even worse than what i am going through now. i would feel so cheated.i don't have it in me to pretend things are ok. just as i start to feel normal i try & picture myself with 2 little boys & i just can't. i just ca...
24 Feb 2010 10:53 AM
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well to make matters worse a very close friend of mine was expecting a baby about 5 weeks after me. she lost her baby last week.today she messaged me & said she figures it's a boy cos i have been out of touch with, well, everybody since i found out & everyone knows how much i wanted my little girl.she said 'just think, at least urs is in the right place, mine is gone'i didn't write b...
24 Feb 2010 10:46 AM
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i definately am regretting not doin anything more substantial to try for a girl.i had wanted a baby for so long but we weren't in a position to have another one. then we moved & another baby became do-able so we decided to stop 'not-trying' we conceived within 3 weeks of deciding to stop preventing a pregnancy. i honestly NEVER expected it to happen that fast.now i have found o...
24 Feb 2010 10:35 AM
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i am the same.i came home from my scan yesterday when i found out it was a boy & literally just hopped into bed for the rest of the day. even once i had picked my 5 year old up from school i could still not stop crying & moping.today i think i uttered all of 12 words all day cos i just don't have it in me to be bothered to talk.i have stopped answering the phone & have even put a...
24 Feb 2010 10:01 AM
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yeah i thought that too. but i honestly never ever planned on more than 2. and i really don't think i could chance a 3rd boy as horrible as that sounds. i think the reason we made the call before we even conceived is cos we have to draw the line somewhere.i guess i won't really rule it out ENTIRELY for a good 10 years yet as i am only 25. but 2 to me is perfect.
24 Feb 2010 9:51 AM
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very well said!!!thankyou!!!!
24 Feb 2010 7:36 AM
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EDD 18th July Hoping [DD] confirmed [DS]
24 Feb 2010 7:33 AM
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i would like to be added to this section too. i found out yesterday that my second & last child is going to be another boy & am really really struggling to cope with that. i know it may not seem as bad as those who have 4,5 or 6 or more boys and really want that girl, but to me it is. there will be no trying again for us. this is it.
24 Feb 2010 7:20 AM
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thanks so much. it's just very reassuring & comforting to know that there's nothing wrong with me & that i'm not alone.
24 Feb 2010 7:12 AM
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jewelz i know exactly how you feel.we too decided 2 was our limit and found out yesterday we are having a second DS. i love my DS#1 to pieces & wouldn't change it for the world, but i always knew i could try again. and now that door has been closed to me. Dp is unfazed as he genuinely had no preference.i can't seem to wrap my head around the idea that not only will i have 2 boys but i wi...
24 Feb 2010 6:50 AM
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i was googling Gender Disappiontment just today & i found this forum. i am so glad i have found you guys.i am 19 weeks PG & found out yesterday i am having a boy. this is baby number 2 & last for us. we decided before we even conceived that we only ever wanted 2 children. i have a 5 y.o son & i was very diappointed when i learnt he was a boy, but i got over if quite quick cos...
24 Feb 2010 6:14 AM
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