Hi there! 
I definitely don't think we can put a ton of faith in the guesses we get online. Most of us understand the theory pretty well, yet, we're not medical professionals (except Charliecats) and are making guesses for fun based on what we know. I don't think any of us ever think we're 100% correct. Every once in awhile a "classic" boy or girl nub shows up and there really isn't much doubt. But most of the time, I don't think any of us are totally sure. I think the basic understanding here is that we're giving educated opinions for fun. I wouldn't get devastated or elated over any consensus. Nothing is certain until "the big scan" or birth! 
Here is a great site that answers your questions about the percentages. It was temporarily down at one point, but looks like it's back up. Yay! 
http://baby2see.com/gender/external_genitals.html
I'm going to post some specific info from the site just incase it goes down again. Here you go:
In the study the angle of the genital tubercle was used to assign fetal gender. At 11 weeks there was an error rate of 50% and only 14 of every 100 was assigned correct male gender. In the male fetuses after 12 weeks, there was a significant increase in the angle of the genital tubercle from the horizontal. The accuracy of sex determination increased with gestation.
(This is why Charliecats always says that it's a little early when people post pictures of their nub prior to hitting the 12 week mark.)
Out of a total of 1619 pregnancies; gender was assigned and confirmed in 1424. The table below shows the results in so far for accuracy of fetal gender prediction at a routine first trimester scan.
Results of 'Angle of the 30 degrees' studies
| Weeks of gestation |
11 weeks |
12 weeks |
13 weeks |
14 weeks |
Ability to assign fetal gender % age group |
68% |
88% |
94% |
98% |
Correct identification fetal gender |
50% |
84% |
90% |
94% |
Male fetuses incorrectly assigned as female |
41% |
13% |
8% |
5% |
Female fetuses incorrectly assigned as male |
9% |
3% |
2% |
1% |
Gender correct from 100 baby scans |
34 |
80 |
85 |
92 |
CONCLUSION:
Prenatal gender assignment by ultrasound has a high accuracy rate at 12 to 14 weeks. At 11 weeks there was an error rate of 50% and only 14/100 assigned correct male gender. In the male fetuses after 12 weeks, there was a significant increase in the angle of the genital tubercle from the horizontal. The accuracy of sex determination increased with gestation.