Well, like I tell everyone, Jax has been on my list since my first son (12 yrs) but it is VERY popular right now because of all the Jaxon's and Jackson's... so it's off my list now... Jaden is just WAAAAAy too overused for me too... HOWEVER, you might check with the Hospitals in your area to see how many have this name from this year or even last year. You might be surprised that it's not so bad in your particular area. Thats a good point a gal made on the boards yesterday... good luck!