Ok before having kids I always wanted a large family of girls and boys, but married hubby who only wanted two, he compromised to 3. after I got pregnant with my third I said well this is my last pregnancy, thank God I'm not going to put my body through this again (it was a rough pregnancy, bed rest and all), BUT after I found out it was a baby girl I was willing to try one more time.
None of my girls were attempts for a boy, but if I get pregnant a 4th time it would specifically to try for a boy which I don't think it's a good idea. However I'm getting old and I'm tired. What if get a boy but lose my sanity, what if get another girl and then want a 5th??? does it ever end???
in any case, hubby is determined to stop at 3 and I don't blame him, it's a LOT of work. But how about you???
is your husband on board with trying again and again??? Are you willing to try again and again??? also if you don't mind me asking, how old are you mommies, I turned 36 this past Feb.
******ETA: By the way when I say lose my sanity it's because I would have 4 CHILDREN, NOT because it's a boy, just to clarify.*****