Please remember that the stats posted above are everyones sway.. good or bad. If you want to know the stats for what you will be doing you need to go look them up. Also please remember that the stats are only as good as the people reporting them.
| Name |
|
Country Belle |
pink~princess |
SuzieL |
| Gender Resulted |
|
girl |
girl |
girl |
| Swaying Attempt - Natural, EGS (TBM, SU, GDC, MSU), High Tech (IUI, IUI/MS), details? |
|
natural |
natural |
natural |
| pH |
| CM pH |
|
4.5 on attempts |
4.5 |
5 - 5.5 |
| DH pH |
|
8ish |
7.5-8 |
6 - 6.5 |
| Douche type and when |
|
yes - lime and water 1 hour before, and 5 mins after BD |
no |
no douche - they gave me YI |
| Replens and when |
|
yes - throughout fertile period to try to cut down EWCM |
no |
no |
| Big O |
|
no |
no |
no |
| Minerals |
| Calcium |
|
yes 1200mg, ate loads more calcium |
Yes, whatever is recommended on Ingender |
yes, ate more dairy |
| Magnesium |
|
yes 500mg |
yes |
yes |
| Potassium |
|
~ |
~ |
~ |
| Sodium |
|
ate much less salt |
~ |
~ |
| DH minerals |
|
~ |
Calcium, Magnesium |
Calcium, Magnesium |
| Diet |
| Dietary Changes |
|
not strict, ate loads of eggs |
Yes, both DH and I did girl diet and had been drinking Pelligrino and Perrier sparkling water since March. We also drank lots of Crystal Light and diet drinks. |
Me - yes, DH - lots of Crystal Lite |
| Did you continue diet after attempt/ how long? |
|
no!! I was on holiday |
Somewhat each month until we found out we got a BFP. |
yes - till BFP |
| caffeine |
|
no |
no |
maybe 1 coke a day |
| DH caffeine |
|
none |
Yes, he overloaded but didn't drink it before bd. |
yes - but barely |
| Hormones |
| Drinks |
|
~ |
I did Peppermint tea to lower testosterone and DH did Peppermint, Spearmint tea |
~ |
| Supplements |
|
no |
used Lavendar lotion to reduce testosterone |
no |
| Supplements |
| Cranberry |
|
yes 10000mg |
yes |
yes - pills |
| Acidophilus |
|
yes 2 per day |
no |
no |
| Sudafed |
|
yes around O to dry up CM |
Sometimes in previous months, can't remember if I did this month |
yes - before BD |
| Others |
|
antihistamine - lowered PH a lot |
Multivitamin occasionally. Folic Acid. Baby Aspirin off and on. |
extra folic acid and prenatal |
| DH supps |
|
Cranberry occasionally, had a beer the night before O+12 |
Cranberry, Licorice Root, Baby Aspirin |
Cranberry and Folic Acid |
| Timing |
| BD cutoff (# of days) |
|
3 days |
none |
none |
| BD thru O |
|
no |
yes |
yes |
| O+12 |
|
yes |
maybe |
no |
| Frequent BD/how many days |
|
no |
no |
BD every day AF - AF |
| Charting O with Temp |
|
no |
no, not this month |
no |
| Charting O with OPK |
|
yes |
no |
yes |
| Fertility monitor used/type |
|
Cue II |
no |
no |
| suspected O date |
|
8/28/08 |
8/8/08 or 8/9/08 |
8/24/08 |
| Ions |
| Oed in what moon phase |
|
new moon |
new moon |
new moon |
| Changed ions in other ways? |
|
~ |
Bought salt crystal lamp and bracelet for negative ions. Wore rose quartz bracelet. |
~ |
| Other |
| How many kids do you have? |
|
2 |
2 |
2 |
| What gender(s)? |
|
boys |
boys |
boys |
| # of months TTC |
|
2 |
3 |
4 |
| Your Age |
|
~ |
~ |
~ |
| BD position |
|
missionary on cut off, "spoons" on O+12 |
missionary |
missionary every time |
| Jump and dump |
|
yes |
no |
no |
| EWCM present/how much? |
|
very little on attempts (lots at O) |
Can't remember, probably on O day because I always do. |
yes - moderate |
| DH undies type |
|
boxers |
boxer briefs |
boxer briefs |
| DH hot bath/shower |
|
~ |
Occasionally, can't remember if right before BD that month. He took Epsom Salt (magnesium sulfate) baths to absorb magnesium and so did I. |
hot shower every night |
| OWT - anything under bed? |
|
~ |
no |
girl outfit and wooden spoon |
| Comments? |
|
I hope this gives hope to ladies whose DHs are very stubborn and unwilling to take part in swaying like my DH! You really can make a difference with everything that you do to sway! I think that the cue II is invaluable for timing O+12. Also IONS are very important! |
Tried to bring feminine energy into the house in how I decorated. (sounds weird but it's what I did) A week before I ovulated I had an awful stomach flu so I probably lost some weight. Dh had been mountain biking a lot so maybe lowered sperm count? Didn't BD much up until around ovulation so a bit of abstinence. I recommend buying a day of the week pill keeper for yourself and dh to keep on top of all the supplements. Prayed for a daughter I could raise to serve God. Hope this helps someone get the daughter they are hoping for! |
WE DID THE CUTOFF UNTIL THE LST MONTH WHEN WE DTD EVERYNIGHT THROUGH O AND FINALLY GOT A BFP! I THINK DTD EVERYNIGHT HELPED LOWER DH SPERM COUNT AND WHAT GAVE US OUR GIRL ALONG WITH LOWERING HIS PH LEVELS! |
| |
|
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|
|
| Name |
|
Lieske |
Just1girl |
WaitingforourCaroline |
| Gender Resulted |
|
girl |
girl |
girl |
| Swaying Attempt - Natural, EGS (TBM, SU, GDC, MSU), High Tech (IUI, IUI/MS), details? |
|
natural |
natural |
natural |
| pH |
| CM pH |
|
4.5 - 5 |
4.5 - 5 |
4.5 - 5.5 |
| DH pH |
|
7 - 7.5 |
8 |
7 - 8 |
| Douche type and when |
|
Lactacyd every 3 days |
The first 3 tries I made my own with lemon and water, before BD and less than 1/2 hr after then used a tampon soaked. On 8/1 I used a store bought vinagar and water before BD, then lemon and water less than 1/2 hr after, then douched again about 1/2 hr later, then soaked tampon. |
vinegar & water, before and after on O day (before only other days) |
| Replens and when |
|
no |
no |
yes, every 2-3 days |
| Big O |
|
no |
Since we did a week of attempts (I wanted to make sure I was doing it right lol) I did have the big O on 3 of the BDing days, but not the last which was 8/1. |
no |
| Minerals |
| Calcium |
|
yes |
yes |
yes, supps and increased dairy |
| Magnesium |
|
yes |
yes |
yes |
| Potassium |
|
~ |
~ |
~ |
| Sodium |
|
~ |
~ |
lowered sodium |
| DH minerals |
|
~ |
Calcium, Magnesium |
~ |
| Diet |
| Dietary Changes |
|
yes - French diet |
I hate diets so I was not good with this |
yes |
| Did you continue diet after attempt/ how long? |
|
yes - till BFP |
~ |
no |
| caffeine |
|
no |
I did drink a soda every day |
yes, maybe 3 fountain drinks/week |
| DH caffeine |
|
yes |
soda once in awhile, but not every day |
yes |
| Hormones |
| Drinks |
|
~ |
~ |
~ |
| Supplements |
|
~ |
~ |
~ |
| Supplements |
| Cranberry |
|
yes |
yes |
yes |
| Acidophilus |
|
no |
yes |
no |
| Sudafed |
|
no |
~ |
yes 3 tabs/day leading up to O |
| Others |
|
extra folic acid and prenatal |
~ |
prenatal, folic acid and baby aspirin |
| DH supps |
|
Cranberry |
Cranberry, he was also taking blueberry pills (something about helping with his memory lol) |
Cranberry, Multivitamin |
| Timing |
| BD cutoff (# of days) |
|
3 - 4 |
~ |
none |
| BD thru O |
|
no |
I'm pretty sure I did (I was nursing and didn't know when I Oed and this month was just a "trial run" considering I've heard so many times it takes more than 1 month to get pg). |
yes |
| O+12 |
|
no |
~ |
maybe |
| Frequent BD/how many days |
|
BD every day AF to cutoff |
BD on cd 12, 13, 14 and 17 |
BD or release every day CD 10-15 |
| Charting O with Temp |
|
yes |
no |
yes |
| Charting O with OPK |
|
yes |
no |
yes |
| Fertility monitor used/type |
|
no |
~ |
yes, Ovacue |
| suspected O date |
|
11/6/08 |
according to a 28 day cycle 7/29.... I think possibly 8/1/08 |
11/22/08 |
| Ions |
| Oed in what moon phase |
|
new moon |
favored girl if I Oed on 8/1 |
heading towards new moon |
| Changed ions in other ways? |
|
~ |
~ |
~ |
| Other |
| How many kids do you have? |
|
3 |
3 |
5 |
| What gender(s)? |
|
boys |
boys |
boys |
| # of months TTC |
|
1 |
1 |
4 |
| Your Age |
|
~ |
~ |
~ |
| BD position |
|
missionary |
missionary |
missionary |
| Jump and dump |
|
no |
~ |
no |
| EWCM present/how much? |
|
very little |
very little |
a little on O day |
| DH undies type |
|
boxer briefs |
boxers |
boxer briefs |
| DH hot bath/shower |
|
hot bath every night |
~ |
no |
| OWT - anything under bed? |
|
~ |
~ |
dress under his side and my side of bed |
| Comments? |
|
~ |
any questions please let me know! I also propped up my hips after BDing each time. |
~ |
| |
|
|
|
|
| Name |
|
melissajane |
maof2lilmen |
stacye |
| Gender Resulted |
|
girl |
boy |
GIRL! |
| Swaying Attempt - Natural, EGS (TBM, SU, GDC, MSU), High Tech (IUI, IUI/MS), details? |
|
natural |
EGS - TBM on O day and O+12, 3-4 drops of lime, splime not heated, let it sit 2 min. |
natural |
| pH |
| CM pH |
|
4.5 - 5 |
from 4.5 - 6 depending on the day -- then drank CL to bring it down |
5 (didn’t seem to change much) |
| DH pH |
|
8.5 |
~ |
7-8 (also didn't seem to change much) |
| Douche type and when |
|
2mls lime/water 5-10 mins after BD, lay with hips propped then fell asleep. |
Once, lime 30 min after |
Store-bought vinegar (20 mins. Before) |
| Replens and when |
|
Aci-Jel, fingertip and a half 3 hrs before BD. Knuckle full about once a week. |
Every other day and before BDing |
Yes (occassionally, including night before O) |
| Big O |
|
no |
no |
no |
| Minerals |
| Calcium |
|
750 mg/day, lots of dairy |
1,200+ mg, ate more calcium |
1000 mg daily (AF to O) |
| Magnesium |
|
200 mg/day |
yes 250 mg |
500 mg (AF to O) |
| Potassium |
|
avoided potassium |
~ |
~ |
| Sodium |
|
very low sodium |
~ |
~ |
| DH minerals |
|
~ |
~ |
~ |
| Diet |
| Dietary Changes |
|
Yes - lots of raspberries, tried to eat off the girl diet. |
yes |
Very minimal |
| Did you continue diet after attempt/ how long? |
|
Much more relaxed about the diet for 2WW, ate meat and potatoes once, and pizza another time... Stopped diet completely after BFP. |
no |
no |
| caffeine |
|
1 tea per day |
a few times - a diet soda, maybe 1 cup of coffee |
occassionally |
| DH caffeine |
|
yes |
some, not a ton |
yes |
| Hormones |
| Drinks |
|
~ |
~ |
~ |
| Supplements |
|
~ |
~ |
~ |
| Supplements |
| Cranberry |
|
no |
yes, TONS- popped them like candy |
3 tablets of 1640 concentrate each (AF to O) |
| Acidophilus |
|
no |
yes 1 tablet |
no |
| Sudafed |
|
No, but did take 1 antihistamine 2 hrs before BD. |
1 the two days around O |
Yes, around O (1 hour before DTD) |
| Others |
|
Folic Acid, Vit B complex, Vit E, Zinc |
TONS of Crystal Light |
no |
| DH supps |
|
yes, cranberry juice, 250mg Calcium, 100 mg Magnesium, Baby Aspirin |
yes, 3 cranberry pills a day, 1200 mg Calcium, 250 mg Magnesium |
no |
| Timing |
| BD cutoff (# of days) |
|
12 |
2 |
3 1/2 days & On O |
| BD thru O |
|
Late on O day (aiming for O+12, probably more like O+6) |
yes, accidentally |
Yes (BD'd on O by accident) |
| O+12 |
|
Late on O day (aiming for O+12, probably more like O+6) |
yes |
Don't think so (I was trying for an O+12, but my cycle was a little bit wacky) |
| Frequent BD/how many days |
|
No, 12 day abstinence |
Every day from AF to 2 day cut off and then on O and O+12 |
No (3 1/2 days before O and then again on O (thought I was going for an O+12) |
| Charting O with Temp |
|
yes |
no |
yes |
| Charting O with OPK |
|
yes |
no |
yes |
| Fertility monitor used/type |
|
POAS |
CBE fertility monitor |
no |
| suspected O date |
|
10/7/08 |
10/1/08 |
9/7/08 |
| Ions |
| Oed in what moon phase |
|
new moon |
new moon |
New (O'd in Full moon with DS) |
| Changed ions in other ways? |
|
Also wore Black Tourmaline and Rose Quartz in my bra for 6 months prior to TTC and encouraged as much negative ions as possible. |
~ |
no |
| Other |
| How many kids do you have? |
|
1 |
2 |
1 |
| What gender(s)? |
|
boy |
boys |
Boy |
| # of months TTC |
|
1 |
3 |
2 |
| Your Age |
|
~ |
~ |
~ |
| BD position |
|
missionary, shallow |
missionary |
missionary |
| Jump and dump |
|
Sort of - I pushed the semen out with my pelvic muscles straight after BD. |
no |
no |
| EWCM present/how much? |
|
A small amount, but not anywhere near amount I had before taking supplements. |
Some -- patchy like in quality |
Not before BD (a tiny bit appeared night of O which made me think I messed up my O+12 attempt) |
| DH undies type |
|
tight briefs |
briefs |
Boxers |
| DH hot bath/shower |
|
Heat pack for about 30mins before attempt. |
No, not before but yes every day (<: |
Warm shower before each BD |
| OWT - anything under bed? |
|
pink baby booties |
girl dress, clothes |
Yes (Wooden Spoon and dress under bed) |
| Comments? |
|
Had 2 sessions of Kinesiology with goal to fall pregnant easily and have a healthy pregnancy resulting in the safe and quick birth of our baby girl. This was a VERY POWERFUL experience which I strongly believe helped to result in our BFP first month TTC. |
I stopped using lime douche before and after this month and stopped the lime tampons. I think thats what did it. I hope I still have a chance for a girl! |
It's a miracle I'm having a girl!! DH's family is ALL BOYS so this was my only hope (especially since this is our last)!!! A few more things that I did was drank a lot of Crystal Light, laid with hips propped for about 40 mins after DTD, inserted 1-2 ml of lime water mix after DTD, and I applied a tiny bit of Canola Oil for lube purposes. |
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|
|
|
|
| Name |
|
aSissy4Gabbie |
snakesnsnails |
BOYZRGR8 |
| Gender Resulted |
|
girl |
girl |
girl |
| Swaying Attempt - Natural, EGS (TBM, SU, GDC, MSU), High Tech (IUI, IUI/MS), details? |
|
EGS - TBM, bout 25 drops lime added to DH sample, 6ml sample (I almost didn't have room in my test tube for the egg white!), splime pH 4 - 4.5 |
natural |
natural |
| pH |
| CM pH |
|
4 - 4.5 |
5.5 - 6 |
4.5 - 5.5 |
| DH pH |
|
8 - 8.5 |
? |
7 |
| Douche type and when |
|
Lime 1 hour before TBM and as needed for 4 hours following TBM |
No...I was on my 5th month TTC and I just wanted to get PG |
3 ml of 2:1 lime 30 minutes before attempt, then right afterwards with 3 ml again. |
| Replens and when |
|
no |
Yes, every 3 days leading up to O |
every other day from CD 8-14 |
| Big O |
|
no |
no |
no |
| Minerals |
| Calcium |
|
no |
1000mg |
1200mg, ate lots of yogurt and cheese daily |
| Magnesium |
|
no |
500mg |
500mg |
| Potassium |
|
~ |
no bananas |
Decreased bananas (nearly killed me!) |
| Sodium |
|
~ |
~ |
~ |
| DH minerals |
|
~ |
~ |
~ |
| Diet |
| Dietary Changes |
|
not really |
No OJ, Loads of Crystal Light (Like 60 ml a day, esp. in the days before O) |
yes |
| Did you continue diet after attempt/ how long? |
|
no |
no |
~ |
| caffeine |
|
yes - about 3 a day |
yes, but not around O |
yes, but tried to cut back |
| DH caffeine |
|
yes - about 3 a day also |
yes, but not on the days of attempt |
yes, but tried to cut back |
| Hormones |
| Drinks |
|
~ |
~ |
~ |
| Supplements |
|
~ |
Clomid 50mg CD 3-7, B6 100mg |
~ |
| Supplements |
| Cranberry |
|
yes - pills |
CVS super strength cranberry: 1 tablet a day AF to O (equalivent to 17,000 mg of cranberry fruit) |
8000-12000 mg/day |
| Acidophilus |
|
no |
~ |
~ |
| Sudafed |
|
no |
yes, on the days of attempt |
occasionally from CD 8-14 and before attempt |
| Others |
|
no |
Folic acid 400mcg, Bayer low dose asprin 81mg |
1 baby aspirin daily, tons of Crystal Lite in days leading up to attempt |
| DH supps |
|
cranberry pills |
~ |
cranberry, tons of Crystal Lite in days leading up to attempt |
| Timing |
| BD cutoff (# of days) |
|
none |
4 days and 2 days |
none |
| BD thru O |
|
no |
no |
no |
| O+12 |
|
I think (or rather hope) so |
I believe a perfect timed O+12 |
yes |
| Frequent BD/how many days |
|
NO DH did not ejaculate for 7 days prior to SU/TBM attempt |
~ |
DH daily release by self or BD with condom |
| Charting O with Temp |
|
no |
no |
yes |
| Charting O with OPK |
|
no, saliva ferning and knowledge of my body/cycle |
~ |
yes |
| Fertility monitor used/type |
|
Just ferning under the microscope |
Cue II (Which I would highly recommend!) |
~ |
| suspected O date |
|
12/19/08, our 6th anniversary, what a gift! My 6th baby! |
12/31/08 |
CD14 |
| Ions |
| Oed in what moon phase |
|
Last Quarter |
new moon |
new moon |
| Changed ions in other ways? |
|
~ |
I used a neg. ion humidifier and it blew directly on me all night. I used it every night for several months. |
~ |
| Other |
| How many kids do you have? |
|
5 |
2 |
3 |
| What gender(s)? |
|
4 boys and 1 lonely little girl |
boys |
boys |
| # of months TTC |
|
1 |
5 |
2 |
| Your Age |
|
~ |
~ |
~ |
| BD position |
|
missionary (hips elevated for TBM) |
various |
missionary and shallow |
| Jump and dump |
|
no |
no |
no |
| EWCM present/how much? |
|
No (showed up after saliva changed to infertile stage, weird) |
very little |
~ |
| DH undies type |
|
boxers |
boxers |
~ |
| DH hot bath/shower |
|
only as usual |
~ |
~ |
| OWT - anything under bed? |
|
Probably but not on purpose! LOL |
~ |
tiny pair of girly shoes |
| Comments? |
|
Hope it worked! |
Just FYI tested at 10 dpo and got a negative, tested at 11 dpo and got that positive - used FRER both times. Also, lots of prayer and supportive friends! |
Took supps for 1.5 months before attempt. +OPK on CD 13 at 11 am. Kept watching CM and cervical position. CM EW/creamy, but cervix high, soft, and open. Cervix very much open all day. No sign of vervical shift. -OPK by 11 pm so I knew I was close to my attempt! DH still released to keep sperm count low. CM is creamy, C is open, soft, and getting lower! Some slight cramping. CD14 1st day of new moon phase. 5am CM is very dry, so dry I thought I'd missed my window, but went for it anyway! Cervix is low, getting firmer and more closed. Took Sudafed, Douched with 3 ml of 2:1 lime 30 minutes before attempt. BD missionary and shallow, No O. Douched again with 3 ml of lime. Layed with hips up for 10 mins, then on stomach (I have a tipped back uterus) for 45 minutes. Got up, showered, did lime tampon for 4 hours. After removing that after 4 hours I waited 4 hours, checked my CM and it was a 7 so I put another lime tampon for 4 more hours just to be sure. CD 15 C was low, firm, and closed. Temp went up. I was sure I had ovulated. |
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|
| Name |
|
momof4boys |
TeresaG |
MintJulep |
| Gender Resulted |
|
girl |
girl |
boy |
| Swaying Attempt - Natural, EGS (TBM, SU, GDC, MSU), High Tech (IUI, IUI/MS), details? |
|
EGS - TBM, 3-5 drops of lime, sample size 1-2ml, splime pH 4.5 |
natural |
natural |
| pH |
| CM pH |
|
4 - 4.5 |
4 |
4 - 4.5 |
| DH pH |
|
around 7 |
7 |
not sure - pretty low though because it didn't raise my PH much |
| Douche type and when |
|
no douche - my PH stayed low |
vinegar every 30 minutes after BD |
lime 1 hour before and as needed for 4 hours |
| Replens and when |
|
no |
day after BD |
no |
| Big O |
|
no |
no |
I don't remember, but probably, yes |
| Minerals |
| Calcium |
|
supps, ate more dairy |
3 x 333mg |
yes |
| Magnesium |
|
yes |
3 x 167mg (including zinc) |
yes |
| Potassium |
|
no bananas |
~ |
~ |
| Sodium |
|
~ |
~ |
~ |
| DH minerals |
|
~ |
~ |
~ |
| Diet |
| Dietary Changes |
|
Yes, low calorie, no breakfast, LOTS of crystal light and only diet soda |
Girl diet for 6 weeks before ttc both me and DH and we were very very strict with it, (it was pure hell!). Found bottled water in supermarket that contained the right amount of minerals and drank that, but 1 week before ttc we drank only Evian and Perrier (very costly but worth it!) |
Yes, somewhat - still breastfeeding so I couldn't do a lot |
| Did you continue diet after attempt/ how long? |
|
yes, till BFP |
yes, until BFP |
yes |
| caffeine |
|
YES - usually 1 coke zero cherry a day |
no not a drop! |
no |
| DH caffeine |
|
yes - but it was rare |
no |
yes |
| Hormones |
| Drinks |
|
~ |
~ |
~ |
| Supplements |
|
Soy Isoflavone (200mg CD1-5) |
Vitex 1 x 400mg, B6 2 x 50mg |
no |
| Supplements |
| Cranberry |
|
yes - pills |
equiv to 6000mg x 2 |
yes, drink and pills |
| Acidophilus |
|
yes |
yes |
no |
| Sudafed |
|
no |
one hour before BD |
yes |
| Others |
|
Prenatal with no potassium |
Vit D 1 x 400 IU, Aspirin 1 x 81mg, B12 1 x 100mcg |
no |
| DH supps |
|
cranberry pills, calcium, magnesium, Licorice Root 2 pills a day, tons of crystal light as well, and acidophilis |
cranberry - equiv to 6000mg x 2, plus ate lots of dried cranberries and juice, calcium 3 x 333mg, magnesium 3 x 167mg, Vit D 1 x 400iu plus tons of crystal light |
cranberry, calcium, magnesium, acidophilus, folic acid |
| Timing |
| BD cutoff (# of days) |
|
7, 5 & 2 |
none |
none |
| BD thru O |
|
no |
no |
yes |
| O+12 |
|
yes |
somewhere between O+15 and O+20 |
no |
| Frequent BD/how many days |
|
The month we finally conceived, we only BD 3 times. 5 days before, 2 days before, and 9-12 hours after |
DH released every day from CD 1 to CD 12. |
We BD'ed 4 days in a row right through O |
| Charting O with Temp |
|
yes |
yes |
yes |
| Charting O with OPK |
|
yes |
no |
yes |
| Fertility monitor used/type |
|
no |
Ovacue |
none |
| suspected O date |
|
9/4/08 |
8/23/2008 early AM |
1/10/09 or 1/11/09 |
| Ions |
| Oed in what moon phase |
|
new moon |
Moon went into the last quarter the day we BD'd. |
full |
| Changed ions in other ways? |
|
~ |
Rock salt de-ionizer plugged in by my bed every night. Fan blowing ions away from me when on computer. Rose quartz and hematite necklaces. |
~ |
| Other |
| How many kids do you have? |
|
4 |
2 |
2 |
| What gender(s)? |
|
boys |
boys |
boys |
| # of months TTC |
|
6 |
1 |
4 |
| Your Age |
|
~ |
~ |
~ |
| BD position |
|
missionary every time |
missionary, shallow |
missionary (hips elevated) |
| Jump and dump |
|
no |
no |
no |
| EWCM present/how much? |
|
Not during O, but usually several days before I'd have a tiny bit. My CM was almost 90% creamy through my entire month of TTC that last month |
yes before ovulation, but nowhere near as much as before I started supps and diet. When we BD'd there was none. |
yes |
| DH undies type |
|
briefs |
tighty whities! |
boxers |
| DH hot bath/shower |
|
no |
no |
yes, before DTD |
| OWT - anything under bed? |
|
little bracelet under pillow |
2 pink dresses under pillow plus a wooden spoon. |
no |
| Comments? |
|
~ |
We BD'd at 11.15pm, used canola oil and I kept my hips propped up. At 11.45 my PH was 7 and I did a vinegar douche. At 12.15pm it was 6.25 and I did another vinegar douche, at 12.45pm it was still 6.25 and I did another vinegar douche. At 1.10pm it was 6.00 so I put a vinegar soaked tampon in and went to bed and dropped hips. Next morning my temps had dropped - yikes! but my cervix was telling me that I had definitely ovulated and I was very dry. My PH was 6.25 so I did a finger of Replens and by 4.45pm my PH was 4.0. I got a yeast infection after that!!!!!! The douche was PH 4 and I used 4mls. I used about 2.5ozs of distilled water and about 5ozs of vinegar. |
We prayed too! I hope it worked. |
| |
|
|
|
|
| Name |
|
Lilac3BwantaG |
mum_of_4_boyz |
weealli |
| Gender Resulted |
|
boy |
girl |
girl |
| Swaying Attempt - Natural, EGS (TBM, SU, GDC, MSU), High Tech (IUI, IUI/MS), details? |
|
natural |
natural |
natural |
| pH |
| CM pH |
|
5 |
unknown (first cycle never got around to testing) |
I didn't test, but mine is usually low |
| DH pH |
|
7.5 |
unknown |
off the charts high, so I think the vinegar really helped with that! |
| Douche type and when |
|
~ |
none |
7% pickling vinegar & water before & after BD |
| Replens and when |
|
~ |
no |
no |
| Big O |
|
yes |
no |
almost always |
| Minerals |
| Calcium |
|
yes, lots of milk, yogurt |
yes |
there is calcium in our tap water |
| Magnesium |
|
yes |
yes |
no |
| Potassium |
|
no bananas |
~ |
~ |
| Sodium |
|
lowered salt |
~ |
~ |
| DH minerals |
|
~ |
~ |
~ |
| Diet |
| Dietary Changes |
|
no tomatoes, cut down potatoes, lots of propel fitness water, not a strict diet though |
was aware of "girl diet" |
no |
| Did you continue diet after attempt/ how long? |
|
no |
yes |
~ |
| caffeine |
|
drastically lowered to 1 cup of coffee or a soda every few days |
no coffee but do drink pepsi from time to time |
very little |
| DH caffeine |
|
yes |
~ |
yes, a little |
| Hormones |
| Drinks |
|
~ |
~ |
~ |
| Supplements |
|
~ |
B6 |
~ |
| Supplements |
| Cranberry |
|
yes, chewables with vitamin C |
yes pills |
no |
| Acidophilus |
|
~ |
no |
no |
| Sudafed |
|
yes, took through O even though had cutoff |
no |
no |
| Others |
|
asprin up until O, ate 4 rolaids a day |
~ |
~ |
| DH supps |
|
coq10, antibiotic |
no |
no |
| Timing |
| BD cutoff (# of days) |
|
3 |
none |
maybe 2, but not sure - never got a peak on CBEFM |
| BD thru O |
|
no |
yes |
no |
| O+12 |
|
no |
yes and no |
no |
| Frequent BD/how many days |
|
on days 7, 9, and 12 (O'd on day 15) |
3 days before then AM before and PM day of temp spike |
Yes, BD 5 times in 2.5 days; celebrating anniversary without kids at a wine tasting festival. Need I say more? |
| Charting O with Temp |
|
yes |
yes |
no |
| Charting O with OPK |
|
yes |
no |
no |
| Fertility monitor used/type |
|
~ |
none |
CBEFM |
| suspected O date |
|
1/4/09 |
12/14/08 |
10/28/08 |
| Ions |
| Oed in what moon phase |
|
first quarter, new moon |
waning moon |
new |
| Changed ions in other ways? |
|
~ |
~ |
~ |
| Other |
| How many kids do you have? |
|
3 |
4 |
2 |
| What gender(s)? |
|
boys |
boys |
boys |
| # of months TTC |
|
7 |
1 |
was trying to avoid!! |
| Your Age |
|
~ |
~ |
~ |
| BD position |
|
me on top |
me on top |
variety, we were away for our anniversary |
| Jump and dump |
|
yes |
no |
yes |
| EWCM present/how much? |
|
1 day with watery, next day eggwhite, next day watery all after attempt day |
no, but lots of watery non-stretchy CM |
very little, hubby complained that BD was not too comfortable! |
| DH undies type |
|
boxers |
tight fitted boxers |
boxer briefs |
| DH hot bath/shower |
|
only as usual not before BD |
yes, before BD |
Usually before each BD, hubby is meticulous about hygiene! In a good way! |
| OWT - anything under bed? |
|
wooden spoon, quarter sized pink plastic baby I won at a babyshower, and martha stewart magazines I needed all the help I could get |
yes, pink baby fleece blanket and wooden spoon |
no |
| Comments? |
|
Lots and Lots of prayers that I'd conceive a baby girl. Tried to think positive thoughts only that "I will have a baby girl." |
~ |
We were trying to avoid as we had already done our Microsort consult and were scheduled to cycle in March. Went away for the weekend and drank a lot of wine. I thought with all the vinegar and cut-off there was no chance at pregnancy but I was wrong. :) When I found out I was pregnant I thought I'd really messed up, but thankfully its worked out! I also got a really strong early pregnancy test 5 days before my period was due. The line was dark. I was also very sick this time out and was put off work for two weeks. But, its worth it! Thank-you In-Gender and Redcin- you made my dream come true! |
| |
|
|
|
|
| Name |
|
Heather JJ |
mbibik |
mama_to3boys |
| Gender Resulted |
|
boy |
girl |
girl |
| Swaying Attempt - Natural, EGS (TBM, SU, GDC, MSU), High Tech (IUI, IUI/MS), details? |
|
natural |
natural |
natural |
| pH |
| CM pH |
|
4 - 4.5 |
Last taken was 5.5 in September |
I did not check my PH as my strips did not work |
| DH pH |
|
7.5 - 8 |
Last taken was 7.5 in July |
~ |
| Douche type and when |
|
lime 30 minutes after |
none |
~ |
| Replens and when |
|
~ |
no |
before and after attempts |
| Big O |
|
no |
no |
~ |
| Minerals |
| Calcium |
|
1,000mg liquid plus 250 in prenatals, drank loads of milk |
no |
yes |
| Magnesium |
|
500mg liquid |
no |
yes |
| Potassium |
|
Absolutely no bananas, tomatoes, potatoes, or anything with lots of potassium. |
~ |
stayed away from potassium |
| Sodium |
|
Super low salt - even made my own salt-free bread! |
~ |
~ |
| DH minerals |
|
same as me |
~ |
~ |
| Diet |
| Dietary Changes |
|
See minerals. Also lots of strawberry smoothies with natural organic yogurt and Splenda and lots of dried cranberries. |
no |
~ |
| Did you continue diet after attempt/ how long? |
|
Did diet for five months before BFP and stopped after BFP |
no |
~ |
| caffeine |
|
None at all except for a bit of chocolate here and there |
yes 3-4 cups coffee |
I sometimes would have half a cup |
| DH caffeine |
|
yes, daily |
yes 1-2 cups coffee a day |
no |
| Hormones |
| Drinks |
|
Peppermint tea three or four times a week to lower testosterone. |
~ |
~ |
| Supplements |
|
B6 |
~ |
~ |
| Supplements |
| Cranberry |
|
yes, recommended amount |
no |
pills and juice |
| Acidophilus |
|
~ |
no |
~ |
| Sudafed |
|
~ |
no |
~ |
| Others |
|
Prenatals with no potassium, B-Complex, Baby Aspirin, Vitamin D was included with Calcium |
nothing |
~ |
| DH supps |
|
Cranberry, Vitamin D |
no |
cranberry, lots of Crystal Lite |
| Timing |
| BD cutoff (# of days) |
|
3 day cut off |
7 |
cutoff at +opk |
| BD thru O |
|
no |
no |
no |
| O+12 |
|
~ |
no |
yes |
| Frequent BD/how many days |
|
DH released most days during AF, then BD every day from AF up to cut-off |
no |
we BD after AF ended every other day until I got a +opk |
| Charting O with Temp |
|
yes |
no |
~ |
| Charting O with OPK |
|
yes |
no |
yes |
| Fertility monitor used/type |
|
Ovacue II |
none |
~ |
| suspected O date |
|
CD 18 |
12/26/08 or 12/27/08 |
~ |
| Ions |
| Oed in what moon phase |
|
New, with moon in girl sign |
day before or day of new moon |
~ |
| Changed ions in other ways? |
|
Wore rose quartz bracelets all the time and put rose quartz and black tourmaline stones in my bra for week of O. Turned on salt lamp when at home. |
~ |
~ |
| Other |
| How many kids do you have? |
|
1 |
2 |
4 |
| What gender(s)? |
|
boy |
boys |
boys |
| # of months TTC |
|
4 |
0 (unplanned) |
2 |
| Your Age |
|
35 |
~ |
~ |
| BD position |
|
missionary |
missionary |
~ |
| Jump and dump |
|
yes |
no |
yes |
| EWCM present/how much? |
|
Not really - teeny tiny bit on O day but mainly creamy and not much |
no, very dry |
none |
| DH undies type |
|
boxers |
boxers |
~ |
| DH hot bath/shower |
|
not before, no |
no |
~ |
| OWT - anything under bed? |
|
Pink dress and pink baby socks, wooden spoon |
no |
~ |
| Comments? |
|
Thought for sure this would be enough to get my daughter, but I guess not. Also thought that because Shettles and diet (without knowing it) worked for DS, it would work this time as well for a girl.... :( Happy to have another healthy boy and love him to bits though! |
We had decided to not try anymore. DH and I BD’d 7 days before O, and only had sex twice that month. Both DH and I had quit smoking so we think it helped with fertility. This baby is definitely a surprise miracle. I hope and pray this is a girl. DH has been drinking Crystal Lite like crazy since the summer, so I think it has kept his pH down. |
I truly believe that lowering our ph was the big factor here. I even mentioned this to our doctor and she totally agreed. |
| |
|
|
|
|
| Name |
|
EmmayOlivia |
lavender25 |
BabiesRBlessings |
| Gender Resulted |
|
girl |
girl |
girl |
| Swaying Attempt - Natural, EGS (TBM, SU, GDC, MSU), High Tech (IUI, IUI/MS), details? |
|
natural |
natural |
natural |
| pH |
| CM pH |
|
5 |
5.5 |
6.0 before douche |
| DH pH |
|
7.5 - 8 |
7.5 - 8 |
7.0 |
| Douche type and when |
|
Yes, vinegar – but a little (3ml) |
none |
lime douche before every attempt |
| Replens and when |
|
not that month |
About 5 minutes after BD I added a big glob of replens and went to bed. I added another big glob of replens the next day too because my ph went up into the upper 5's. |
none |
| Big O |
|
no |
~ |
no |
| Minerals |
| Calcium |
|
1200mg, ate loads more calcium |
1000mg, increased dairy |
no |
| Magnesium |
|
yes, 300mg |
~ |
no |
| Potassium |
|
~ |
~ |
~ |
| Sodium |
|
ate much less salt |
cut back on sodium |
~ |
| DH minerals |
|
~ |
~ |
~ |
| Diet |
| Dietary Changes |
|
Yes, quite strict, loads of eggs |
Yes. Also drank reverse osmosis water for about 2 cycles. The RO water I had has a ph of 5.5. |
no meat, tomatoes, nuts |
| Did you continue diet after attempt/ how long? |
|
no |
~ |
no |
| caffeine |
|
none |
~ |
yes |
| DH caffeine |
|
none |
~ |
yes |
| Hormones |
| Drinks |
|
~ |
~ |
~ |
| Supplements |
|
~ |
100mg B vitamin complex |
~ |
| Supplements |
| Cranberry |
|
loads of juice |
several glasses of cran-razz juice a day |
For 6 months and then quit the month before I got prego. |
| Acidophilus |
|
no |
~ |
no |
| Sudafed |
|
yes |
yes, a couple of times |
no |
| Others |
|
~ |
10mg Loratadine (antihistamine) |
prenatal |
| DH supps |
|
Cranberry, calcium the week of O |
~ |
cranberry for 6 months and quit the month we got preggo |
| Timing |
| BD cutoff (# of days) |
|
no |
none |
none |
| BD thru O |
|
yes |
no |
yes |
| O+12 |
|
yes |
yes |
no |
| Frequent BD/how many days |
|
BD every day of the O week |
We had protected BD on CD 9, 10, 11, and our attempt was on CD 12. |
All 3 days prior to O and then on O day (4 days in a row) |
| Charting O with Temp |
|
yes |
~ |
yes |
| Charting O with OPK |
|
no |
~ |
yes |
| Fertility monitor used/type |
|
no |
~ |
~ |
| suspected O date |
|
11/25/08 |
~ |
12/13/08 |
| Ions |
| Oed in what moon phase |
|
favored girl - right on New Moon |
~ |
full |
| Changed ions in other ways? |
|
~ |
~ |
humidifier |
| Other |
| How many kids do you have? |
|
1 |
4 |
2 |
| What gender(s)? |
|
boy |
3 boys, 1 girl |
boys |
| # of months TTC |
|
8 |
6 |
5 |
| Your Age |
|
~ |
~ |
~ |
| BD position |
|
missionary |
~ |
missionary |
| Jump and dump |
|
no |
~ |
After 5 minutes. Used Diva Cup to hold the sperm in Vj. |
| EWCM present/how much? |
|
moderate |
none |
none |
| DH undies type |
|
boxers |
~ |
briefs |
| DH hot bath/shower |
|
not that month |
DH took hot bath for about 20 minutes before BD. |
~ |
| OWT - anything under bed? |
|
girl outfit and wooden spoon |
~ |
~ |
| Comments? |
|
I was doing TBM (3 months) and the cut off (4 months) without results. I was so desperate that I did it the day of O…and got pregnant! I was suffering a lot of regret for not doing Shettles and being so impatient, but finally it is a girl. I suppose that it was because of the diet, vinegar, moon, supplements…and a lot of praying! |
We BD 24 hours after my 1st + OPK, and when my CM had shifted. My cervix stayed soft and my temps were low for 2 days. Then my cervix went firm and temps spiked. But my CM stayed sticky. I got my symptoms early and a BFP at 9DPO so I hope those are good signs too. |
I douched before each attempt and had ZERO CM. |
| |
|
|
|
|
| Name |
|
bennY251 |
LuvMySonshines |
acupit07 |
| Gender Resulted |
|
girl |
girl |
girl |
| Swaying Attempt - Natural, EGS (TBM, SU, GDC, MSU), High Tech (IUI, IUI/MS), details? |
|
natural |
natural |
natural |
| pH |
| CM pH |
|
~ |
? |
N/A |
| DH pH |
|
~ |
? |
never tested him |
| Douche type and when |
|
lime douche an hour before attempt, and then every half hour afterwards as needed |
nope |
no |
| Replens and when |
|
~ |
no |
none |
| Big O |
|
~ |
no |
no |
| Minerals |
| Calcium |
|
yes |
ate yogurt/cheese |
no |
| Magnesium |
|
yes |
no |
no |
| Potassium |
|
tried to limit bananas |
~ |
~ |
| Sodium |
|
~ |
~ |
~ |
| DH minerals |
|
~ |
~ |
~ |
| Diet |
| Dietary Changes |
|
yes |
Pasta sauce and cranberries. No cereal or red meat. |
not really |
| Did you continue diet after attempt/ how long? |
|
~ |
yes, for about 2 months |
no |
| caffeine |
|
tried to limit caffeine |
yes, 2 cups of coffee a day |
yes |
| DH caffeine |
|
~ |
Yes, about 2 cans of Pepsi a day. I asked him to switch to Sprite (2 cans a day). |
A little, not a lot, though. |
| Hormones |
| Drinks |
|
~ |
~ |
~ |
| Supplements |
|
~ |
~ |
~ |
| Supplements |
| Cranberry |
|
yes |
no |
no |
| Acidophilus |
|
~ |
no |
no |
| Sudafed |
|
yes, 2 hours before attempt |
no |
no |
| Others |
|
folic acid |
no |
no |
| DH supps |
|
~ |
no |
no |
| Timing |
| BD cutoff (# of days) |
|
none |
4 |
none |
| BD thru O |
|
no |
no |
no |
| O+12 |
|
O+20 |
no |
no |
| Frequent BD/how many days |
|
no |
In month of conception, we BDed twice. Once on 7th of month, once on 18th. I was due to ovulate on 10/22. |
less than 24 hours |
| Charting O with Temp |
|
yes, for 9 months |
no |
no |
| Charting O with OPK |
|
~ |
no |
no |
| Fertility monitor used/type |
|
~ |
no |
none |
| suspected O date |
|
~ |
10/22/08 |
Not sure. I am very irregular, but I BD'd before ovulation . |
| Ions |
| Oed in what moon phase |
|
~ |
don't know |
full moon |
| Changed ions in other ways? |
|
~ |
no |
~ |
| Other |
| How many kids do you have? |
|
2 |
2 |
1 |
| What gender(s)? |
|
boys |
boys |
boy |
| # of months TTC |
|
~ |
Conceived right away |
1 |
| Your Age |
|
~ |
~ |
~ |
| BD position |
|
~ |
Started missionary, and moved to girl on top |
missionary |
| Jump and dump |
|
~ |
yes |
sometimes |
| EWCM present/how much? |
|
~ |
didn't notice |
no |
| DH undies type |
|
~ |
Boxers! He wouldn't switch. |
boxer briefs |
| DH hot bath/shower |
|
yes, hot bath for both of us prior to attempt |
no |
only as usual |
| OWT - anything under bed? |
|
~ |
no |
no |
| Comments? |
|
Took supplements and checked pH for 4 months prior to attempt. |
DH began to have big O and then stopped midway. I jumped and dumped. |
Long hard prayers. I didn't really do anything too special besides jump and dump at times, and shallow penetration, and my DH doesn't drink as much caffeine as he used too, don't know if I am just lucky or blessed, but I hope everyone else's attempts work. |
| |
|
|
|
|
| Name |
|
claire2b |
hollzdollz |
forbiddendonut |
| Gender Resulted |
|
boy |
girl |
fraternal twins girls |
| Swaying Attempt - Natural, EGS (TBM, SU, GDC, MSU), High Tech (IUI, IUI/MS), details? |
|
natural |
natural |
natural |
| pH |
| CM pH |
|
4.75ish |
unknown |
6 |
| DH pH |
|
8 |
unknown |
8 |
| Douche type and when |
|
vinegar before all attempts, after for last attempt before O only |
no |
none |
| Replens and when |
|
~ |
no |
none |
| Big O |
|
no |
yes |
yes |
| Minerals |
| Calcium |
|
supps, lots of dairy, organic milk, greek organic yogurt with strawberry preserves |
no |
400mg and ate a ton of dairy |
| Magnesium |
|
yes (liquid supps) |
no |
50mg |
| Potassium |
|
avoided potassium |
~ |
avoided potassium |
| Sodium |
|
low sodium |
~ |
avoided sodium |
| DH minerals |
|
~ |
no |
~ |
| Diet |
| Dietary Changes |
|
I did some of the diet...I avoided potatoes, tomatoes, and beef. About a week before O and during, I ate a cucumber and fresh raw green beans every day. I also drank crystal light, cranberry juice (pure and regular), propel...every day, especially week before and during O. DH did not really do this...However, I lowered his caffeine without him knowing! ..and I didn't cook red meat for him. |
no |
Girl diet, fed DH girl diet as much as possible, but couldn't control what he ate 24 hours a day. |
| Did you continue diet after attempt/ how long? |
|
~ |
no |
yes, until BFP |
| caffeine |
|
lowered caffiene a lot |
yes - 1 a day |
none |
| DH caffeine |
|
lowered caffeine a lot |
no |
just a diet coke every now and then |
| Hormones |
| Drinks |
|
~ |
~ |
none |
| Supplements |
|
Femara on CD5-9, and trigger shot on CD13. Also used B6. |
~ |
Clomid 50mg CD5-9 |
| Supplements |
| Cranberry |
|
yes |
no |
not that month - the Clomid dried me up too much |
| Acidophilus |
|
~ |
no |
no - it made my pH spike |
| Sudafed |
|
~ |
no |
no - the Clomid dried me up too much |
| Others |
|
folic acid |
no |
Multivitamin with extra calcium and no potassium, extra Folic Acid, baby aspirin |
| DH supps |
|
cranberry |
no |
multivitamin |
| Timing |
| BD cutoff (# of days) |
|
I either BD'd on O day...or a day before |
1 |
none |
| BD thru O |
|
maybe |
no |
yes |
| O+12 |
|
maybe |
no |
yes |
| Frequent BD/how many days |
|
yes, 4 days in a row before O |
Every 2nd day approx from end of period, none day before O, during O, and day after O. |
yes, BD CD12, 14, and 16-19. O'd CD19 |
| Charting O with Temp |
|
yes |
no |
yes |
| Charting O with OPK |
|
yes |
no |
yes |
| Fertility monitor used/type |
|
~ |
none |
none |
| suspected O date |
|
12/4/08 |
11/14/08 |
3/7/09 |
| Ions |
| Oed in what moon phase |
|
new moon |
full |
new |
| Changed ions in other ways? |
|
Ion generator, 5 salt lamps, bracelet, and 3 days before and around O, I turned on Humidfier. I also kept the window right next to my head cracked at night. |
~ |
Spent as much time around running water as possible near O. |
| Other |
| How many kids do you have? |
|
2 |
1 |
1 |
| What gender(s)? |
|
boys |
boy |
boy |
| # of months TTC |
|
~ |
7 |
6 months/5 cycles |
| Your Age |
|
~ |
~ |
29 |
| BD position |
|
missionary and me on top, shallow release |
missionary |
rear entry (only way DH can finish) |
| Jump and dump |
|
yes, except for two days before O in the evening, I layed down for a while before dumping |
yes |
no, used Diva Cup |
| EWCM present/how much? |
|
none |
no |
hardly any - the Clomid dried me up |
| DH undies type |
|
~ |
briefs |
boxer briefs |
| DH hot bath/shower |
|
yes, before every attempt |
Shower - 1 per day (evening) |
yes, every morning |
| OWT - anything under bed? |
|
Cute pink booties on my night stand...and a build a bear pink cat in fairy suit I made with the boys one time. lol |
no |
"It's a Girl" maternity shirt and wooden spoon. (Couldn't bring myself to buy a baby girl dress that I might not use) |
| Comments? |
|
If you asked me what I think went wrong...I'd say the last BD before O and the O+12 (ish).... If I could change my sway, that would be the only thing! Skipping the last two BDing sessions, that's all. We may have not done everything, but we swayed hard and did alot! So swaying may not be for me..and/or I messed it up...but I would still encourage anyone to try it! I believe it works! |
Only things done different compared to dear son, was the jumping & dumping after every Bd, missionary position, no bd'ing from day before during & day after "O". ITS A GIRL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! And girls are rare in my husbands "male" side of family, second girl in a very long time. Well overdue, so thrilled and excited!! |
I wasn't getting pregnant with girl timing and douche, so I dropped those when I started the Clomid. BFP first cycle on Clomid! I also propped hips for 30 minutes after every attempt during +opk time and used Canola Oil as a lube. |
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|
|
|
|
| Name |
|
NCBeachyGrl |
lovetorunhard |
mullarkey18 |
| Gender Resulted |
|
boy |
girl |
girl |
| Swaying Attempt - Natural, EGS (TBM, SU, GDC, MSU), High Tech (IUI, IUI/MS), details? |
|
natural |
natural |
natural |
| pH |
| CM pH |
|
5 |
4.5 - 5.5 |
5 |
| DH pH |
|
8 |
~ |
? |
| Douche type and when |
|
Lime Douche 5 minutes after BD |
2x vinegar douche early on |
Lime Douche 30 mins before and after |
| Replens and when |
|
Every other day starting at Day 10, 3 hours before last attempt |
aci-jel 2-3hr before/5min after every attempt |
I used refresh 30 mins before |
| Big O |
|
no |
no |
no |
| Minerals |
| Calcium |
|
supps, ate more calcium |
supps, 1-2 greek yogurt ea day |
supps, lots of dairy |
| Magnesium |
|
yes |
yes |
yes |
| Potassium |
|
~ |
~ |
~ |
| Sodium |
|
no salty food |
~ |
~ |
| DH minerals |
|
increased dairy intake |
~ |
~ |
| Diet |
| Dietary Changes |
|
Girl diet, lots of strawberries, crystal light, no red meat. DH tons of Crystal Lite. |
YES - lots of eggs/crystal lite |
YES - Girl Diet, DH - lots of crystal lite, moderate girl diet |
| Did you continue diet after attempt/ how long? |
|
yes, until BFP |
somewhat |
YES - TILL BFP |
| caffeine |
|
no |
YES 1-2 cups a day/1 cup closer to O |
no |
| DH caffeine |
|
very little |
yes |
YES (a lot) |
| Hormones |
| Drinks |
|
~ |
~ |
~ |
| Supplements |
|
~ |
~ |
~ |
| Supplements |
| Cranberry |
|
Yes, drink and supplements |
yes, sometimes |
YES - PILLS |
| Acidophilus |
|
no |
no |
yes |
| Sudafed |
|
no |
YES - every morning and before each attempt |
YES - 30 mins before attempt |
| Others |
|
B12, Folic Acid, Baby Aspirin |
folic/vit c/1 baby asprin a day |
Folic Acid |
| DH supps |
|
cranberry |
~ |
~ |
| Timing |
| BD cutoff (# of days) |
|
none |
none |
1 |
| BD thru O |
|
yes |
yes |
no |
| O+12 |
|
no |
maybe |
yes but maybe more that 12 (17+) |
| Frequent BD/how many days |
|
BD on CD 6,8,10,11,14 |
BD EVERYDAY AF to day after O |
Just our two attempts (we tried the every day but couldn't get pregnant) |
| Charting O with Temp |
|
yes |
yes |
no |
| Charting O with OPK |
|
yes |
yes |
yes |
| Fertility monitor used/type |
|
no |
no |
no |
| suspected O date |
|
3/3/09 |
3/8/09 |
11/15/08 |
| Ions |
| Oed in what moon phase |
|
new |
new |
? |
| Changed ions in other ways? |
|
~ |
ionic air purifier/neg ion bracelet |
~ |
| Other |
| How many kids do you have? |
|
1 |
2 |
2 |
| What gender(s)? |
|
boy |
boys |
boys |
| # of months TTC |
|
8 |
2 |
8 |
| Your Age |
|
~ |
~ |
~ |
| BD position |
|
missionary every time |
missionary every time |
missionary every time |
| Jump and dump |
|
yes |
no |
no |
| EWCM present/how much? |
|
No, I thought I had already O'd b/c CM turned very creamy |
yes, some |
yes - moderate |
| DH undies type |
|
boxer briefs |
~ |
boxers |
| DH hot bath/shower |
|
Hot shower before BD |
~ |
hot shower every day |
| OWT - anything under bed? |
|
no |
~ |
no |
| Comments? |
|
~ |
Very happy with my attempt, no regrets. First month we tried lime douche and I didn't get pregnant so I dropped it. I was very happy using the aci-jel as it kept my ph down. |
~ |
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|
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|
|
| Name |
|
USA 98 |
Heatherann |
hpyma3ds |
| Gender Resulted |
|
boy |
girl |
girl |
| Swaying Attempt - Natural, EGS (TBM, SU, GDC, MSU), High Tech (IUI, IUI/MS), details? |
|
natural |
EGS - TBM, 4 drops of lime, 2ml sample, splime pH 4.5, let it sit |
natural |
| pH |
| CM pH |
|
5.5 - 5.7 |
4.5 |
~ |
| DH pH |
|
7.5 |
8.5 |
~ |
| Douche type and when |
|
no |
Lime/water 1/2 hour before, 1/2 hour after |
vinegar, store bought days 9 and 11 |
| Replens and when |
|
no |
no |
finger days 9 and 11 |
| Big O |
|
no |
no |
no |
| Minerals |
| Calcium |
|
no |
yes |
yes, 1 cal/mag tab/night, added a little more milk |
| Magnesium |
|
no |
no |
see above |
| Potassium |
|
~ |
~ |
no |
| Sodium |
|
~ |
~ |
~ |
| DH minerals |
|
~ |
~ |
no |
| Diet |
| Dietary Changes |
|
no |
no |
added a little more milk, crystal light |
| Did you continue diet after attempt/ how long? |
|
no |
N/A |
yes |
| caffeine |
|
yes, 1/2 cup |
yes |
yes |
| DH caffeine |
|
yes, Mt. Dew |
no |
yes |
| Hormones |
| Drinks |
|
~ |
~ |
~ |
| Supplements |
|
~ |
~ |
~ |
| Supplements |
| Cranberry |
|
no |
no |
yes, 1 normal (not high strength) tab / night |
| Acidophilus |
|
no |
no |
about 1 / week |
| Sudafed |
|
no |
no |
1 on day 9 |
| Others |
|
no |
prenatal |
~ |
| DH supps |
|
no |
no |
~ |
| Timing |
| BD cutoff (# of days) |
|
3 |
no |
bd on days 8, 9, 11, 13 and 16 (OOPS) |
| BD thru O |
|
no |
yes |
no bd on o day 14 |
| O+12 |
|
yes |
maybe |
no |
| Frequent BD/how many days |
|
no |
yes, no cutoff |
see BD cutoff |
| Charting O with Temp |
|
yes |
yes |
no |
| Charting O with OPK |
|
yes |
yes |
yes, + OPK on day 14 |
| Fertility monitor used/type |
|
no |
yes/CBEFM |
~ |
| suspected O date |
|
3/3/09 |
12/9/08 |
day 14 |
| Ions |
| Oed in what moon phase |
|
new |
new |
new moon (always landed in that time) |
| Changed ions in other ways? |
|
~ |
~ |
~ |
| Other |
| How many kids do you have? |
|
1 |
2 |
3 |
| What gender(s)? |
|
boy |
boys |
boys |
| # of months TTC |
|
8 |
several total (two losses) but 3 from the last loss |
6 |
| Your Age |
|
~ |
~ |
35 |
| BD position |
|
DH on top |
missionary |
missionary |
| Jump and dump |
|
no |
no |
no |
| EWCM present/how much? |
|
YES a little/NO on O+? DAY |
some |
not much |
| DH undies type |
|
boxer briefs |
tightie whities |
boxer briefs |
| DH hot bath/shower |
|
no |
no |
no |
| OWT - anything under bed? |
|
no |
yes - pink onesie |
was out of town, but had a bow at home |
| Comments? |
|
~ |
Originally started out using Vinegar for a douche before/after but switched to lime when more women seemed to be having better luck with it. I figured all signs were "go" since (for once!) I was ovulating during new moon phase, chinese calendar also gave me a "go." |
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|
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|
|
| Name |
|
Fearymay |
I Luv My Kids |
nicrav |
| Gender Resulted |
|
girl |
boy |
girl |
| Swaying Attempt - Natural, EGS (TBM, SU, GDC, MSU), High Tech (IUI, IUI/MS), details? |
|
natural |
natural |
3 attempts: 1 cut off with TBM plus 2 O+12 and O + 48 |
| pH |
| CM pH |
|
around 5 to 5.5 before douche (I just couldn't get it down) |
5 |
4.5 - 5.5 |
| DH pH |
|
7 - 8 |
7.5 |
7.5 - 8 |
| Douche type and when |
|
Lime and distilled water. Every time before BD'ing and post douche. No Lime Tampon this cycle. |
Lime Douche~One hour prior to bd and five to ten minutes after then lime tampon two or so hours after for four hours...... |
lime douche with every attempt before and after. |
| Replens and when |
|
CD9 only that one time. Was making my CM weird. |
Every Two Days Fingertip full… |
every 2 days from the end of AF |
| Big O |
|
no |
yes |
no |
| Minerals |
| Calcium |
|
650mg (with vit. D3) x 2 |
1200 mg daily plus plenty of milk, cheese |
yes, 1200mg/day, drank milk |
| Magnesium |
|
250mg x 2 |
400mg daily plus diet |
yes, 450mg/day |
| Potassium |
|
minimal |
low amounts |
no |
| Sodium |
|
minimal |
low amounts |
no |
| DH minerals |
|
yes |
none |
calcium 600mg/day, magnesium 300mg/day |
| Diet |
| Dietary Changes |
|
Stuck close to the girl diet. |
Yes plenty of eggs and pasta/chicken....Strawberries/rasberries...I cut out red meat |
girl diet but had some low sodium cookies. (contained sugar). drank crystal light and evian |
| Did you continue diet after attempt/ how long? |
|
yes, till BFP |
no, quit in the 2WW |
wasn't able to continue the diet from 4 DPO. |
| caffeine |
|
Rarely. Maybe a coke every 2 months |
Yes,,,, One cup of coffee every second day or so.... |
none |
| DH caffeine |
|
One small coffee every few days. None around attempt. |
Yes tons (not by my choice) he luvs energy drinks. |
he says he didn't have any from my AF to O |
| Hormones |
| Drinks |
|
~ |
~ |
peppermint tea 3x a day. |
| Supplements |
|
~ |
Clomid |
Me - 50mg of B6 to lengthen the luteal phase, DH - licorice root for 2 weeks before the attempts. |
| Supplements |
| Cranberry |
|
yes 10000mg+ a day |
Yes at least four pills a day so around 2000mg |
yes, 17,000 x 2 day. |
| Acidophilus |
|
yes |
yes |
no |
| Sudafed |
|
CD13 (it gave me heart palps though) |
no |
yes, 1 hour before the attempt. |
| Others |
|
Vit. C, Folic Acid, Baby Aspirin (part of that cycle). Zinc, Vit. E, Vit. D |
Tons Of Cranberry Juice/Crystal Light/And distilled water..... |
~ |
| DH supps |
|
He took Cranberry, Mg., Ca., Folic acid, Vit. C, Baby aspirin (for low sperm he took Zinc, Vit. E, Vit. D ) |
none |
1 x 17,000 cranberry |
| Timing |
| BD cutoff (# of days) |
|
1 day |
Last BD CD17 and CD18 Oed CD19 so I'd say 24hour cut~off. |
It worked out to be 1.5 days |
| BD thru O |
|
I think so |
no |
no |
| O+12 |
|
yes |
no |
Think it was more like O+8. BD'ed in the evening and in the morning the temperatures were up. |
| Frequent BD/how many days |
|
no |
Yes cd 7,8,9,10,11,12,13 then 17,18...... |
DH released or BD'ed every day, once or twice from AF to O. |
| Charting O with Temp |
|
yes |
yes |
yes |
| Charting O with OPK |
|
yes |
yes |
yes |
| Fertility monitor used/type |
|
no |
no |
no |
| suspected O date |
|
CD13, 3/10/09 |
CD19, 3/20/09 |
Friday, 2/27/09 |
| Ions |
| Oed in what moon phase |
|
Ovulated right on full moon! we had an attempt the very HOUR of the full moon! |
Middle of new moon phase. |
new moon |
| Changed ions in other ways? |
|
used Ion hair dryer often, lots of running water, plants. |
I had a negative ion salt lamp on in my bedroom while I slept at night then brought it downstairs turned it on during the day. |
air purifier in the living room, salt lamp in the bedroom, airconditioner with e-ions and very hot summer |
| Other |
| How many kids do you have? |
|
1 |
2 beautiful boys |
3 |
| What gender(s)? |
|
DD |
boys |
boys |
| # of months TTC |
|
8 |
3 |
2 |
| Your Age |
|
30 |
23 |
33 |
| BD position |
|
missionary |
missionary, shallow penetration while DH had orgasm...I did O but made sure to early during BD so It would not suck up the swimmers.. |
TBM and missionary |
| Jump and dump |
|
no |
Yes the first attempt No the second..... |
no |
| EWCM present/how much? |
|
little amount, rinsed with douche |
Not much due to Clomid and me douching it all away. |
little |
| DH undies type |
|
boxers (he used his seat warmer in his car religiously though) |
boxers |
jocks |
| DH hot bath/shower |
|
hot showers prior to attempt |
no |
yes, about 1 hour before |
| OWT - anything under bed? |
|
no |
no |
no |
| Comments? |
|
Lots of CL this cycle. I was mixing 2 to 3 packs of CL in one glass with 2 to 3 packs of Equal. I was adding lots of Equal to everything. I ate lots of frozen strawberries and craisins sprinkled with Equal. I also was drinking a lot of Propel Calcium water and Evian. FX - Sticky Girl Bean! |
I did some ttc girl no nos such as The big O and and one day cut~off but I dont think either of the above truly matters.... I had the major factors.... douche/supplements/ negative ions and the biggest factor praying to God on my side....I think I had a great sway and think I've got my girl. =) |
for the cut off we did TBM into the lunette (diva) cup. Adjusted the pH and inserted. Checked the pH and added more lime douche. For the BDs, I douched beforehand and added 1 ml of lime douche immediately after followed by the diva cup. |
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|
|
| Name |
|
shanab99 |
almost3 |
qtz111 |
| Gender Resulted |
|
girl |
boy |
boy |
| Swaying Attempt - Natural, EGS (TBM, SU, GDC, MSU), High Tech (IUI, IUI/MS), details? |
|
natural |
natural |
natural |
| pH |
| CM pH |
|
4.5 |
4.5 - 5.5 |
4 |
| DH pH |
|
8.5 |
7 - 7.5 |
7 |
| Douche type and when |
|
~ |
none |
I never used douche. Our combined pH was approximately a 6. |
| Replens and when |
|
~ |
every other day, CD 8, 10, 12, 14, 16 (O on CD 15) |
no |
| Big O |
|
yes |
no |
no |
| Minerals |
| Calcium |
|
1200mg, drank more milk |
250mg in prenatal and 500mg additional, LOTS of organic milk, yogurt |
in prenatal |
| Magnesium |
|
600mg |
250mg |
~ |
| Potassium |
|
ate less bananas |
none |
~ |
| Sodium |
|
~ |
none |
~ |
| DH minerals |
|
~ |
1000mg Calcium, 500mg Magnesium, NO sodium, NO Potassium |
multivitamin |
| Diet |
| Dietary Changes |
|
Drank less OJ |
Followed the European Girl Diet for 2 months prior to attempt. Slim to none on the chicken breast, mostly approved veggies, loads of egg beaters, strawberries and raspberries. Never ate breakfast and only took my prenatal at night before bed. |
We increased amount of aspertame and cranberries/craisins/cranberry juice. Other than that, we did nothing different. |
| Did you continue diet after attempt/ how long? |
|
~ |
Stopped after O |
~ |
| caffeine |
|
1 or 2 cokes a day |
none at all |
I had approximately 1 caffeinated soda a day |
| DH caffeine |
|
1 or 2 cokes a day |
3-5 small cups in the morning |
2 small cups of coffee and 1 soda per day |
| Hormones |
| Drinks |
|
~ |
~ |
~ |
| Supplements |
|
~ |
Vitex 80mg twice daily, morning and night |
~ |
| Supplements |
| Cranberry |
|
1200mg |
10,000mg from CD 1-10 then 20,000mg from CD 11-15 (CD15 was O date) |
cranberries/craisins/cranberry juice |
| Acidophilus |
|
~ |
2 daily, morning and night |
~ |
| Sudafed |
|
~ |
CD 13, 14, 15 (O day was CD15) |
~ |
| Others |
|
~ |
Prenatal with NO potassium in it and it has 800mcg Folic Acid in it |
~ |
| DH supps |
|
~ |
20,000mg Cranberry, 2 Acidophilus, 850mg Folic Acid, Vit C, Vit E |
cranberries/craisins/cranberry juice, high blood pressure medication |
| Timing |
| BD cutoff (# of days) |
|
4 |
None, BD every day from AF end to 1dpo |
2 days |
| BD thru O |
|
no |
yes |
no |
| O+12 |
|
no |
yes |
we tried, but it might have been more like O+8 |
| Frequent BD/how many days |
|
1 time that cycle |
11 days in a row from AF end through O |
no |
| Charting O with Temp |
|
~ |
yes |
yes |
| Charting O with OPK |
|
yes |
yes, digital OPKs |
yes |
| Fertility monitor used/type |
|
Clearblue Easy and Ovulite |
none |
no |
| suspected O date |
|
Late day 16 or early day 17 of cycle |
Monday, 3/23/09 |
3/6/09 |
| Ions |
| Oed in what moon phase |
|
2 days before new moon |
A few days before the New Moon (but both my boys were conceived either ON the New Moon or a few days after the New Moon) |
I'm not sure?? |
| Changed ions in other ways? |
|
~ |
Negative Ion bracelet on left wrist at all times, hematite bracelet, rose quartz bracelet, mini waterfall in bedroom, negative ion hair dryer, humidifier and fern plant with pink and purple flowers arranged with it. |
none |
| Other |
| How many kids do you have? |
|
2 |
2 |
1 |
| What gender(s)? |
|
both boys |
boys |
boy |
| # of months TTC |
|
~ |
2 |
5 |
| Your Age |
|
33 |
27 |
29 |
| BD position |
|
missionary |
Missionary, DH on top, shallow |
woman on top |
| Jump and dump |
|
hubby pulled out |
Around O time, yes. Sometimes flipped to my tummy right after BD (tilted uterus) |
yes |
| EWCM present/how much? |
|
none-- CM was creamy/sticky |
VERY small amount morning before O |
yes, I had quite a bit of EWCM usually, but this cycle was less than normal |
| DH undies type |
|
boxer briefs |
boxers |
boxers |
| DH hot bath/shower |
|
normal shower 1 hour before BD |
Only on O day did he take a long hot shower right before BD |
no |
| OWT - anything under bed? |
|
~ |
Wooden spoon, pink ribbon under DH's side and Girl outfit we picked out together a few years ago. |
nothing |
| Comments? |
|
Only did supps for about 3 weeks |
The ONLY liquids I drank were- Evian water, organic milk (at least 3 large glasses a day, usually way more), Perrier and crystal light but ONLY mixed with Evian water. Last cycle/month #1 I used Replens AFTER BD in place of a douce and probably killed off all the sperm. I'm glad it didn't work out cause after being on the diet for 2 months, my pH was never above 5.5! I refused to try any douches because I am very sensitive. While I was on the diet 100%, DH was probably doing it 80-90% but did stay away from the forbidden foods at all times. I loaded the house with lavender hand washing soap and lotion as well. I decided to BD through O based on the way my boys were conceived along with majorly changing my diet and environment. My normal way of eating is very much on the "boy diet" as I have a lactose intollerance. I sucked it up for two months and also substituted milk with organic Lactaid. I'm also nursing DS2 twice a day right now. Lots of prayers that we are getting our baby girl!!! |
We were actually "on hold" this cycle since we didn't really want another holiday baby. (Our due date is now only 2 weeks away from DS's bday). However, I O'd about a week earlier than I thought I would, which happened to be our wedding anniversary weekend, so here we are, pregnant again! Also, not sure if this matters in any way, but I did have a chemical pregnancy on December 23, 2008, just 3 months prior. |
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|
|
| Name |
|
Praying4Pnk |
Georgia~peach |
desires of my heart |
| Gender Resulted |
|
girl |
boy |
girl |
| Swaying Attempt - Natural, EGS (TBM, SU, GDC, MSU), High Tech (IUI, IUI/MS), details? |
|
EGS - TBM and natural |
natural |
Started out MSU, ended up doing it more natural |
| pH |
| CM pH |
|
4.3 |
prior to attempt 4.5, then went up to 5.5 after shower!,then back to 4.5 before BD -- up to a 6 the next morning, lowered it to a 4.5 with replens (which was the day of O) |
CM was around 6.25, but without CM about a 4.75 |
| DH pH |
|
8 |
we hadn't checked in while, but it had been 8ish the last time we did |
7.25 - 7.5 |
| Douche type and when |
|
vinegar douche one hour before |
store bought vinegar, 30-45 min prior to BD; 1 f/u douche about 5 min after BD? |
none |
| Replens and when |
|
none |
fingerful, morning of attempt and morning after |
none |
| Big O |
|
no |
no |
no big O for me |
| Minerals |
| Calcium |
|
1000mg |
yes, increased calcium |
yes, I believe it was 1200mg/day (don't have the bottle anymore), DH and I both really upped the calcium |
| Magnesium |
|
200mg< |