Its so confusing alright!
Poor you still waiting. So hard having those long cycles. I really think having the faint opks is a good sign - it must be on its way. I definitely have read that some women get these on the days coming up to O. This is a good site that explains everything about opk's
http://www.fertilityplus.org/faq/opk.html
You'll certainly be ready for your attempt when it arrives. It nearly worse than waiting for AF! Too much time to worry over the attempt!
Tamara posted this in the FAQ's about opk's and O+12
ok so you have +opk.. this means you may o in 8-48 hours. Now start
watching your cervix and cm. When you O your cm will be ew (most
people not me lol) and your cervix will be really really soft. Don't
worry about hight because that fluctuates with bms. 12 hours after you
O your cervix will go from soft to hard and your cm will shift from
ewcm to creamy or from creamy to dry. If you do not have cm you go by
your cervix texture. These 2 usually go hand in hand but if they don't
go by cm. You have from now (o+12) to o+20 (8 more hours) to do your
attempt.
I think now I propably did O today but I don't know the time. With EWCM at 6pm it wasn't 12 hours after O at that time but I suppose it doesn't mean I was Oing right at that time either (sorry tmi but I only got the EWCM after a BM) ,
Now once
again I have no cm. Plus this time my cervix does feel a little
different/harder. Unfortunately I haven't been checking this before
this cycle, so am not an expert. Think I'll just have to try another attempt tonight! On the plus side when I tested some of todays ewcm it was 4.5! The lowest yet!
Once again thanks for listening!! Wine certainly should be on the list!! Its very much needed to get through all this!!