Hmmmm  where do i start my middle dd keahna is a MONSTER LOL my eldest and youngest are such good children i just dont know what to do with this child she has made me break down soooo many times i need super nanny!! she is just sooo naughty today she tipped a whole bottle of milk down the drain, poured my washing powder all over the floor put my make up all over her face (tried not to laugh) then to top it off she put my keys in the TOILET!!! and that is just today she is so hard to control i just dont know what i am doing wrong

i love her to bits but she is driving me MAD

I can relate,  I have 2 boys and they are ALWAY into anything they can get their little paw onto.  They must be with me at all times just so I can keep an eye on them.  I think mostly they get into the realy trouble when they are board.  I usually keep them very active to keep them out of trouble.

Good Luck!

You're not alone!!!!  My eldest is 5 going on 13!  I get the eye roll daily, not to mention an attitude with major talk back.  My biggest problem is her taunting her little sister non-stop.  I'm currently taking a parenting class called "Love and Logic", but I'm not sure if it's helping.  My daughter can be so naughty too, but ironically she will tell me every day how much she loves me.  GIRLS!!!!

she is a Strong willed childed.  Doesn't everyone have one? lol.  Here is a great book that helped me a lot

http://www.amazon.com/Strong-Willed-Child-James-C-Dobson/dp/0842359249

Sounds like my 3 year old.  She decided before bed time last night to draw on herself and her sister's sheets.  Then this morning she decides that she's going to break a bottle of syrup on the kitchen floor (plastic bottle thank goodness).  So me and my oldest DD had to find some dirty towels to clean up the syrup so I could mop the floors.  She is so fiesty!  Maybe it's just an age phase they go through?