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Well, if its any consolation, I was team green and I got my girl and two months on the worst post natal depression has hit me like a bus.
I think I secretly thought that if only my dream of a daughter would come true then all my problems would disappear and I would be so happy. But of course all my problems didn't disappear. And the birth was a bit rocky which has left me feeling a bit trau...
24 Jan 2013 7:18 AM
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your feelings are completely valid and normal, just go with it for now. Once you meet him you will love him to bits so don't worry about that at all, let it take care of itself and look after you.
I am sorry you are feeling this way, GD sucks big fat hairy dog balls.
24 Jan 2013 7:08 AM
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GD does suck, really bad. Its awful. I am sorry you didn't hear that much wanted 'g' word. We are here listening, you are safe here.
07 Jan 2013 3:04 AM
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oh she's so tiny and sweet. That thing in her mouth looks huge, lol. Congratulations!!
22 Dec 2012 10:56 AM
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I always had my girl name but if this baby had been a boy I would not have a clue what his name would be. We would have had to come up with something, but we never discussed it when I was pregnant. I tried to bring it up a few times but neither of us could think of any boy names.
08 Dec 2012 4:13 AM
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I always imagined having a daughter so got a bit of a shock when I thought it was never going to happen, but I knew my husband wanted a little girl too so I took that on board a bit, and my MIL would have loved a grand daughter and I knew that as well. So it was a bit of both for me.
05 Dec 2012 2:12 AM
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I was Team Green and just had a little girl after two boys. It was a lovely surprise but I have got to be honest, I wish I had found out. I found it VERY stressful and when she was born I couldn't believe it, it has taken ages for it to actually sink in.
I can't see any benefit in not finding out now. I am not sure why I did it, well, yes I do know, because I didn't want to hear 'boy' till ...
02 Dec 2012 10:41 AM
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I had severe GD with my second boy because we were only going to have two children and that meant my dream of having a daughter was never going to materialise. I wasted my whole pregnancy being sad and convinced that I could never love a second boy.
When he was born I fell so hard. I am still madly in love with him, I absolutely adore him. I am so glad he is here.
We decided to go ag...
01 Dec 2012 10:29 AM
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[quote user="WendymvSenna"][quote user="BCandAorM"]
http://img196.imageshack.us/img196/9434/nub12.jpg
http://img840.imageshack.us/img840/4531/nub3leg.jpg
http://img29.imageshack.us/img29/738/nub53d.jpg
could you please tell me what you think the sex of this baby is? Scan was taken at 12 weeks but they wrote 12weeks 5 days on it as well. I don't know how to put the picture in sorry, just...
01 Dec 2012 10:17 AM
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Serenity, I don't know you, are you a smug superior self righteous bitch about it? Do you make comments about it in front of other people? Do you say things like "girls are so much more fun to shop for than boys" in front of people who only have boys? Would you say "oh you poor thing" to someone at their baby shower who has just found out the sex of their fourth baby and is expecting a boy?
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28 May 2012 4:58 AM
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My DH definitely does want to know the gender, and that's why I don't want him to come to the scan, because I will feel pressured to find out, and I don't want to find out (well, I do want to find out, but just me, not him, LOL).
last time a lot of my GD was because I knew he was hoping for a girl and I felt disappointed for him. I took too much on board about what other people want. My MIL wante...
28 May 2012 2:43 AM
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A woman in my mothers group had a DS when I had my first DS and then I had DS2 and then she got pregnant and had her girl. To be honest I can't even bear to look at her. I just want to smash her smug fat face in.
She plonked the baby in my lap one day and I just sat there like a statue, not even talking to the baby or anything. I love babies but I am just so bitter about this woman's smugn...
28 May 2012 2:32 AM
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I wanted one child, DH wanted two, so we had the first one and then I was going to sway for the second to get a girl but I got pregnant before I got a chance to do that. It was another boy and I sank like a stone into the depths of GD.
It was my idea to try again and yes we did it to have a girl. If we have another boy, well we were aware of that possibility before we went forward to obviously it...
25 May 2012 1:47 AM
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Yes, a lovely wee boy.
25 May 2012 12:53 AM
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Let go of your feelings of guilt and selfishness. You are not selfish and you have done nothing wrong. What you are yearning for is completely normal and natural and you are in the right place. We all understand!
25 May 2012 12:42 AM
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gee, the biorhythms are a bit complicated for me, I am already pregnant so just hope I got it right, lol.
I did a sway with cranberry, magnesium and calcium and my joints and whole body felt very acidic, so hopefully I got it right.
btw I am in Australia. I don't want my husband to come to the next scan but I know he will. I didn't want him to come to the nuchal scan but he took the d...
25 May 2012 12:39 AM
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Such happy news, I am thrilled for you. Now what are you doing here, shouldn't you be out SHOPPING??? lol
25 May 2012 12:30 AM
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[quote user="LisaTLC"][quote user="BCandAorM"]
I am due in the middle of November. I had the nuchal scan and got a look at the nub, it looks girly and all the guess are for girl but I am still in limbo, I can't get my hopes up too much but its hard not to feel a bit excited. I wanted a girl so badly last time, this time I am not falling for that again so I am staying numb and not thinking about ...
24 May 2012 5:42 AM
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oh Dixie, I am so sorry. Please accept my deepest condolences on the loss of your wee boy. Much love to you. What a rollercoaster you have been on.
24 May 2012 5:25 AM
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I'm the same, officially 'not finding out' but totally nubsessed!! I have learnt so much in the last few days and I am going to guess GIRL for you based on the skull theory as well.
23 May 2012 1:05 PM
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whats the biorhythm chart Perla?
My chinese chart says girl this time but I am not sure that I am reading it correctly. Last time it did say boy and I had a boy.
23 May 2012 1:03 PM
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If you met me and my DS2 in real life you would never believe that I had severe GD when pregnant with him! I looooooove him, I absolutely adore him and it was love at first sight for us, the second we clapped eyes on each other. I am so glad I had him and I often just say out loud "I am so glad you're here" for no particular reason! He is the best baby you ever met, he's SO cute and so naughty and...
23 May 2012 12:57 PM
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I am due in the middle of November. I had the nuchal scan and got a look at the nub, it looks girly and all the guess are for girl but I am still in limbo, I can't get my hopes up too much but its hard not to feel a bit excited. I wanted a girl so badly last time, this time I am not falling for that again so I am staying numb and not thinking about it.
23 May 2012 12:42 PM
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Good luck!
I am not finding out this time but I am doing the 20 week morphology scan. I will have to ask them not to tell me or show me or hubby when they put the wand on that part.
I hope you get the answer you want.
23 May 2012 12:40 PM
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I got mine off ebay.
I never actually used them though. I think they are still up in the cupboard. If you get desperate PM me and I will post them to you. It can be my random act of kindness, lol.
23 May 2012 5:16 AM
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