Hi Nes, for my sway I pretty much followed the seven sway factors recommended by Tamara. I followed the diet pretty strictly, and I also believe timing is important because if you do o+12, this means lower ph and hostile cm which both favour girl. I tracked my cm and cp closely for a few months leading up to our attempts to get a bit of an idea as to when I would ovulate. I also invested in an Ovacue fertility monitor which was great..,expensive though! I used hundreds of opk's and became best friends with my cervix. I also had some ovulation tracking blood tests done as I have pcos, and my gp wanted to check that I was actually releasing an egg. The tracking would give me an idea when ovulation would be soon..they would say ' sometime in the next 24/48 hrs you will ovulate, so I knew from then to watch it like a hawk. That in combination with using the ovacue and monitoring cm, cp and ovulation pain, I could gain a fair idea of when it roughly occurred. Hope this helps...! My sway is also listed in the swaying attempts and outcomes forum.....GL!