There was a joker played by Jack Nicholson in one of the 1st batman movies that isn't quite as scary looking. You might not be able to find it tho. If your son has seen the figure already, you probably could give it to him without the gun. They are constantly showing the new Joker on tv right now, so you can't get away from it. Ask dh what his feelings are on it. Definitely don't take him to see the new movie. My dh said it is very scary and he was glad that he didn't take our six year old. He said that there were some parts that were iffy for our 10 yr old who did get to go. Your son would probably not play out anything too bad with the figure especially since he hasn't seen him in action on the screen. Let us know what you decide.