I was wondering what everyone is doing if you didnt get the gender that you wanted this time around are you going to have more kids? If so are you going to sway do high tech?  I myself am seriously cosidering having one more and doing MS/IUI sometime in a couple of years....Just wanted to know how everyone else feels...

I hope I can answer here even though I'm not due in Jan 09!  I didn't get the gender I wanted...well no baby at all, unfortunately, so we are planning to try again naturally but swaying for a boy.  If it's a 4th DD then we'll adopt 2 boys from Russia and if we get pg with a son then we'll adopt one little boy from Russia so he'll have a brother.  Within 5 years we want to have one more bio child and have our adoption(s) completed.