I have never posted on this forum before.I have however been lurking (is that the correct term) on here since my third son was born 17 months ago.I was very low after the birth because i didn't think i would ever get the little girl of my dreams.I love my son's dearly but like most ladies on here felt i was missing something or someone from my life.My husband finally agreed to try one more time for a girl.This time i wanted to do all that i could to get my daughter,and i found this site.I am very sure that without the advice and information on this site i would be expecting son number 4.But thanks to you all i am expecting my daughter.Alway's keep doing what your doing your all making dreams a reality.Thank's again and i love you all.I will post my attempt in the hope it will help someone else.I was on the girl diet for 9 months ,i took cal,mag and cranberry supplements for 9 months,i cut out caffine completely still have not gone back to drinking real tea or coffee,no fizzy drinks like cola (which i normally drink loads of).I tried tbm for 6 months but did not get pregnant in the end i gave up on tbm.the month before i got pregnant my husband took cranberry and acidophilus supplements still no pregnancy.The month we did get pregnant i had all but given up.However i do believe because of the length of time i was on the diet and supplements i had changed my ph completely.also the month before i took soy isoflavins(really don't think thats the correct spelling but you get the idea) supplement to move oday from day 17 in a 27 day cycle to day 13.The following month i didn't take them but o day was still 2 days early.We were on holiday so dtd quite a lot but only once without protection the day before i o'd.I got up straight away and did jump and dump, I also used a vinegar douche straight after.That's it i hope this all makes sense,Again thank's to you all, oh and by the way my husband thought i was nuts doing all this swaying but he's eating his words now .He also thought he only made boy swimmers, he now think's he's really clever bless him.