If you wish to post in this forum, you must make your post supportive and respectful. If you do not have supportive and kind words to say, do not post here. Posts which do not meet this criteria will be removed immediately. I have advised forum leaders that if a post contains ANY text which is not appropriate, to delete the ENTIRE post, because forum leaders are busy and that is the quickest way. If you want the words you write to remain here, write them carefully to abide by this rule. Posts which are attacking, insulting, or mean will not be tolerated here.
Thank you so much to the many people here who have made so many kind and empathetic posts in this forum. Your words mean so much not only to the person you have replied to, but also to the many lurkers here who will never post, and who you will never know about, but may be touched by your words. You can never go wrong by offering support and kindness.