You do have many friends here at InGender, but I'm sorry, the "friend request" email was an error.
I am currently testing a new version of the forum software for this site, and creating "friends" is a feature of the new version. Apparently, some emails were sent out by this feature (even though I haven't turned the feature on). So far, the main feature of the new version is that it causes me to say very bad words.
I apologize for the erroneous email.
(If you did get this email, please reply here so I can see how many people it was sent to... please don't let it be all 11,000 of you, I will run out of bad words...)