We lost our sweet little Joshua at 32 weeks, due to a full placenta abruption in 11/2010 and are currently expecting again, due 10/2012. Although we are excited, we are reserved with the fear of having to give this baby back, as well.
I did a lot of praying and counseling before we conceived and was actually shocked when a pregnancy test came back positive, after a blood test 2 weeks beforehand, saying no baby.
I do see a high risk OB this time around, and so far so good. I have great pregnancies until I hit my magic # of 32 weeks. My first son was born emergency Csection at 35 weeks, but stopped growing at 32 weeks (due to pregnancy induced hypertension, pre-eclampsia) He spent 9 days in the NICU and hasn't slowed down since. He's now a happy and healthy 5 year old.
Does anyone have any success stories after a loss to share, to help the positive thoughts?