Grrr... (sorry if this is TMI) I am about 24 weeks, and within the past few weeks my belly has started getting in the way of "things." DH gets really cranky if we don't have sex once a week, so that's what we try to do. Last night I offered to try, mainly because I knew that today he would be working overtime and wanted to help insure that he would have an okay day. I think it backfired. We tried, and he wasn't able to get in a good position long enough to finish. So we gave up (mainly because of a lack of options), and because it was getting late.
He just called me from work (like he always does), and apparently he's having a really crappy day because of this. He basically told me that he's having a bad day because he's still so pent up & frustrated from last night. I was like, "what the heck do you want me to do about this now??" As if I could fix this problem from home. He still has about 8 more hours of work left. He said that he can't talk about it with anyone from work, so he wanted to at least tell me how he feels. So I could feel bad?
I honestly don't care if we have sex the rest of the pregnancy, but he won't be bearable if we don't. We just can't figure out how- and I don't remember how we dealt with this the last 2 pregnancies! (And I'll address this since someone might suggest it- the last time we were successful was with me on my hands & knees but last night even that was uncomfortable.) I don't know what to do!