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  • 08-20-2008 5:25 PM

    I don't know how I am going to make it to Dec.

    Don't mean to sound so dramatic but didn't know how else to put it.  I just realized there was a due date forum on here and thought this would be a good place to see if others are feeling the same way or if I am just having an odd week. This is my 3rd baby to carry to viability, 5th pregnancy but I don't ever remember feeling like this at this point.  I am 23 weeks and I feel like there is no way I am going to physically be able to make it to Dec.  I am so exhausted I can't stand myself.  I haven't been sleeping the last few nights, eventhough I am exhausted when I go to bed.  As soon as I get in the bed though, eyes are wide open and last night I layed there 3 hours and then woke 5 times during the night.  With my first pregnany I was working a half day and didn't really require a nap until the end.  With the second, I was at home with my son and required a nap on the weekends because we were always busy and occasionally during the week, when I had time for it.  This time, I don't have a choice about it though, I can't make it through the day without it.  That was actually my first symptom too, much earlier that the other times, I would just fall asleep sitting in the chair, with the kids playing right in front of me.  About ten weeks or so I felt much better but as of the last couple of weeks it has started getting worse again.  The afternoon nap was getting me through but not anymore, I am wiped out.  On top of that I feel as big now, within the last week, as I was at term with the first.  Baby is kicking constantly and hard, which I love, but is also one of the things keeping me awake when I want to sleep.  The baby has been really low, like I can feel her kick below the pubic bone and as of last night that horrible pubic bone pain started when I walk or try to roll over that I didn't get until I was about 7 months with the other two.  I don't know how else to put it, I am so tired.  I am also always a little iron deficient, but have been on iron plus prenatals for the pregnancy and even though this was a surprise baby I had been taking the prenatals before.  I know it's summer and the heat can wear you down, I have been staying out of it and drinking plenty of water.  I take a two hour nap and only wake up because the kids do but I lay on the couch for an hour and watch them play because I feel like I can't drag myself up.  I don't know what else to do.

     I know I read the baby is going to grow about 6 ounces this week or next.  Could this be the reason I feel so cruddy.  This is supposed to be the best part of pregnancy, so I hope this doesn't continue til the end because if so, at this point I don't know how I would even put together a nursery.  Any ideas?  Thanks for listening. 

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  • 08-20-2008 8:18 PM

    Re: I don't know how I am going to make it to Dec.

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    This is my fifth pregnancy and I can definately say that the aches and pains of pregnancy got worse with each one.  Just try to take it easy (sounds like you are).  I wouldn't worry too much about setting up the nursery, the baby probably won't sleep in there until it is a little older.  I don't plan on setting one up until after ours are born.  I keep them in my room for 2-3 months, plus, with 4 other kids, we have to do some rearranging of sleeping areas.

    Good luck, you will be fine.

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  • 08-20-2008 8:45 PM

    Re: I don't know how I am going to make it to Dec.

    I know how you feel.  I work full time, have an almost five and two year old pair of very active sons, and a big house to take care of.  On top of this my mother in law, with whom I'm very close, is very sick with metastatic breast cancer. 

    There are days I could cry at three o clock when I'm at work with no chance for rest and a whole evening of work ahead of me.  Dinner, soccer practice, baths, teeth brushed, laundry, dishes...on and on.  My husband is a God send thank goodness and helps as much as he can but he works 56 hours a week.

    I'm struggling every day, hopefully this baby girl with worth it.

    Lilypie Expecting a baby Ticker Baby Boy 5 Baby Boy 2 Baby Girl coming December 9th 
  • 08-21-2008 9:52 AM

    Re: I don't know how I am going to make it to Dec.

     

    Thanks ladies. I actually slept decent last night and only woke up twice, so feeling a tad better today.  I'm going to be an over night with a couple of friends this weekend, so maybe not having to fill sippy cups and help change pull up will give me a chance to just rest a little.
  • 08-21-2008 4:13 PM

    Re: I don't know how I am going to make it to Dec.

    You will probably all hate me for saying this but I hardly feel pregnant this time.  Had a bad pregnancy with DS1 fainting, high blood pressure, sickness, awful tiredness etc... This time I have had non of that, I was teaching DS1 to do cartwheels the other day.  Guess every pregnancy is different, im sure it will all hit me soon then you can all laugh at me!



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    Baby Boy Due 9th December 2008 (my heart baby)
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