I agree and tbh, lately, I've been concerned about people's reactions if my #3 is a girl because I will be tempted to slap someone (j/k, I don't need anger management) if they stand there and gush over my 'sweet baby girl' and completely ignore my boys. It will really irritate me! I don't know if I will be able to keep my mouth shut actually.
I know, people will always focus more on the youngest and I get it. Babies are cute and sweet and just naturally draw more attention than a 3 year old or a 10 year old, but I will be defensive all the same.
I don't think I've ever had gd, but I do know there was a time when I did have gd for a daughter (and I still do, to some extent) but the desire is very muted and I get just as excited about adding another boy, so I feel like I'm in an excellent place, BUT I still can't deal with people's comments. I don't know why I let it get to me so much but it drives me crazy when people make boy bashing comments! I wish I could learn to just accept that these people are idiots and move on and not let it get me down.