I am PG with #5. anyone else???

So 4 years ago i was so into this TTC a GIRL.. and after we had our Girl. We were DONE. i mean we have 4 kids. 3 Boys 9 and twins 7. + my DD will be 4 in August. Last Friday i missed my period adn i did not think anything off it.. Well took a test on Tuesday and surprise.. I was sure we were done so i called my Gyno and sceduled an Abortion for this Wed. I know me and i know i wound be able to live with that decision.. so we are keeping her/him. i am so afraid of what people are gona think that i am so worried i cant start enjoying this PG. can anyone talk me thru this.. i am just so stressed and scared. + we are starting from scretch.. i gave all my baby stuff away.. We have nothing... that sucks.. i want to be happy abouth this but i am just so worried.. am i nuts??

anyone else PG with #5

Thanks for letting me Vent

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we're pregnant with number 8 over here. not planned, dd was only 5 months old when oops happened. so no i didn't really have to start over again but then i learned its a BOY! im thrilled to finally get a son but yes its so stressful. i've had nothing but girls so everything i own is pink. the car seat, the stroller, the toys, the high chair. we have no clothes. my family won't speak to me anymore. they think im crazy and since i wouldn't take them up on their offer to pay for my abortion im kinda on my own.

   sometimes there isn't enough mom to go around. my husband works all he can to provide us with a roof. but im drained. with a 9 month old, a two year old. 3 girls in school and now im 24 weeks pregnant and measuring 27 weeks im an elephant. sometimes i feel like i can't do it anymore. sometimes i want to cry. sometimes i wonder if my sanity is worth the price of this long awaited boy.

   i hear you loud and clear sweetie, vent away. i get everything you just said. hugs.

I'm expecting #4 but we gave away everything last year too as we were unsure of number 4 So i sold everything. If this one is a girl- we have nothing or a boy lol You will get thru it!

Hi girls first of all want to say Big Congrats for having the brave decisson to keep your baby and wont do the abortion....it might be hard to have new baby but girls comeon no one will raise this child other then you and just dont listen to people or family who pushes you for abortion at the end these are our children you and your partners will supprt your own family ....maybe when little ones grow abit you might work and support the partner. Good luck all

I gave everything away after baby #2...and then again with #3....and then again after #4....Now I sooooo wish I was pregnant with #5. 

I love having a good amount of space between kids.  I know you'll be thrilled soon. Good luck!!!

I am pg with #5! it was planned, but are so excited. Sounds like you are still in a bit of shock and that is understandable. This baby is here in your lives for a reason! Try to embrace that. I think when it sinks in, you will be anticipating life with a new little one. babies need so little these days. Fnd people who will let you borrow stuff. keep us psted! We are probably due around the same time!

CONGRATS!!!  I am pregnant with #5 as well.  We were going to stop at 4, but then last year we got pregnant unexpectedly and then lost him at 16/17 weeks.  Going through delivery and not being able to bring home my baby was pretty upsetting, so we put off DH's vasectomy until we were sure we were happy again at 4.  Then, this past Oct. I found out I was pregnant and we were happy, but I lost that one too.  I went to my yearly visit in Jan and found out we were pregnant again 2 months after our 2nd loss.  This pregnancy has been progressing normally, so we have have hope to bring home #5 this time :)

I have 4 wonderful boys, my baby is only 9 months old. And I am pregant with baby number 5. I am 10 weeks, so i my baby was only 7 months when I got pregnant and it was a shock. Was not expecting baby number 5 anytime soon. All my kids are 3 to 6 years apart, this will be the only two are close in age. But I am so hoping for a girl this time. I would love a daughter. But will be happy no matter what. And this one will probably be my last. My family was a little upset to find out I am pregnant again, but they all got over it. Like I tell them its mylife and I am the one who has to raise them.

Im not pregnant with #5, i just had my 5th. He is 2 weeks old now and he was a huge surprise when i found out i was pregnant, i had literally just had a baby! Our new baby was just under 3weeks early so there is only 11month between ds4 & ds5. I do have experience of such a small age gap though as ds2 & ds3 are only 12 & 1/2 month apart ( though they were planned that close together) anyway my point is i can understand the shock you must be feeling at the moment but give yourself time and you will be fine. It might be helpful that there will be a good age gap between this baby and your last. Ive never had more than 2 &1/2 years between my boys.

Wow! Congrats!!!  Your baby is seriously adorable!!!! :)

hi merima..i think i remember you form back 4 years ago we both were having our daughters...lol..i also remember fivebabies....i knew i wasn;t completely done with 4 not b ecasue i wanted more kids but becasue i finnaly had my dd she has just turned 4 at the end of apriland i am despaerate to give her a companian for life.... well, here i am pg with #5 and although this particular baby wasn't planned by me as i decided last month to stop obessing with timing and all and was told i was not even ovualting i would have never thought i would fall pg just like that...when least expected...

like you i am desperate for another daughter....hence why i knew i was never really done...i so wish for a sister for my dd's sake...no other reaon at all...and some my old posts talk about that fact extensively.....

i came on and off during the last 2 years to annouce chemicals and false alarms...it was only lately i found i suffered PCOS. i actually thought it may take me another couple of months and even if i were to fall pregnant i may mc again..that fear is till with me as i am currently only 5weeks and 4 days along.

i had two pychics tell me that they were 100% this will e another girl cherry and another pychic 5 years ago also predicted my dd to be a gril and cherry even told me the next one will be too...at the time i wasn;t totally sure i could convince dh again for another one.....but this pychic i got in contact with also predicted girl was betting her money that it was....i can only hope and wish she is right as i do feel i cannot envisage mysefl with a boy not at all......and tbh i don't want to.....i know i know the what if's buit for now i am enjoying the fact i do not know and i only belive it can be a girl....but yes this pregancy has already started with alot of fear....

i took all in all almost 20pg test to date....my lines are dark were dark form 12dpo so have had this vision that i may have twins...(lol...i should be so lucky esp if they were girls)....but i am hoping it just means more girly hormone.....:)...try and relaxt and i am sure everything is going to be alright...i know i could have a little blue bundle groiwng in there.....but i won;t let that spoil the fact i fell pg so far no spotting or bleeding...unlike last time.....so for now i am greatful for that......

BTW hubby knew i was hoping for another one i think he thinks we will 'maybe' have another one or 'not at all' in the future another 2-3 years or so....i don't think he actually is prepared for another one just yet or if ever...and guess what i haven't even told him yet...."!!!!!!!lol

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we're pregnant with number 8 over here. not planned, dd was only 5 months old when oops happened. so no i didn't really have to start over again but then i learned its a BOY! im thrilled to finally get a son but yes its so stressful. i've had nothing but girls so everything i own is pink. the car seat, the stroller, the toys, the high chair. we have no clothes. my family won't speak to me anymore. they think im crazy and since i wouldn't take them up on their offer to pay for my abortion im kinda on my own.

   sometimes there isn't enough mom to go around. my husband works all he can to provide us with a roof. but im drained. with a 9 month old, a two year old. 3 girls in school and now im 24 weeks pregnant and measuring 27 weeks im an elephant. sometimes i feel like i can't do it anymore. sometimes i want to cry. sometimes i wonder if my sanity is worth the price of this long awaited boy.

   i hear you loud and clear sweetie, vent away. i get everything you just said. hugs.

Oh my god! Let me first say I admire you and your family and I wish the very very best to all of you

                                                                            *BIG HUGS*

I am pregnant with number 4, but can totally relate to you! I was told i was having a boy at first, and this being my last baby scene we were finally getting our boy i took ALL my baby girl stuff to a second hand baby shops and traded it ALL in to get a bunch of blue! Now at 32 weeks finding out it is in fact a girl i was pretty screwed and believe me ticked off!!! but i am now 36 weeks, and have had a chance to reload on all the pink and now that i have it I’m a pretty happy mama i have had a lot of friends that have given me hand me downs as well, do you have other friends with kids?? That’s a great way to stoke up!