O.k, I really don't know what to do......I'm deff gonna extreme gender sway but I also wanted to use a little backup like either the chinese gender calendar and/or the moon phases.....On the chinese gender calendar off of webwomb.com,which btw is correct with all of my children says that november 08 is gonna be girl, but according to the moon phase for the month of november my bigO day is right around full moon phase......and I know that means boy....what do I do, I am sor nervous and confused!!!! Thanks in advance for your help