I think like some pps said if the people are itiots to begin with then they say dumb comments about 2 or more of the same gender.
I notice if a women or man is a nice person they do not say dumb comments about my 3 daughters. Right off the bat if I get a dumb comment, I know that they are that type of competative or rude type of person. Or with some it can be because the have 2 or more of the same gender and it bothers them so they have to comment to other people that never got the opposite gender.
I have been home for 2 years and let the GD tear me apart so bad that I stopped going everywhere.
Now I am ready to go out there and deal and have comebacks for the comments.
Last I got "oh 3 girls" and I quickly changed the subject and said "yes sisters".
Or one said the same thing and I said yes they are so close and sisters. I did not even let them get the chance to say something dumb.
Some say like "crazy". Or some say "wow".
It can just mean so many different things.
Some may have a girl and a boy and find that their girl is so hard and then when they find out you have 3 they cannot imagine how you do it. Some may feel that way about their sons.
A simple knod or I do not know answer is good.
Your poor husband- No actually my husband is very happy.
Or say I am so glad you know exactly what my hopes and dreams were.
It depends also if it comes from somebody in the school that you have to see daily.