Horrible Day.. Angry And Depressed

 I really needed to go grocery shopping today so as soon as I picked up my sons from their Grandma's house, we went straight to the store.  Keep in mind my boys are rough and tumble, so they were dirty and mismatched.  I usually dress my boys to kill because I enjoy getting compliments on how handsome and well dressed they are.  Anyway.. After getting into the store and getting my sons situated (they were still hiped up from spending the day with their grandmother) I ran into a class mate from high school who has always been spoiled rotten and one of those people who always seem to get everything she wants.  Want to know what was in her shopping cart??  Two of the most beautiful little girls I had ever seen, dressed all perfectly and acting like little angels.  She was very polite but as soon as she looked at my sons, I got the "sympathy look."  I HATE THAT LOOK!  I'm sure most of you ladies know exactly what I'm talking about!  She went on to tell me that my sons were cute and I told her genuinely that I thought her daughters were just lovely.  About that time, I noticed she had a little baby bump going on under her perfectly iron white polo shirt.  Her next words after knowing that I had noticed?  "Its a boy!  Can you believe it?  We will finally have the perfect family in a few months!"  

 

Yeah, yeah, yeah, of course its a boy and now she will get to raise both genders.  I get so frustrated when less than kind people always seem to get exactly what they want out of life.  :(  Sorry for the rant and    

She sounds stuck up. Whats with the quip about "the perfect family?" I cant stand people that carry on that way.

For what its worth - I think your sons sound adorable! x 

Liv_J:

Yeah, yeah, yeah, of course its a boy and now she will get to raise both genders.  I get so frustrated when less than kind people always seem to get exactly what they want out of life.  :(  Sorry for the rant 

 

 

And it's always those kind of people, it seems like!  UGH!  I always run into the worst possible person when I'm having a bad day.  Once when ds1 was around 2, he had been up sick almost all night & I was exhausted.  We rolled into the doctors office first thing in the morning and we both looked horrible!!!  Of course, I see one of my friends from HS and she &  her dd are dressed, manicured, & accessorized to perfection! She didn't even speak to me, lol.  She recently sent me a friend request on facebook, and I think it's because she has a new business she's trying to promote.  AS IF I would spend any money on anything her snotty self has to offer!   

 

 I agree, what is with this "perfect family" thing?  If my third one turns out to be a girl OR boy, this is the perfect family for me.  That is one of my pet peeves when people thing that a family with only one gender is less than perfect.

Oh I'm so sorry... How horrible to say the perfect family to you!! I get jealous too when someone finally gets the opposite gender. Just FYI I would have looked at your boys with longing!

I was watchign Dr. Phil yesterday & a 19 year old guy who had molested his little sister had a little girl with his girlfriend. I just found out that I'm having my 3rd boy & I'm tore up about it. Why is life so unfair?

For what it's worth, for those people that seem to have the perfect problem free life...you never really know what happens behind closed doors. Maybe her life looks perfect, but who knows what her life is really like and what really goes on in her head. :/ Anyway, I hope you have a better day. *hugs*

Well, let's just say that her perfectly ironed polo shirt won't be so perfect anymore when the little one comes :)

Seb2011:

For what it's worth, for those people that seem to have the perfect problem free life...you never really know what happens behind closed doors. Maybe her life looks perfect, but who knows what her life is really like and what really goes on in her head

 

Totally agree with this. You never know whats going on. I remember when i had my second DS, a friend of mine also had her second child, a girl after a boy. Of course I was totally jealous and thought well I guess "she just has everything and her life must be perfect". Well I Iater found out that she had horrible post partum depression. It was so bad she had suicidal thoughts. So the whole first year of her baby girls life she was miserable. She still suffers bad depression today. I had a wonderful first year with my DS2. So you just never know.